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She sounds very secretive and I’d be a little cautious if I were you. Explains to her that you’re in a relationship and it’s normal to have a photo of your SO. If she still says “No” then maybe she doesn’t consider you to be her significant other? If you’re not ‘significant’ enough to be trusted with an innocent picture then how significant are you? Harsh but true. Find someone less uptight, this screams of incredible insecurities that will manifest in other more serious ways down the line.
The next morning they all just talked about how funny I was being drunk and that the man was laughing at me too. Thats all i heard the next day and i know my dad would never of went to bed and left me there if he thought for a split second that the man was going to try something, he was like mid-late 50’s. I couldnt talk to them about it now because it would kill them with guilt knowing that something potentially happened to me
Im a very lonely person in general
That’s why you’re struggling. The more lonely you are the harder it is to move on from the relationships you have that don’t work out. So work on building your social support network and making friends. And check out old post in this sub on that for tips if you’re not sure how. Do that and you’ll find it easier to move on. Good luck.
Talk. Voice your boundaries clearly. DO NOT threaten to leave. That's extremely ineffective and just puts more tension onto the relationship.
Take a moment when both of you are calm and relaxed and tell him that you need your boundaries to be respected. Tell him that you can find some compromise (only if possible and if you really want to) and try to make him understand that this really means a lot to you.
Don't give up on things if is makes you feel uncomfortable.
If he doesn't understand that's disrespectful. That's it
OP the issue here isn't the fact that he wanted to cheat on you. Yes cheating is bad but your behavior is arguably far worse. You are going to drive that poor man to suicide. How dare you. HOW DARE YOU play the victim when you're the abuser. Oh poor fucking you. You are a HORRIBLE person. What the fuck is wrong with you. I have BPD. I've been diagnosed for years and yes, I am ASHAMED of the way I have acted in the past but there has never been a single time i have hit a partner or even raised my hand to them. You are abusive.
His blood will be on your hands. I truly hope he leaves you. I cannot fathom that you actually think HE did something to hurt you. God you are awful. Do better. Get better. Be better.
We mostly talk on discord, sometimes FaceTime and I’ve always felt like he is pretty insecure. He would say stuff like “ find someone better or more good looking”, calling himself ugly even tho I always say that he is handsome and cute
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Yep, she knows it, she just hasn't accepted it and was hoping that by whining to the internet she's get some sympathy. But yeah, nope.
There really isn’t that much you can do
So when things are critical to your happiness should you compromise just because choosing what you need is an ultimatum? People would be in miserable, unhappy relationships if that was the rule. Can you compromise on kids or no kids, or is sticking to what you want an ultimatum. Some things make people incompatible in the long term, don't they?
Danke…
Were you previously an out lesbian couple? Could she be upset feeling like she has to go back into the closet and appear to be in a straight relationship as opposed to an openly queer one (along with the community support that can come along with identifying as queer)?
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Adding “i think its urs” might of been helpful but anyways you guys are fighting over something that died 6 years ago.
Drugs aside, If you guys were not official she really didn’t do anything wrong. Even if she didn’t miscarry, she was gonna get an abortion and your life would have been the same as it is now whether it was urs or his it was gonna be an abortion.
I guess my point is I dont see why it should be a big deal, its not like she was gonna keep it. You cant say she was gonna let me raise another mans child because she wasn’t even planning on having that child
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I agree with you. And honestly, if you opened your lunch to a diaper that was folded to looked used would you take it out of your lunch box in front of everyone to inspect if it was or was not used? I do not think so. End of day….to him the diaper was used because as soon as he saw it in his box he shame dumped it in the nearest rubbish bin before anyone could see it and further his humiliation. I truly believe OP’s husband thinks there was a shit filled diaper in his bag in lieu of lunch.
She’s still acts like a child. Date a grown up
Also apparently the coworker is married?? Like why would you encourage her to engage in someone else's affair when you're already suffering and she hadn't done more than confess feelings for the guy?
If someone is actively cheating on you repeatedly, you don’t owe them much in the way of breakup conversation, and frankly, if you feel unsafe or like he’s going to pressure you in person, don’t meet up – you are allowed to breakup via text. You don’t even have to say you know he’s still cheating or that you snooped through his phone. You can just say you’re breaking up with him and go about your day.
But whichever way you break up, you need to set very clear boundaries, and say you do not want to remain in contact and he needs to respect your boundaries. If he shows up unannounced after you breakup, you don’t need to feel bad, you need to reaffirm you asked him not to contact you, say he’s not respecting the clear boundaries you conveyed, and tell him he needs to leave or you’re calling the police. And if he keeps doing it, follow through and file a report for harassment.
Mental illness is not a blanket excuse for someone to behave badly. You have to realize you are not solely responsible for balancing out the bad things happening in his life, and you are not obligated to stay in a toxic situation just because someone has depression. Honestly, it sounds more like this guy is emotionally manipulative, rather than unstable, and is causing a scene because he knows the appearance of instability will keep you around.
Just realized how stupid I am. My job sells the pill so I’ll just buy one at work and give it to her.
How is my feeling wrong?
