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Back to the empathy and not using other people's weaknesses argument, aren't we?
Be patient. If she doesn't respond after a day or two, follow by asking how she's doing. Go from there.
No doubt it's odd to want to use the same name, but your reaction seems completely disproportionate, and your interpretation contrived.
At 18, you're now adult, so act like one and calmly tell your Dad and Laura why this upsets you so much, and work through it.
i did that for a while. and he started telling me how he wants a woman that takes care of him and that his mom always puts his food on a plate for him and that it’s a sign of love. i told him loud and clear that maybe it’s a sign of his mom’s love, but that’s not how i show my love and it makes me feel like i have a baby. he only wants his mom’s love it’s so weird otherwise he leaves. i am scared of abandonment and every time i brought that up he was very much “well if you don’t treat me how i want to be treated bye”
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I never wanted to break up with her. I feel like if they really were interested in being together, they would be. She would have broken up with me, surely. Thanks for your input though ?
How does that help the child?
Even if OP doesn’t see him as a son anymore, that child has seen OP as a father for 15 years.
You can’t just undo that. Just bouncing from a child’s life is a way bigger sin than cheating.
How does that help the child?
Even if OP doesn’t see him as a son anymore, that child has seen OP as a father for 15 years.
You can’t just undo that. Just bouncing from a child’s life is a way bigger sin than cheating.
How does that help the child?
Even if OP doesn’t see him as a son anymore, that child has seen OP as a father for 15 years.
You can’t just undo that. Just bouncing from a child’s life is a way bigger sin than cheating.
Minimum respect would be not letting you have sex on dirty sheets and use a brown toilet, no?
Anyway, just be careful and don't let this horror show of a home be your base – and please, do not clean it for him.
My first thoughts were 1) he's lying, 2) he's incredibly sheltered or 3) he has a mental health disorder and most people shy away due to other behaviors he exhibits. It's pretty obvious OP is desperate to give him a free pass, despite him repeatedly hurting her and ignoring boundaries.
Don't get back with her.
You've heard of people catching false accusations before right?
What kind if people would do that to someone?
Your ex that's who. Either independently or led to it by a vindictive friend.
What do you mean you send her money? You don’t online together?
You've identified the crux of my dilemma perfectly.
I've dated women before who I found jaw dropping. Most I didn't feel a strong emotional connection with, so I had no intention of ever marrying them. Looks are not the most important thing when it comes to a life partner, obviously.
There was one exception, someone I was incredibly physically attracted to, and also felt a deep emotional connection with. But the relationship didn't last, and in retrospect, it was a good thing it didn't. We weren't right for each other. It was more a temporary infatuation between us. Lust, not love.
The quality in a relationship I think best leads to longevity is emotional connection. Do you enjoy one another's company? Do you share the same values on key issues? Are you best friends? Is this someone who would stand beside you through thick and thin and everything life will throw at you? On those fronts, in regards to my current relationship, the answer is unequivocally yes.
Yet I can't shake the worry that I could find the “set your nerves on fire” physically connection to go along with the emotional one. And at the same time, I also can't shake the worry that maybe these concerns are just a manifestation of some unrecognized commitment issues. Maybe I'm just neurotic.
At the end of the day, I probably won't find the answer I'm looking for on reddit. I recognize this. And yet I feel such inner turmoil over my current situation that I needed an outlet to vent and to seek advice.
Be a decent person to yourself.
Dude, you got excited about her fantasy and you're hoping it's reality? 5 months is too early to fully engage in that level of play. You need to earn that. Keep it in the back of your mind as your relationship progresses.
You're 24… move out. No more arguments.
You could say that about literally any roleplay. “How can we accomplish the thrill of you being my nurse if I know you don't ACTUALLY practice medicine?????”
I like cheating porn, don't really know why. I'd NEVER cheat on a partner; I find it disgusting. I think there's a real difference between a kink and a lapse in morality.
Basically, you’ve just asked us: how can I keep walking the same line but yet do better for my children?
You can’t. Like many have already told you. My heart is broken for your children. I know the aftermath of a raising like yours, and while I really want to yell at you, ask you wtf is wrong with you, I don’t think it will help or make you change. May your children have the strength to do better for their children, and may they have the money for the mountains of therapy they’ll need to develop the tools you never gave to them. May they rise above you and your husbands hatred, and may they continue to have the strength to protect themselves by keeping you and your husband at more than an arm’s length. You’re reaping what you’ve sown. Your children deserve so much better than you and your husband. I hope they get it.
Worse yet, she has passively accepted and been a part of the abuse her husband has subjected his kids to, even if it is unwitting.
