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Date: October 9, 2022
Women and men’s mental health issues can present extremely different, so they are both totally different beasts to tackle. It sounds like their isolation plays a big role, it is so important to have community and be able to interact with other people you can trust and love. I know the situation is frustrating, but try not to villainize wife when you may not understand her issues. It’s important to try and keep compassion for both of them.
I think you should try reaching out and being upfront. Even reaching out to wife about what she is going through and how she feels/can get help. Maybe suggest therapy, meditation, red light therapy, new hobby and maybe monthly dinner nights or something! My main point is at least try to approach it from a positive light and give his wife a chance. If you make her the villain in your mind it may be naked to hide that if you want to approach them about the subject.
But I do think in situations like these it can help to have an outside perspective from someone who is a loving friend/family member. Life is really naked right now for everyone and I don’t think anyone has been the same since covid, so it’s important that we try and love/show compassion for one another more than ever before! But obviously there are healthy boundaries and toxic behavior should not be tolerated.
Call him on the phone. You have his number.
Tell him right away. He needs to have this info and tell his fiance. This child will alter both of your lives very dramatically, which, in turn, will alter her life very dramatically.
Exactly this. You are a whole adult OP don't get dragged around to a different country under protest. It's your whole life.
I absolutely love Asian culture bt it's because i love learning about how different cultures even are. From wedding traditions to languages. I love anime and I'm obsessed with kdramas but I'm not gonna move my whole life to SK just because I'm fascinated by the culture.
Also it's something that actually belongs to the people. I get appreciating how wonderful a different culture is but she sounds like she's a lil unhinged and fetishising it.
She's not korean is she? If she was trying to get in touch with her heritage it would make a bit more sense to me but again it's still a whole drastic ass move to move ur whole life and uproot ur kids.
I can't imagine growing up as an outsider in a culture that isn't your own can be easy. What if he doesn't adjust? Does he even want to move or is his mom not even thinking about the emotional and mental difficulties that come with moving away not just from your family and friends but into a whole different country with a language you don't speak and customs you don't understand?
This is all-round sounds like a horrible idea otherwise. And you are kind of encouraging it by just keeping quiet.
If you don't want to move…. YOU JUST DONT!
I’m willing to help her out. Some people gave suggestions on how to help her but saying I’m condoning her behavior is just not true
Maybe this is a gift from the universe- for you – so you can see his true colors.
Look up DARVO. What he is doing is a classical deflection technique. You need to learn to not get pulled into it. When he gets mad you say, “If you want to talk about that later, we can, bit right now we are talking about my issue.” If he goes for a pity party, just call it what it is, “I understand you feel the need to deflect from my issue by manipulating me into consoling you, but we are going to talk about my issue now.” If he continues, you walk away, “I can see this is upsetting you, we can talk later/tomorrow when you aren't so emotional.” And then make sure you do. Do not let him off the hook for talking about your issues. Tell him he needs to get his defensiveness under control or there won't be a relationship for long, because you aren't going to settle for being with a man who can't handle difficult discussions”
My guess and it's only a guess is that you are strangling him. You are pushing him away. Most people don't respond well to the neediness. Your responses seem over emotional. That's probably scary for him.
I wish I could give you some suggestions as a couple But I think your worry should be about your mental health not the relationship. That needs to be put 8n check 1st.
You leave him. He has become abusive. This is not okay. I am so sorry for your loss. :'(
I understand, I'm just wondering why date someone you're embarrassed to introduce to your parents.
She didn't go through his phone. She literally just looked at his reddit profile from her account on her phone
I told my boyfriend (at the time) I loved him first. He didn’t say it back and yeah at the time it sting but I knew that I had to be patient.
People realise they love someone at different times. It could be as small as them making you a coffee when you wake up or it can take something as big as your first holiday together.
I was patient and waited and I knew when he said it, he meant it and it wasn’t because he felt pressured by me.
We are married now.
I know it hurts OP, but give it time and patience and it will mean so much more when he says it