Hmm, given you guys are very sexually active and I’m assuming you know how to please her (does she express that she’s sexually satisfied?), I can only see this as an insecurity on her end.
I think you gotta ask why she wants you to stop, given how much you love her and hopefully show that through both sexual and non-sexual acts. Explaining to her what you’ve said to me, about the relieving yourself without worrying about anyone else’s needs, and see how she responds.
Apart from that, it seems tough to find a solution without understanding the underlying reason
Right? If he is out of her league, and OP is not, OP is clearly not her first choice. He's got to move on and find someone who is actually interested in him.
Hmm, given you guys are very sexually active and I’m assuming you know how to please her (does she express that she’s sexually satisfied?), I can only see this as an insecurity on her end.
I think you gotta ask why she wants you to stop, given how much you love her and hopefully show that through both sexual and non-sexual acts. Explaining to her what you’ve said to me, about the relieving yourself without worrying about anyone else’s needs, and see how she responds.
Apart from that, it seems tough to find a solution without understanding the underlying reason
Right? If he is out of her league, and OP is not, OP is clearly not her first choice. He's got to move on and find someone who is actually interested in him.