You’re saying this married woman telling her coworker she has feelings for him and only telling OP after he pried it out of her is the right thing to do, when in fact it’s cheating.
If she's unwilling to talk to you like an adult, then keep your distance. If you just move on like nothing happened she might see it as an invitation to do it again and again. Her behaviour is disrespectful and she needs to know it.
I know how you feel. I am pretty sure your trust is gone. Maybe talk to friends about it or just take a week off of her and think about what YOU want. If she isn't willing to see what she has done, what do you want to do?
Expose the cheating bastard for who he is and let him face the consequences for his actions, I have no sympathy for him.
12 year olds.
He is unstable and emotionally manipulative. He’s going to continue to be those things, and he will never be worth it.
I think that’s just his bad use of language – someone else entirely different than his wife, not the original AP. But given how little responsibility he is taking here for his own actions, interpretation is clearly warranted.
Not necessarily. Sounds like she has an income. If they are in the US the worksheets used by divorce courts take into account both parties incomes. If they saved all of this money together, the judge will split it. The house will be sold and split. Alimony is becoming more and more unlikely unless they are already millionaires though it isn't guaranteed and it is only temporary. Depends on who has the best lawyer really. Child support will be based off each of their incomes.They will both be okay. She can go find someone who doesn't have the early retirement goal and wants to have another child. 2 children will increase child support unless they agree to 50/50 custody which nowadays often leads to little or no child support.
Yeah this would be a breaking point for me. Trust is everything. Your girlfriend has seriously disrespected you.
1 is because no woman his age wants him, they have all learned not to date men that dictate what they wear. I'm sure he dresses comfortable at home too but doesn't think the same standards apply since he's a man
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You needed to agree on a safe word when you feel the other person is pushing your buttons? Really let that sink in. How about the two of your stop pushing each others buttons?
Yeah I wouldn’t put up with that. You should sit her down and tell her how you feel. She shouldn’t be isolating you from your friends either.
I’m not saying dump her but if nothing changes after so long then we’ll… maybe.
This doesn’t sound like “no fault”. Print this out and take it to a lawyer.
yeah. i wouldnt want it to happen to me but honestly if it happened to my spouse and they didnt really care i wouldnt be mad at them
Your bf is hella cool, with those responses!
Yeah you're gonna have to let it slide. And keep a large distance from your dysfunctional creepy relatives.
But this makes a great story to tell your friends.
Bonding is simply the act of establishing trust/safety, but via emotions rather than via circumstances. So as sex is a vulnerable act, it’s good to make sure you can trust someone before you do the deed. It’s actually pretty smart to do that.
As for all the men being way worse, how many men are we talking? If it’s just a few it could just be luck of the draw, or if it’s more maybe your picker could be off. Let me ask you this, are you the one usually chasing or the one being chased or do both sides chase at the same time?
If you’re nickel and diming your fiancé you probably shouldn’t be getting married
I agree with this to a point.
The other side of this coin is what we don't know. He says she is very strong willed and he is a “coward” and caves to her and there is a level of anxiety there.
I was once in a similar situation and would hide details over things that were 100% on the level because she would handle most anything very poorly and almost interrogate me over it and even then would want “proof” of things that sometimes just wasn't possible.
I would hide things not because I thought I screwed up, but because I didn't want to deal with the fallout. This COULD be OP situation or he quite possibly could have screwed up or felt it wasn't right. There's just too much info missing and I wanted to offer a different perspective.
You definitely should be taking ownership of your own life, no doubt.
But woof man. This woman is only going to cause you grief. Maybe she’s right, but to be so condescending towards you isn’t a good sign. Any time you two have issues in the future she’ll revert right back to this condescension and use all of this you’re going through now against you in order to strongarm you into what she wants because she’s “more adult” than you. She’s going to treat you like a child forever.
I would’ve thought he would’ve said something to indicate I was wrong. He didn’t.
And yea, I did. Especially since he kept saying that he wanted to.
So true and I am not a millionaire because I choose not to win at Mega Millions lottery every week.
Kind of does since its a global number. Added sources to my previous post.
Why are you engaged to someone if you’re still waiting for him to prove that he’s worthy enough for you to make a life-long commitment to him? Isn’t the engagement supposed to be the symbol of the life-long commitment? You’ve only known this person for six months, you don’t online near each other, you already know he doesn’t earn a lot of money, why are you expecting him to prove that he’s “a good provider” when you’re not even sure that you want to marry him? He’s a person, not an ATM.
How dare you resent me! I’ve improved! Now I’m ONLY saying I hate you and you’re the worst person I’ve ever met. Plus I’m always going to tell you how you’re stupid and I’m right because I’m older. And then be angry you disagree and continue to infantilize you.
He sounds like a keeper. Sure wish I wasn’t married, I’d be swooping him up in a minute. /s
OP, even if there is slightly less shit on it, it’s STILL a shit sandwich. Just because it’s better than it was before, doesn’t make it good.
If you brought your girlfriend over and I was always walking around shirtless in spandex shorts with the outline of my cock showing would that be a problem? Cause I like to be comfortable in my place bro. If you want to make a shirt a point of contention between you and your roommate go ahead genius lol