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Sandra, 27 y.o.
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Date: November 7, 2022
Well, I'm afraid for you ma'am. You keep using the potential risk that something may not work out to justify not showing complete willingness to be a family. I do not know how you expect that lack of confidence in yourself and your choices to positively impact your relationships either with this person or any other person. Are you actively in therapy, or have you been through therapy to deal with your insecurities?
Bpd, going through your phone and actually finding something for what she was looking for… dude, that list will get longer in a faster pace than you can follow.
As a mother this makes me fear for my children more then I already do so many sick people in the world
Yea not to shame OP but to have your policy be “you can hit your kid just not in front of me” is fucked up
Oh it’s pretty simple he’s had 20 extremely serious year long sexual relationships beginning age 10.
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Waaaait a minute…
Really? So how does her and your child's laundry, the vacuuming, furniture cleaning, washing the floors, cleaning the bathrooms, grocery shopping, helping the kid with homework, bathing the kid, the dishes, playing with and spending time with her child, how does all that magically get done? But yes, I'm sure she's sitting around and you're doing everything, lol. I love when men complain about women not wanting to have sex but don't give a damn to at she's exhausted and certainly don't want to help her with the kids or any of the housework. If you do get divorced you'll be doing all the housework and be taking care of the kid half the time so you'll soon find out how much she's doing.
you can have any boundary you want. so can he. the tough part is getting someone to stick around and tolerate your boundaries.
Why are you being nosey? Unless you have very hot core proof, you can be sued for slander.
Someone needs to notify that person that you are a creepy pervert who is overly obsessed with her business.
I can tell you why this is probably happening to you.
Love is not spiritual, magical, or foretelling. It's a biochemical marvel of evolution to promote reproduction- and it works VERY well. Dopamine, epinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, and a few others create a marvelous love cocktail in your brain. The crazy thing is this is also how a lot of drugs work including heroin- and just like a heroin user will say “this is the last time I do this”, but by morning… well you're both going through a similar form of withdraw.
Just like any addiction- time, action, adventure, and working to become your best self and overcome the underlying issues that lead to your addiction in the first place is how to get over it. And don't pick a different drug to get hooked on- dating someone else is a band aid that kicks your addiction down the road to deal with later.
Look up going no contact. You need to retrain your brain to do something different when you feel the urge to call him: a workout routine will give you more control over your brain because you'll be partially stimulating some of the same ingredients for the love cocktail, call a friend/family member, something that will stimulate similar brain reactions in healthier ways. You might even find having a loving discussion with yourself/by yourself is going to fill some of this gap- date yourself for a bit.
Yeah I sound exhausting tbh
also yes i do know we both are petty and stupidly immature when it comes to us fighting. which is another problem?
Clearly this relationship was over long ago and you just want to find a reason to justify leaving him.
She doesnt go over board but i just think why wouldnt she want to come to me for that kind of situ. Idk if this sounds insecure thats why im asking rlly
Shallow is needing to consume every moment of your partner's time without caring that they need some alone time.
Shallow is prioritizing being a power couple over being a loving and caring partner. And prioritizing your every whim and your desire for fun solo vacations one quarter of the weekends in every calendar year for the rest of your lives more than you care about your boyfriend's very reasonable feelings in this situation.
Bottom line, you're incompatible. Just break up if your solo time is this important to you because even your huge (to you) compromises are clearly below the bare minimum of what will make him happy. I'm sure you'll find another man to be a “power couple” with who doesn't mind being alone for 1/4 of his weekends for the rest of his life. This man is not it.
Its going to take her a long time to fix this problem, and only if she is willing to put in the effort. It will not get better on its own.
You need to make the choice, game of thrones or her…
Gosh. Abuse must only have an effect on women then huh?
hear that people who are actively being abused??? Just have some self-respect!
Jesus christ.
My apologies. I did write my post tired and frustrated so I can understand the confusion. He does help/make me orgasm most of the time. The few times he has not made me orgasm, I got no warning and he finished. It makes me angry when that happens. He’s really not a selfish person and I genuinely adore everything about him. This post and the replies have made me realize that this is not something I should silently endure because it is a bit unfair. I will be discussing it with him.
When I say any advice I mean absolutely any I can take being called a dick.
I highly recommend sitting him down and asking him what's going on these days. I am a 32m, and I have worked 14-16 hour days 6 days a week for 2 years straight, with only Sunday morning off from work to attend church. Working like that hurts a person's soul. I implore you to take that chance and ask him if he is OK. Because you would be surprised. This is how us men act a lot of the time when we are in pain about something emotionally.