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Rita, 21 y.o.
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Date: October 24, 2022
Rita, 21 y.o.
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So…
For the last three months, you've felt better, but you still haven't been doing anything to help out around the house?
You've been going out with friends but not resuming any kind of normal adult responsibilities?
This isn't about the chores at all – the chores are symbolic of the fact that for the last three years, your husband has been doing everything around the house and in your marriage, and when you finally start feeling better, you're only spending effort on things YOU want to do, rather than helping ease the burdens your husband has been shouldering for years now.
If I had to guess, your husband has been giving you chance after chance after chance that you didn't even see for what they were, and you've likely blown all of them. The chores were the last straw – and you admit that you were being lazy. Not that you were having a naked day, or had some sort of physical limitation – just that you were being lazy and didn't feel like putting in any effort, so you didn't.
I do not think this is salvageable – it seems like too little, too late coming from you.
Wow. You make a lot of excuses for this guy. You do not deserve your kitten. You will not protect it. Being wasted is no excuse. A lot of abusers can be charming. Do not be deceived. No pets for you. This is awful. If you get kicked down the stairs it is because you made a decision. The kitten is innocent and defenseless.
Is she making less money now than before? Is she mismanaging her budget? Did she even have a real budget outlined?
Ultimately, she has to figure out her income gap. Does she need to pick up extra shifts or find a second job? Maybe take out an additional student loan? (If applicable).
If she isn’t on the lease, your credit is on the line…
Maybe try a civil one-on-one conversation about her budget when she’s calm and not irritated.
I used to be in an abusive relationship and reading your post is bringing back vivid memories of that time for me.
This is controlling behaviour, if respect is that important to her then she needs to respect you back.
Everything you described is disrespectful towards you.
I don't want to rush to the classic reddit comment of “dump her”, but I think you need to really consider if this is a relationship you want to be in, and at the very least, have a conversation with her about you not being shown respect.
I personally wouldn't stand for this, and I suggest talking to someone in your personal life that you trust about this.
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If you are the dad, you don't get to block her. If you are not i suggest doing so. Either way you need a paternity test so you know how to move forward. Demand one.
This sounds like something my ex-bf would do, this form of disrespect doesn’t just show up in one way.
I understand right now it’s an isolated incident, but OP make sure he knows the magnitude of what he’s done. There’s a chance he’ll downplay it.
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This is emotionally manipulative and abusive behavior from him. Do not accept it. Break up with him. His behaviors and decisions are not your responsibility.
That’s a weirdo mindset. Masturbating is normal, with a dildo or not, doesn’t effect the value of you as a person or the “value of being inside you”
I'll share with you what my new GYN said to me when I was in my late 20s and admitted we only used the pullout and rhythm method (you'll have to imagine his eyebrow crawling halfway to the back of his skull): “You're not stupid, right?”
I got on BCP, despite the side effects being less than desirable.
HE DIDN'T EVEN PULL OUT 4 times. JFC, no wonder this is y'all's 6th kid between you. Please et this be a troll post.
Tell your boyfriend your plans and see what he thinks… that will clear the moral part up… also lusting for someone isn’t love… lastly, leave your abusive relationship because it’s toxic… THEN once you’ve healed some, seek out the neighbour and see what happens..
It is definitely cheating on an emotional level, due to your feelings
If you don’t like it, don’t do it. If he insists, say bye bye. Sexy required both people to be on the same page, otherwise it’s just one person dominating the other
This is why NFT's are stupid.
I mean… right?
Time for everyone's favorite word: therapy.
If she has saved them or backed them up. It may be naked to delete them. I would personally delete the permanently if I could. Protect your privacy. Then I would suggest counselling? Learn about gaslighting and narcism. I’m not saying your girlfriend is that and doing that but, get your ducks in order. It might be time to move on. Get your documents and items that mean the most to you out. You never know what someone will do