Require consent? Oh girl, you need to run. This is the beginning of controlling behavior and it is 100% not healthy. This is the kind of BS jealous 18 year olds do. You are both adults. You do not have to get his permission every time you want to do something. Lose the loser now.
Your instinct to not “confront” is the correct one. Just because birthdays are important to you doesn't mean they're important to everyone. These siblings of yours were raised in the same environment you were where apparently birthdays weren't all that critical. So they just don't feel that the world needs to stop spinning because you've gained another year of life. When one's family isn't supportive it's usually a good idea to develop a strong friend group of people who share your priorities. The truly important thing here would be for you to try to get a handle on this “depression”. If you're not currently in treatment for that you should start. If you truly have depression it's not going to get better just because you browbeat other people into inflating your birthday into a national holiday. You're looking for distractions when you should be investing in feeling good every day, not just the days you deem special.
Your the one who thought of his cock first instead of hight lol.
Require consent? Oh girl, you need to run. This is the beginning of controlling behavior and it is 100% not healthy. This is the kind of BS jealous 18 year olds do. You are both adults. You do not have to get his permission every time you want to do something. Lose the loser now.
FTFY: My exGF (F24) of 3 years spat in my (M25) face during an argument
DTMFA!
Go to surviving infidelity.com. It helped me with a cheating wife.
Your instinct to not “confront” is the correct one. Just because birthdays are important to you doesn't mean they're important to everyone. These siblings of yours were raised in the same environment you were where apparently birthdays weren't all that critical. So they just don't feel that the world needs to stop spinning because you've gained another year of life. When one's family isn't supportive it's usually a good idea to develop a strong friend group of people who share your priorities. The truly important thing here would be for you to try to get a handle on this “depression”. If you're not currently in treatment for that you should start. If you truly have depression it's not going to get better just because you browbeat other people into inflating your birthday into a national holiday. You're looking for distractions when you should be investing in feeling good every day, not just the days you deem special.
It sounds like you would be WAY better off without her.
Would he though? Post history is all NFTs and foot fetish pics. The leaching gf is just one more in a string of bad decisions.