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I don't think he's your boyfriend.
are your names similar in any respect? im going to be honest i didnt think this was a thing that could happen outside of friends
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Jesus fucking christ you nshould have broken up years ago. You realise you don't need her permission right? If you can't be fucked dealing with her arguing that you're not broken up and false promises and shit just break up over text or phone call, tell her your breaking up with her, then hang up.
we’re so compatible in every other way
Well I haven't seen a single example of that throughout your entire post
I am also on the spectrum, and if I had a partner who did this to me, I would do the same thing. I think if anything, it was a fight or flight response. You were triggered and you act accordingly. Not saying that hitting is a good thing, it’s not, it’s just a natural response.
Also why are you with someone who actively triggers you to get a reaction out of you? If it were me, that’s a deal breaker for me.
Yeah, my fiance was like this. Depression from losing your job hits very hot and a lot of people experienced it during the pandemic.
I suggest telling him to get help but also tell him this isn't the lifestyle your want for yourself, OP. Don't need to make threats, just statements.
If you're okay with it then fine, but you should know that this is incredibly strange, weird, controlling, and concerning.
I've never heard of someone asking for this, it's super fucking invasive.
And the fact he is asking you not to tell other is a huge huge red flag.
Personally, this would be a dealbreaker for me.
This seems more like mental illness than something you can talk her out of. Is she very prone to anxiety? Has she ever talked to a doctor for help? She doesn't have to live this way.
It sounds like your relationship wan't especially healthy from the beginning. I'd advise you stop looking to save it (it's not really up to you, but even if you had initiated the breakup, I'd be advising you to stick with that decision).
Do all of the usual coping-with-a-breakup-and-moving-on stuff.
She's young and seeing you is “everything” to her. If she was older and more secure, it'd be a no brainier. She would understand and say “go be with your buddies” since she could put you before her “feelings.” It's been said “you train others by what you allow them to do.” So, if you can handle “devastating” her, go be with your buddies. She will eventually get over it but you may suffer for it and for awhile. If you would rather avoid that nonsense, be disappointed and disappoint your friends by making her happy and go on see her. You may resent her though.
You lose either way. It's a matter of picking the lesser of two evils. Talk to her about it again and decide. Good luck.
Yeah my ex would walk around the apartment bare ass with her vag flapping the breeze but I wasn't allowed to be shirtless.
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it’s often weird the first time. we discussed various scenarios, best case/worst case, communicate & be flexible! we ended up having a great time & even exceeding expectations (we were at a bathhouse)
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You do know that this will devastate her, right? She might not show it but every time you go out that door to be with someone her insides will be churning and twisting. Please do her a favor and move along if you can't handle having to seek out ways to satisfy yourself other than being with other woman.
You reach out, time is precious. He shouldn’t get to waste hers too. I’d you want to back up your safety too get a restraint against him like a non molestation order (uk)
This post is confusing. OP writes GF cheated but also writes that they are a open couple and she is allowed to do a lot if things sexually.
Dont know what to respond.
Thanks, yeah. I’m here because of the kids. Also he’s threatened abandonment, and also threatened to take my children from me by bringing me to fort until no money is left.
We started to discuss marriage early on as we both wanted to date to marry. I've just dated a lot and I want to have a family as I don't have one.
Honestly, if he is at that point, I wouldn't waste my time.
Now that I’m into my fifties, I have a more pragmatic view. If this was a one-off moment of weakness and not an ongoing affair, I’d say let it go, don’t tell dad, and stay out of it. He’s in his fifties. Telling him now could blow up his world and let me tell you from experience, having your world blown up late in life sucks lol. It really, really sucks. If mom and dad are happy and content, then leave them be. Let her live w her sin and whatever guilt she feels. Leave her to that burden.
Now if you want to hash it out w mom, do that.
Sure and then I’ll lie to my bf about finances so we can both be clowns.
OP, do you have mental health issues? Because I was the same in my earlier relationships. Since I was this big ball of anxiety, I would end up projecting my insecurities onto my partner constantly and it would overwhelm him. I was always worried that he would leave and it became a self-fulfilling prophecy when he finally left. I think you need to seek help if you want to manage your relationships.
You remind me of the guys who go to the strip club to find their soulmate lmao