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Yeah, sometimes we just grow up and apart from people. There’s nothing wrong with having your paths diverge. Put some space between you and them so that you can think without too much undue influence.
If you think #1 could get violent if you end your friendship, that should be a sign that the friendship isn’t healthy or good for you. I hope you’re able to get closer with people who are going more in the same direction as you, people who can help you grow and challenge yourself.
He isn't interested. Wake up! His excuses are just attempts not to hurt you.
Dude be a man!!! First off a 5 year age difference is not a big deal. Second off if she means that much to you you'll figure out how to online closer. Man up and tell her how you feel. She could be the love of your life and you're just sitting on the sidelines. So what if she doesn't feel the same. If she doesn't she lives far away and you've already gone months without talking.
Are Andy and Andrew officially dating? If so, you have a duty to your friend to report your other friends' infidelity, although be prepared for them not to believe you. Maybe you can get some proof like text messages or record a conversation (first google recording consent laws where you online). And if there thing is more casual you might still want to tell him… he deserves to know.
You would clearly feel uncomfortable going through with the threesome, so you should not do it.
Try get some evidence. It will help.
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Sweetheart. I get that you have blinders on because he's your brother.
He already knows its wrong.
You can't do anything to stop it. Watch out at family gatherings if he's around children.
Decent people don't do this. He is a bad person. He is judgemental, sexist, and manipulative. You can do much, much better.
I wish I hadn’t read this… I’d be leaving the relationship and blocking him from life if I was you. I would also tell a family member close to the daughter about his comments and to keep an eye on her…
My question is should their be a 4th chance?
No.
we don’t make enough to pay for what we owe, we don’t want to take out student loans and our semester billing would be cut in half making it so much affordable as well as fasfa would help a lot more too.
Brother was reached immediately.
Examples: – bad faces – being called dirty when my wife told the baby not to put the TV remote on his mouth – opening the fridge without asking – using subtle tones of voice that mean disrespect
It’s tough, parents are important to me but we aren’t in the best place right now for this reason and because I’ve been struggling to get into grad school( which finally happened, but it took a mental toll lol)
What do you mean? I'm the gaslighter or he is?
Yeah unless he’s a personal trainer I wouldn’t want my boyfriend to workout with another woman. And honestly personal trainer men like to sleep with their clients a lot so I wouldn’t feel comfortable about that either lol OP
get petty cut off his streaming servvices with your phone lol
no power no streaming
^ Take this comment serious.
Ehh your husband sounds like an asshole. Idk I don’t trust people who don’t treat animals well. But, at the same time, you can’t force him to enjoy having a pet and dog deserves better than an owner who hates it. Do you think your husband would ever hurt the dog while you’re not around? I would be heartbroken without animals in my life, but it sounds like it may be your only real option. Maybe he would compromise on a different type of pet? Reptile? Fish? Hamster?
Why are you so mad? He's in but not using the right words?
Take a step back. Take a breath. And ask yourself what's more important? Acts. Day to day proof. Or words?
Why is it so important to hear those exact words?
And if it's really a deal breaker? if he doesn't say those three words… are you going to break up with him? If so? Why aren't you talking to him about it? Tell him how important it is to you?
And, if I read this correctly… you're mad that he won't “man up and say it” but… you haven't said it either because of a past relationship? You're more concerned about playing a game of “chicken” than communicating in *THIS* relationship, telling him you love him and asking him to say the same?
I mean… shit… just say it to him already. “I love you. Please say you love me as I'm desperate to hear you say it”.
Lol, the age gap is likely WHY she has it better than most.
She's a terrible girlfriend but he has his day scheduled to the second and except for phone calls I don't see where he mentions they ever see each other or do anything but have 3 phone calls a day, which is…what do you even say at that point? He could see her once a week for an hour insead of “talking to his parents” scheduled time
Give him his baby and you leave him with the rest of his children.
Why should he have to suffer?
If I was him I would take that baby and all the kids.
Stop doing what, exactly? Standing up for yourself?
Yeah, I get bikini waxes every month. It started out as wanting to be bare for intimacy, but overtime I've realized I prefer being hairless down there.
It sounds like something you arent into, and if that's the case will be a cause for strife in your relationship.
Take it from a 50m who faced similar situations, You are 20, and frankly have your whole life ahead of you. While your fiance is likely a wonderful person, sounds like there is someone better out there for you.
I've got tons of friends my age (men and women) who divorced because they thought they could 'tame' their partner early on, but it turned out they weren't compatible enough. I'm sorry but it is a losing battle in the end. Consider separating now before you are financially tied to one another, have a house, kids, etc. It gets messier the longer it goes on.
I feel the same way about alcohol. I don’t have the option of being to forget what happened the night before
Trust me, I'm just figuring this out at the same time you are. I honestly just thought my fiance was overreacting, so I posted and I wrote whatever gave me least discomfort. Then, when I started arguing with people, I thought to myself why am I am fighting these people, I shouldn't care about this anymore.
