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Date: October 30, 2022
sandra lamp, 21 y.o.
Location: usa
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Because they brainwashed her into cheating on you multiple times and now she’s testing the waters and afraid if you find out she’ll lose her stability
Tell your parents you want to petition to add both their names to the birth certificate so they’d be obligated to pay child support.
DO NOT accept paternity or sign the birth certificate yourself. This relationship is over. Make a clean break and don’t listen to anyone else who want to make her indiscretions your responsibility.
if she is this mad about something like this i don’t see this being a good relationship. she’s overreacting
It really is about being the couple who will be secondary parents in case any misfortune falls upon the parents. People tend to forget the very real historical need to trust someone to take care of your kids when you knew family & friends could or couldn’t be trusted where the faith acted as a guarantor that the kids would be treated well or else “Hell and Damnation”.
You can't be that stupid or that desperate for a shag?
If it’s as bad as you say then you need to stop seeking companionship live. It isn’t working.
I sympathize because live never worked for me either. And when I started going into the world I was also kinda bitter and hopeless. It gets a lot better with practice.
Yeh I felt like that was casually buried in there but it suggests this has been going on for a long time.
Have some respect for yourself. She’s going to keep doing this over and over.
To be honest, I'm not really that bothered by the views of someone who I don't know on the internet
You trusted him, he cheated. He has no excuse to say that it feels like you don’t trust him. I wouldn’t. It seems as though you feel bad feeling the way you do about it but you shouldn’t. You feel like this because of him. Be very stern when something makes you uncomfortable especially since he has already proven himself to be untrustworthy. You are worthy and deserve for him to do everything in his power to show you that. You didn’t forgive him for no reason. It even feels as if he doesn’t care enough or thinks that it was a big deal when it is. He could start doing SO many other things to show you that there is no way he’ll be close to her again, they may take more effort and time, but you deserve effort. Instead he took the simplest way out while still having the option to talk to her when ever he wants. I wouldn’t feel good at all either. Best of luck
u/lemongrabsme is a piece of shit.
Who tells someone to kill the r selves because their relationship is struggling?
A demented, motherf***er with no empathy. Get bent, dude.
mine is 4 inches but some girls like it that wide.
no not really its actually not that impressive but I make up for it by knowing how to work it.
thats not true either. The ways of the female vagina are a mystery to me.
but my testicle hygene is superb…..
you know where im going with this. I have a tiny penis Im bad in bed and my balls stink and I still have a nude wife because I do all the other stuff.
Im not talking about oral either because I already mention the issue with the srinky testicles. any girl that values penis size over everything else isnt worth your time. because trust me when I say this. eventually penises stop working.
Definitely is.
Firstly, not surprising. Seeing how people think puppy are more of toys. The red flag was right in front of you when she was adamant about having puppy and not a grown dog. You need to find a good home for that little one so that it doesn’t end up in shelter. Secondly, I don’t know why no one is pointing it out buying a puppy is horrible practice. Puppy mills are notorious of ill treatment and I still don’t trust dog breeders. There would have been so many dogs including puppies for adoption at animal shelter.
That's absolutely what I'm afraid of with this whole situation. I think ultimately breaking up is the right thing to do, but I'm trying really nude to evaluate whether it's really what I want and make sure that it's not just me freaking out about a long term commitment and stuff like that.
Because you made it clear you weren’t going to participate because of your stubbornness. How is she suppose to enjoy herself when she wants you there but you’re refusing to join in for no good reason?
What a dumb fucking thing to be upset about. You're too old to be dealing with such a childish partner.
You got to the police right now. Tell them what happened and ask if they can get him out of your house tonight.
If not, then you don’t go back to that house. Go to a women’s shelter and speak to someone about local resources for getting him evicted and getting a restraining order .
How's that working for you? WHY do you tolerate this behavior??
I know someone who has diagnosed anxiety, and for her the line between the two is pretty thin.
I've read more of your answers now though, and from what you’ve written, I'm guessing yours is more of a confidence issue than a medical one. If you’re not afraid of him, then maybe you’re just anxious that you'll cave.
If you don’t see violence coming from defying him, then it's like you said somewhere… chat with your therapist and develop a strategy to push past his objections. Or just pack your gym bag and go for a swim. I’d go as far as to pack his trunks too, and toss them too him if he objects. There are plenty of witnesses at the gym, so he should be on better behaviour than at home. Just enjoy yourself! 🙂
Thank you so much for your reply. I’m honestly just hurt. I tried to keep things short in my post but there’s other red flags.
I’m not sure if I can trust her again. I love her to death but I’m not sure the relationship can survive. Time will tell.
God bless you kind soul
Yeah… how convenient that once you confront her… NOW she blocks him. What's gonna change from then to now all of a sudden if him threatening her were still the case? I see it like this: She had every opportunity to tell you what was up so that you guys could explore options in nipping this in the bud, immediately… she didn't. On the contrary, She reciprocated his advances and continued conversation with him… despite the supposed circumstances of why it's occurring.
I'm sure you know the saying of it it quacks like a duck.. she's quacking, bruh.
