I have an ex who was constantly late and even when I would bring up how much this bothers me he would say he feels disrespected having to stick to my time constraints and it bothers HIM to be on time. Suffice to say, that was a warning sign of what was to come and I would take this person at face value. Heโs actively telling you he wants you to be his responsible adult because he doesnโt want to be.
I have an ex who was constantly late and even when I would bring up how much this bothers me he would say he feels disrespected having to stick to my time constraints and it bothers HIM to be on time. Suffice to say, that was a warning sign of what was to come and I would take this person at face value. Heโs actively telling you he wants you to be his responsible adult because he doesnโt want to be.