It’s so so common for women not to orgasm from just penetrative sex, I wonder if the others were also use toys while having sex? I would say less common to not orgasm with add clitoral stimuli. I did see you said you can’t climax that way either and have had sexual shame so don’t enjoy oral. I’m wondering if you’re able to climax on your own and maybe not able to with your partner from similar stimulation bc of that sexual shaming trauma? You’re not in anyway broken but maybe sex therapy is something you want to consider in case a lot of it could be a mental block from things you’ve experienced in that past. I hope you don’t take this in anyway other than helpful, I definitely do understand what you’re saying and I’m Only commenting bc therapy is what helped me be able to climax with a partner and not just solo due to sexual trauma as well
I mean… cheating i can live with, but gaslighting and keeping me in a constant state of paranoia I cannot.
Well, you're getting both. This guy does not seem to care much about you if he sees how this behavior is affecting you and just keeps it up. I think you need to get away from him for your own well-being, and only you know the least stressful way to do that but I wish you well in it.
Ok my gf handed me the phone and asked what would I do. I said, they fucking. If she wants to do that u needa leave that bitch bro!!
It’s so so common for women not to orgasm from just penetrative sex, I wonder if the others were also use toys while having sex? I would say less common to not orgasm with add clitoral stimuli. I did see you said you can’t climax that way either and have had sexual shame so don’t enjoy oral. I’m wondering if you’re able to climax on your own and maybe not able to with your partner from similar stimulation bc of that sexual shaming trauma? You’re not in anyway broken but maybe sex therapy is something you want to consider in case a lot of it could be a mental block from things you’ve experienced in that past. I hope you don’t take this in anyway other than helpful, I definitely do understand what you’re saying and I’m Only commenting bc therapy is what helped me be able to climax with a partner and not just solo due to sexual trauma as well
I mean… cheating i can live with, but gaslighting and keeping me in a constant state of paranoia I cannot.
Well, you're getting both. This guy does not seem to care much about you if he sees how this behavior is affecting you and just keeps it up. I think you need to get away from him for your own well-being, and only you know the least stressful way to do that but I wish you well in it.
YIKES. Don’t do that OP. Unless you online in a cheesy romcom.