Accept that you abandoned any hope of being able to reconcile with your daughter. There’s nothing you can do at this point. The traumas been set. You robbed this girl of a happy childhood and failed your responsibilities as a parent. I know plenty of people who were younger then you were and in the shittiest of situations but still stepped up to the occasion when parenthood called. Being a bad parent isn’t like other immoral things that can be justified or explained by poor mental health, shitty upbringing, toxic environments, etc.
As someone in a similar position as the girl, honestly there was nothing more I wanted then to be able to forgive my parents when they realized their mistakes. I’ve always wanted nothing more then to have a good relationship with them but the hurt and subsequent resentment would just not go away no matter how hot I tried.
Even after tons of therapy to get over my trauma and me genuinely believing my parents are good people, there’s just something intangible that makes pursuing a future relationship feel impossible.
Go to therapy and try to forgive yourself. Work on improving yourself to be a slightly better person every day and live your life altruistically. Hopefully she’s going to therapy as well and learns to forgive you, not for your sake but hers, and can still live a life as a functioning adult. I’d also advise going out of your way to contact her as that’s probably incredibly triggering. No longer living with you probably drastically improved her quality of life and seeing you on her phone is probably triggering as hell.
Thanks, I feel like a fellow Londoner will understand.
This is what is so frustrating, trying not to vent here, she is so out of touch with London life especially given the current climate. When I try be realistic, I am seen as the bad guy ruining the fun.
I get that 24k is not a lot and so do feel guilty for pressuring her, like I said in another comment, I just think she can afford more than 300 but won’t accept it.
I’ve been looking everywhere in any zone within a 90 minute commute to Shoreditch and less than £10 daily travel. I work hybrid, 3 days at the office so I can deal with distance. She will likely find a more local job to avoid travel costs. There is stuff that I’d be happy with, same quality as my current flat but we both need to agree. Only a month left too so beggars really can’t be choosers.
If it weren’t for me she’d be living with her Mum, which I keep trying to explain will not last for ever. I get the sense her Mum is already pushing for her the move out anyway.
Imagine just living on your own with him, man.
OP, what exactly is he bringing to this relationship? What part is he doing to move toward a place where he can be happier…or is he just complaining and expecting you to do all the organizing.
Why not go for it? Relationships in your teens and early 20s are not going to last. Have a weird experience and see what it's like
I mean its not blatant cheating, but its definitely a grey area. I'd just tell her from now on you don't suck on any other male's body parts or its a done deal lmao
Do you have no family or friends you can contact to loan you money to escape?
No sweetie. It’s not emotional manipulation to say “if you choose this, I will end the relationship”. I can be used as emotional manipulation, definitely. But it is reasonable and healthy to clear standards on what will lead to the end of a relationship.
OP isn’t trying to choose her friends. OP is telling her that this one friend makes him uncomfortable because of very specific reasons that she did not disclose to him in the beginning of their relationship.
If OP was saying “she can’t have any male friends” then I might be in agreement about control and abuse. That is not this situation.
Then like I said, don't bother, she wants more than you can give, unless the two of you are capable of meeting and having an honest discussion about expectations, and what would work, you'll end up frustrated and she'll end up angry. Neither of you will be happy
Sex IS important in a relationship.
Let this one go. She is not right for you.
Sex IS important in a relationship.
Let this one go. She is not right for you.
Sex IS important in a relationship.
Let this one go. She is not right for you.
DUMP this woman already! She's interfering with your education, she's moved into your home to leech off of you. She's sucking up all your time and all your attention and all your emotion.
There's a better woman out there for you (working on her education, has ambition, independent and fun), but you're never going to meet her as long as you're wasting time with this woman! She managed to survive just fine for 24 years before she met you. Kick her out and let her live the next 50 years without you, too!
It’s still her money. If they live together, they split expenses somehow, and whatever she spends the rest of her money on is none of his business.
He said Hi
She said I have a boyfriend
He said I have some Jack Daniels
And that's how this friendship blossomed
Have you worked with a therapist?
To me, this is a lot like being cheated on and then being insecure. You have to accept that every relationship ends til one doesn’t and just because one person did you wrong, you can’t ask the next person to pay the price.
Well it is life, I can not put everything in perfect detail as anyone would understand to here. I hoped you would understand but you painted something in your head and claimed it was me. Nope. Life is not like that. At least I am aware of this.
And you broke more than one rule of both this sub and reddit. You are making hurtful, insulting comments. You do not offer help, you just write what you want although I didnt ask for comments.
And I guess you think “This is reality, I am telling the harsh truth. I cant do anything if you cant handle it”. A no again. You are not saying truth, you know nothing about me. You just make up you world, and judge the people that are not abiding it. Sorry to break it to you, but your truth is not universal honey, sorry.
it’s weird to see that a simple solution of “remove the attention seeking person from your life” and find someone who isn’t showing her bits to any and everyone escapes you
wishing you the best of luck in life because you’ll need it
Going against th grain here. I don't agree with his reaction, but I also don't agree with wearing noise cancelling headphones if you're home alone with the baby. If there's someone else there, then by all means, go for it, but if you’re the only one there looking after the baby, you need to be fully aware of your surroundings.
You wrote ‘husband’ when you meant to write ‘bigoted ex-husband’
This guy’s a right-wing nut job