Life to too short, OP. Your husband is more concerned with optics than treating family with respect and love. What kind of life are you living, with a man like that? What life do you want to online? One on punishing your kids for how they ought to be, but aren't? Or one where ypu show them love and acceptance for who they are and who their families are?
Yeah, we very explicitly talk about about being boyfriend and girlfriend openly. Our friends, family, and coworkers all know which has been nice. I’m trying to be understanding that he might not be there yet with “I love you’s” but I felt for me personally that I was ready.
Wtf. I'm married and use toys with and without my husband. They make things fun. Your bf is insecure. Keep the toy, dump the dude.
You should focus on your relationship and build trust to be honest
She works and only pays her car payment, but comes to you for money for car troubles? Where does all her monet go?
Don't call her. She is using you for an ATM. Don't give her any more money. She has her own.
No reason to stay. If something bothers you this much your relationships will deteriorate anyway, but it would be longer and more pain
She is absolutely a functional alcoholic. If you need some advice, or understanding please feel free to ask. I have no problem sharingy knowledge, and experience with this kind of thing.
She has to have a reality check!!!! It is okay to have things you love and you are passionate about but it is another thing to think that you are above everyone else and try to minimize them. She is a narcissist that discusses herself as an “artist”. That doesn't make you look like a cultural, wise person it just makes you look like a snob. It is not that she has high standards it is that she thinks that she is above everyone else!!! While sexually she has things to solve, also she has to have consideration to other people if she wants to be respected. Don't stay in a toxic relationship/situationship like that!!! Find someone that is more grounded and humble!!!
Nope. That he was willing to treat you with such fury in public that a stranger came to your aid is more than a red flag.
This guy is manipulative and abusive, and it will only get worse. He knew exactly what he was doing when he refused to tell you you’re the prettiest & then comparing you to your mom. He’s intentionally preying on your insecurities.
I don’t care if all the rest of the time he’s professing his undying love. He does not online you. He’s cruel & he’s scary.
You’ve only been dating 9 months. He’s just warming up. Get out now.
Lol your so incredibly naive it’s almost laughable if it wasn’t so sad
There r many people out there without brain injuries who share the same values and click. Start there
Dude she obviously cheated on you get your head out of your ass
I will mention it to her. From what I understand it would be an extremely rare circumstance. I remember seeing a case where a woman was paralyzed in a car accident and her mother died in the accident as well and they still didn't dismiss the loan… but it is worth a shot.
he seems mature for his age. I've never heard of this before most men his age are out dating and doing anything and everything.
Your comments seem like a red flag. He has major responsibilities at home and hasn't had much opportunity or want to date. Go out on a proper date. See how it goes.
Against the grain of all the comments, I'm gonna say that you have done nothing wrong.
What's problematic in the relationship isn't that you made plans, but that you have different ideas of what to communicate with one another. My parents book multi day solo trips all the time and tell each other after the plan is already made. They only tell each other to make sure they can make childcare plans, never to dissuade the other from taking a trip. I would not be with someone who would question my decision making, especially if we don't have plans that day anyway, and if there are no kids involved.
Everyone is focusing on the volunteering aspect of your post and ignoring your actual question. Your question is whether you did something unreasonable by going to a nearby town for a day without telling your partner, and the answer is no. The danger of the location can be discussed, but his issue with you not asking him first is as ridiculous as asking for his permission to stop by Starbucks on the way to work.
We talk sometimes during the day but he’s mostly been calling me late at unusual times he’s never called me and knows I’m asleep and has been getting pissed at me for not answering the phone at those unusual times.
You can see the scars in porn… I'm guessing guys probably aren't looking at that part of it though
I'll never judge someone for doing what they can to feed themselves and/or their families. Nor will i ever judge the women who have been trafficked. Or the schoolgirls who are being sold in garage boxes to grown men.
I'll judge the fuck out of punters.
This is me too – I've known a couple of men who openly 'used' (and I say used deliberately) sex workers. They had utter contempt for those women. Didn't even see them as human.
The women themselves have all my respect, the men who abuse them – none
Has your girlfriend had a sexual experience with a woman? Have the women she cuddles had sexual experiences with women?
“I’m not excusing homophobia HOWEVER… (explains why it’s the victims fault)”
OP, I think you do need to STOP with the joke about making her your sugar mama, and you kept pressing the point even after she blew up at you the first time.
Maybe in your next relationship, you learn the cues from your future partner. If they're sensitive about a specific thing/trauma, don't use that as a joke and continue on doing it. This type of behavior is not always a dealbreaker to some people (after all she's still with you) but yeah, you probably will keep on having argument with her, if this is how you're going to do it, y'know.