Then it all started coming. We sat together and she helped me through this and finally I started to get it.
Nice, you’re not losing anyone of value & its better it happened sooner rather than later.
You should talk to them. You should explain the pain that their selfish behaviour has caused you. Get it all out in the open. Leave nothing unsaid. Then tell them they aren’t invited to the wedding. And maybe for your own mental health go NC. Close that chapter for good, and start a new chapter with your fiancée
The recurring theme would be the escalation of blowing up when I raise something about what she is doing that I am not keen on.
She is generally considerate of my work and has even mentioned getting another bed in a different room for me to sleep in when we move, for when the baby is being difficult and loud during the night. I don't expect this at all, but really struggling getting to the heart of the issue with her around feeling like I can't raise an issue without her blowing up.
I’m mono. There’s no question that marriage comes with sacrifice. However, the benefits of marriage outweigh the negatives, which is why I want to get married someday.
Nope, you've given them plenty of time already. Quit letting them waste yours…
To be fair it’s on a Tuesday. Not the most romantic day of the week. Why don’t you have a lowkey day on the 14th and plan a date night for that weekend?
I don’t man, Roblox aside, it sounds like you’re dating a a child. The way she is acting is not okay
There is only one word that comes to mind for you OP: delusional.
You are not mature at all, online another 10 years. Avoid getting played by the smooth talking 2 cent guru and then come back to say something like that.
Be honest with your current bf, cut contacts with your daddy and grow up.
This might be a dealbreaker situation. I’d guess both of you might resent the other if you bend – there’s really no wiggle room here.
The 1st thing that came to my head was that she saw the attention the other 2 were getting and wasnt having it too. Thanks for putting it so well onto words.
Thank you.for being one of the sane ones.
You are good. Take a victory lap.
Even with your edit, you should still flat out tell her. Stop worrying about making it perfect. If you have that mindset then you’ll keep putting it off and you’ll be hurting yourself and her more. And she should also have an input about what not being in a relationship will be like. And you guys might decide to online separately and go to counseling (marriage and individually) to see if things can be worked out. And, if they can’t be, it might just be nice to work things out in a way that the two of you can coparent peacefully.
Possibly true but waiting lists for non-urgent things can be really long so people do opt to go private if they can. If it’s something like a hip replacement you can be waiting months.
Let her go. Your goals aren’t compatible.
You will both be unhappy otherwise.
He doesn't agree that people are people and that everyone deserves the same human rights. That's a huge deal breaker. He's a gross person who is trying to hide his shitty and vile world views behind a “politics doesn't matter” defense.
Politics don't matter to HIM because they don't affect HIS life. But the shit he supports actively strips human rights from other people and tries to force everyone to conform to his narrow world view. That is vile and oppressive. It's hilarious but predicable that he's crying oppression when his views are the ones that oppress.
He's an asshole with bad ideas. Absolutely dump his ass and let him know why.
Don't date conservatives. Don't date people who say they “aren't political” or are “socially liberal and fiscally conservative.” These are all cop outs to protect them from the rights consequences of their vile world views.
Yeah, how dare people want to be treated equally
Right but the kid was going to become the brothers stepdaughter. The kid is in no way (legally or blood) related to this couple, and has a father that is shirking his actual responsibility.
Thanks guys, real treat. Appreciate the advice
Tell her and also…time for “Vigilante Shit” by Taylor Swift on repeat.
You have no moral obligation to try to work it out with someone who is clearly acting in bad faith. She had multiple chances to come clean to you and she did not. She clearly thought that she was home free when you decided not to listen to Tom the first time, and is now only displaying remorse now that she’s been caught. Chances are any form of therapy or counselling will just be another extended performance designed to manipulate you and make you feel responsible for HER poor choices. Please don’t fall for it – after this is over, you can devote some time and therapy to figuring out why you keep choosing the same kind of person (as you said), on your own and well away from the influence of someone that not only doesn’t care about you, but sounds actively malicious.
Trust is gone. Now all those times you thought, “she just went to hang out with Tom” you're gonna be wondering, was she doing the same shit at other times? Every time she goes out with friends, you're gonna be wondering wtf is she doing? Honestly, you should just cut your losses here bro. It's not worth the mental torture, all while she is sobbing and grovelling, trying to excuse her way back into your life.
Therapy, phone access, control who she sees and where she goes etc. None of that is going to work and honestly what kind of relationship would that be? You want an adult relationship, not be an adult babysitter.
Sorry this happened to you. Good luck with whatever decision you make. It's going to be a difficult one.
Dump his ass. Instead of reassuring you by saying “it’s no one” (if that really was the case), he threw negativity at you and was deceitful.
Yes, because you’d want to know, but you cannot share any explicit pictures from their chats as that may land you in legal trouble.
Blaming you. Anger while driving. Bad times. ????
How long ago did his mom die? Did all of this start then?
“I’m worried about things and would like to talk. I’ve noticed a pattern and hope we can figure out what we can do.”