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You won't get anywhere lying to yourself more than he is sweetie. If it were his sisters bra they would of taken it with them. Sounds to me like a girl thinks you might exist just like you're learning she does and she left that bra on purpose.
I have been in some absolute states in my time and I would a) never ever ever hurt an animal no matter how drunk I was And b) hear about it when sober and show no remorse.
It may seem like one blip on the radar in an otherwise good relationship or one mishap from a normally good guy, but it is a red flag. He can so callously kick a kitten then move with no remorse over it…. he lacks empathy and self awareness. 2 pretty major red flags that I could not ignore.
I’m not arguing that it has nothing to do with him being with her. That’d be as absurd as arguing that it is the reason he’s with her.
We don’t know. Period. Assumptions either way are bad.
Half of 25 = 12.5 + 7… so the age gap checks (?)
i'm not asking anybody to approve of what i did. i know i did wrong and i want to fix it. i was asking for any advice because i felt lost
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Yeah, that's the tone I meant. The wanting him to behave like a grown man in front of you most of the time. That's ice queen shit.
“Tell me what's wrong babe”
He's wrong!
Don't talk with him when you are upset! Don't think that he wants to talk with you! He wants only to know why you are upset so he can do “blame shifting” and make you question your reality.
He knows that you are upset, he knows he did something wrong and he acts like an clueless idiot. When he get the information, then from loving “bebe” he turns to the devil that he is because nothing is wrong and you are crazy for telling him what's wrong!
Write your thoughts, write your feelings and when you are calm and collected go ask him to talk!
Come here bebe, let me tell how bad person you are!
So make it sweet and short:
Bebe I feel betrayed by you because you did this behind my back. Bebe, you lied to me when you said that you wouldn't do it. Bebe, you are a layer so I can't trust you anymore.
Bebe, threating to leave and cancel your birthday is not age appropriate for you!
Bebe, I'm already in hell with a devil like you!.
Bebe, why should I go away, what's wrong with me?
Bebe, we need anger management classes before getting married and having children!
I was banned on AITAH and called hateful, disgusting, and transphobic by a MOD so I’m relieved that people on this sub listened to me.
And why am I no longer surprised when things like this happen.
OP – Please report the mod to the Reddit Admins.
Don’t start a family with a man who closed a successful business to trade crypto and NFTs.
Thank you for this. This is the view I am trying to take whether the video is real or not. I will say the video is clear that he purposely recorded himself showing off. It's pretty on par to the videos he typically sends me. So unless his phone camera was hacked and they compiled a bunch of videos using AI or deep fake or whatever, the video seems pretty legit.
I've tried telling him last night that doing this kind of thing wouldn't be a deal breaker for me, I just want honesty. At this point I'd even encourage it because I am just not well enough to give my husband the attention he wants. But he continuously denied it and said he would never do it. I'm having a very hot time believing he would be this stupid though because he has friends who have gone through it as well and he told them what idiots they were. He knows what the internet is like and it could bite him in the ass. But the video just seems impossible to fake at this point. I'm just wondering if he's hiding a huge history of this behavior or worse or if this was just a crappy lapse in judgment due to the realization hitting him that I may never be well enough for him again.
When you meet a guy worth your time, who genuinely cares and is looking for more than just a hookup with you, they really won't mind at all about it. If anything it'll make that relationship more special to both of you. It's all good!
That isn’t a relationship advice question
Easy fix here…like super easy.
Just tell him his friend was smaller. It’ll be a non-issue going forward. Yes, we’re that simple.
Some women want you to talk to them every day, so everyone has their wants.
Do you have a frequency for sex that you prefer and how does that compare with what you could safely enjoy?
Agreed. And I think his wife realizes what she has for a husband and that 10% went to zero. Can you imagine having a spouse this freaking clueless and then having a child with them! She would be the sole responsible adult and she knows it and said “NOPE “
The fact is she simply has a lower sex drive than you and that is entirely a break up worthy issue. You will never be compatible in that regard. If you are ok with the amount of sex you are getting, stay and deal. If not, go.
Listen to your gut. This is going to happen again with ANY male around you considering he lost it over your own brother. He's making excuses he's embarrassed to go to therapy over his reaction but hasn't considered the embarrassment he causes you and others. That level of insecurity and jealousy is bound to put you in a very unfortunate position later in life.
Nah, you don’t tell your former partner that kind of information unless you’re doing it for a alternate reason
There’s no reason for you to know about her sex life
It seems like they are looking for more than a 1-off so you need to find out whether they are looking for you to be a regular FWB or whether they are thinking throuple.
You should, I think, try it once. You'll get a far clearer picture of the dynamic and whether this is something you'd do again and at that point you can say 'not again, thanks' or 'yeah, that was fun'. There's always the chance that it'll implode their relationship and you're 1 and done anyway.
It's funny, you're living someone's dream but don't really want it.
Have you guys already rented together? My partner and i moved into in a studio when we were together for 3 years. After 8 months of renting we bought our first home.
My advice would be rent first. See what you both would do if you would face a crisis together. Ending a lease is better than selling a house. And don't fall for thag old fashioned advice marriage first. Marriage isn't gonna change someone's behavior.
Yep. I never wanted to see them again, let alone go thru all that.
You are allowed to have feelings but your response is lacking maturity. People sleep together. He didn’t even know you were friends. You are allowed to end the friendship & relationship but you are acting like they cheated. They didn’t. People sleep together. You should reflect on why this is upsetting you so much.
Well… here is the thing… you are 20 which means one of two things: you are still financially supported by your parents or you are not. That is important.
I would also say… you are an adult and your parents are not entitled to control your life. If you don’t want to break up with him, then don’t, but you will either have to lie or have a showdown of wills. I would say that honesty should be your default BUT there are exceptions. It is okay to lie if your safety is at risk. It is okay to lie if your autonomy is at risk. Financial security is a tough one but I actually think your situation is more about as autonomy.
I would also say… and this will be hard…. The best solution is a calm conversation: “dad I know what you said and while I am preparing myself, I wanted to have a calm conversation with you. Can you give me that?” He might say no, but honestly if he evers brings up the bf again… I would calmly respond “if you are ready to have a calm two way conversation, I would love that. Can we have that conversation?”
He may never be, but this calmness when asking to talk, sort of takes the bluster out.
If he will talk, ask him if he can calmly explain what he is so afraid of?? Why is he so angry? Let him talk… You won’t like everything he has to say. You might cry, but stay calm. You can ask him why he is so concerned… If he trusts you to make choices for yourself. If he gets animated, just let him, and say “I still want to have a calm conversation with you, can we please do that?” If he can’t, tell him you would like to continue the conversation calmly when he is ready.
This will help him see you as an adult. It will help him respond to with thought, not emotion… which is what I find when it comes to anything politics and religion in my family. I don’t do this perfectly but I try and it helps.
Point three is really making me think this isn’t the first time and makes me not want to trust the husband either.
I’m on the spectrum too! It manifests differently for me. I can become hyper focused on a relationship like this – both friendships and crushes.