I’m going to say this bluntly – you need to grow up.
If you’re in your 20’s and living at home you need to realise that your parents house is their space. Why pick a fight about your dads habits or beliefs, knowing that is how he will respond? It sounds exhausting and pointless.
Good lesson in life that you will meet a lot of people that you won’t agree with but you cannot change them. You can just learn to live! with it.
Wait, am I misreading or was there an edit? I just saw pants pulled down and groping over underwear. If you saw oral, I am completely on board with your advice.
Sounds like you need to have a conversation with him regarding your dissatisfaction in the bedroom. Doesn’t need to be mean, but as a couple there is no shame and should fine to have conversations about your needs. If he has trouble with getting off too fast then the focus should be on getting your off first at least. Toys will be his best friend. Worst cause book a session with a sex therapist, they’re great!
Unfortunately, when one party in a marriage wants a divorce, you get a divorce. The other person can’t do anything to “fix” it and change their spouse’s mind.
Why do you want to be in this marriage? You work far away for long stretches at a time, and when you’re home, you hardly see her since she’s at work all day and then goes straight to the gym all night, multiple days per week. It doesn’t sound like you spend much quality time together, and are just complacent. She wants something that’s more aligned with her goals and/or more exciting for her.
Unfortunately, this relationship is over and you have to accept it.
This person is not your friend. Adjust accordingly. Plus she sounds really awful, like she can't stand that you finally found a man who treats you nice.,
What? He supposedly behaves in a “creepy” way (he did not), so her response to that is to tell him that he should have magically known that she was there and not shown up (the only reason she said that was because he said he couldn't have known she was at the same bar, which is true)? That makes absolutely no sense. She said that because she never wanted him there in the first place.
You're trying so nude to make OP the problem here when all he did was follow her wishes. It is very, very obvious that she did not want to see him that night and she was mad that he happened to show up at the same bar. He did not behave in any sort of “creepy” way, he did what she asked and left her to her time with her friends. If she wanted him to talk to her, she could have just as easily gone over to greet him as well.
I don’t want to be a single mom and no I’m not really ready to put my life on hold for a child right now.
I’m going to say this bluntly – you need to grow up.
If you’re in your 20’s and living at home you need to realise that your parents house is their space. Why pick a fight about your dads habits or beliefs, knowing that is how he will respond? It sounds exhausting and pointless.
Good lesson in life that you will meet a lot of people that you won’t agree with but you cannot change them. You can just learn to live! with it.
Wait, am I misreading or was there an edit? I just saw pants pulled down and groping over underwear. If you saw oral, I am completely on board with your advice.
It's common in some countries (like Australia) for renters to provide their own appliances.
“Hello sir, I would like to make a withdrawal from OPs bank?”
“No”
“He hasn't a problem being a bank for others so why not me?”
Sounds like you need to have a conversation with him regarding your dissatisfaction in the bedroom. Doesn’t need to be mean, but as a couple there is no shame and should fine to have conversations about your needs. If he has trouble with getting off too fast then the focus should be on getting your off first at least. Toys will be his best friend. Worst cause book a session with a sex therapist, they’re great!
Unfortunately, when one party in a marriage wants a divorce, you get a divorce. The other person can’t do anything to “fix” it and change their spouse’s mind.
Why do you want to be in this marriage? You work far away for long stretches at a time, and when you’re home, you hardly see her since she’s at work all day and then goes straight to the gym all night, multiple days per week. It doesn’t sound like you spend much quality time together, and are just complacent. She wants something that’s more aligned with her goals and/or more exciting for her.
Unfortunately, this relationship is over and you have to accept it.
This person is not your friend. Adjust accordingly. Plus she sounds really awful, like she can't stand that you finally found a man who treats you nice.,
It's in the same class as those “What Disney princess are you?” or rating the opposite sex on a 10 point scale. The goal, apparently, is passing time.
I’m immediately concerned you’ll be baby mama #3 & he’ll be telling #4 how well he took care of you by next summer.
Sounds like she is cheating in one form or another. Sorry bud.
What? He supposedly behaves in a “creepy” way (he did not), so her response to that is to tell him that he should have magically known that she was there and not shown up (the only reason she said that was because he said he couldn't have known she was at the same bar, which is true)? That makes absolutely no sense. She said that because she never wanted him there in the first place.
You're trying so nude to make OP the problem here when all he did was follow her wishes. It is very, very obvious that she did not want to see him that night and she was mad that he happened to show up at the same bar. He did not behave in any sort of “creepy” way, he did what she asked and left her to her time with her friends. If she wanted him to talk to her, she could have just as easily gone over to greet him as well.