You guys are probably not compatible. So many red flags that I read from your post, you're contradicting yourself:
I love her, but I feel numb.
When we are not arguing we get on like a house on fire.
How is 'house on fire' good? LOL. Anyway. It's only been 8 months, you can still untangle yourself. It doesn't sound like it's 'worth' it for you, since even your therapist thinks you're 'walking on eggshells.'
Yeah, but that’s the thing: saying as much would be stating the obvious, so it shouldn’t be that difficult to say as much when asked.
that shrug was, “we'll take about pray the gay away camp if that happens”
You don’t DESERVE anything.
I feel you it is frustrating reading about someone taking literal abuse from a partner. Them getting treated like shit and stl trying to make a relationship like this work.
Why?!
But some people are honestly just so broken they think ths behavior is acceptable unfortunately. Hopefully OP takes our advice and leaves. But if she stays…
Jesus.. i don't know what happened to woman actually giving a shit about themselves.. I'd rather be single than feel like i need to have sex with my partner nd have him tell me he doesn't wanna use condoms or i shld use the pill. ESPECIALLY WHEN I DON'T WANT TO BECAUSE IT'S MY BODY!
OP please leave. Why wld u want to stay with someone ur not comfortable having sex with. He doesn't care about u! He made that clear from the start!
Your friend is an ass – also does your friend want your brother lol what’s going on there.
That being said “couples who look alike” is a thing – people are often drawn towards “the familiar”, it has nothing to do with “omg they all look like your brother”
So your friend is an idiot, they’re giving you shit for no reason, please keep finding whoever you want nude
I get that she was 18 but you're telling me everyone in this thread only dates people their age? I (F) have always been attracted to women older than me. When I was 26 I dated a 37 year old. I have always been very mature for my age and even now at 31 I still only really want to date older. The exception would be Billie Eilish lol when I was in high school is when the emo/screamo, pop punk/pop rock and all that was THE music. All the bands were older than us and at the time a lot of those bands would meet fans and it wasn't a weird dynamic. I was attracted to katy perry and lady gaga age types in high school, so I was 16,17,18 and liked people in their twenties. So if you flip it around it doesn't sound so bad. I get there was a huge age gap but would you call it wrong nowadays when older men have much younger wives? Vice versa, the woman wants an older man. I think it goes off maturity
what should I do? would you change your belief for someone?
What do you think you should do? every person is different..Some people would change everything about someone to be with another person, including their religion and in some cases gender. What is right for you?
If you're gonna have a threesome, its best to do it with a new person, not a friend. Friends can make things awkward. Your bf might (understandably) get jealous about that. Threesomes have ended many a relationship.
A new person? less baggage
You don’t need this in life
My dude is smart af. I just literally cannot. With anyone, bc ssris.
It's definitely not fair to compare yourself. Obviously there was something that didn't work between the two of them, and he finds you are a way better match.
Don't compare, online your best life and don't worry about her.
what do you mean what do you do? you dump his racist arse………say nothing and get your shit sorted and make plans. start by telling him you are gonna do a spring clean and pack some stuff away, but really start packing to leave that pos. then when you are ready to leave hand him the phone open on that chat and walk away without a word. that’s what you do. and thank the gods you don’t have kids with him!
I don't think that is true because he sends me a voice note every night to say goodnight and tell me he loves me when he's at home (Which is only 50 miles away) and he's always thinking of ways he can help me with things so he's a great boyfriend in general. I just don't understand this going away and not saying goodnight thing :/
Bitter but true.
Yep. I have a lot of family in rural Appalachia who include left-wing unionists and right-wing MAGA Trumpers – their lifestyles are similar in many ways, but the one thing I always saw in the latter than the former didn't have was fear of difference. The former would come visit my parents and I in pretty large, pretty diverse cities; the latter would always want to meet at the beach or us to go there.
Don’t somebody that’ll try to control you
this is definitely abuse. your GF is a terrible person. you say you dont want to leave bc youre scared you wont find anyone else, and ill say 1. you will definitely find someone else at some point, but you must leave in order to get to that point. and 2. its better to be alone anyway than in a relationship with someone like this. you said before dating her you'd only get depressed for only a day, and now it lasts weeks. she isolates you socially and beats you down emotionally (and i guess physically too) im order to exert control and make you feel like you cant be without her. you dont need her. i know youre an adult, but you should talk to your parents about what youre going through. as others have suggested, therapy would be worthwhile as well. you have the strength within you to leave, you just have to find it. you will be so much better off without her, i promise you.
Agreed!