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Date: January 6, 2023
There are plenty of horror stories about all of the options on the table. She should talk to her doctor.
He hasn't had the surgery. I didn't say he had. Having the options of condoms forever/vasectomy/ or no sex at 24 is not a fair position to put your partner.
There are other effective methods of birth control where they can practice safe sex and not put her at risk.
This sub is so full of people who want misery it's not even funny. Most of them were not trying to be helpful. They just wanted an update 6 months from now that makes them feel better about their life and decision making.
You just tell people your roommate went through all of your personal stuff when you weren't there.
Tell her not to go into you room over text message and set up a camera.
Try to only communicate with your roommate over text message.
Yeah walk bro, she’s bored of u,
“You’re paranoid and insecure, how dare you accuse me of cheating! Also, I’m moving out, you can forward my mail to my new place with my coworker.”
There's a reason dudes who want virgins either marry at 18 or turn into creepy old hypocrites.
You guys have septic tanks?
She is not feeling great and I understand that
Quite frankly, it doesn't seem like you do. She has reassured you, and that's really all she can do. It's great that you realize you are high maintenance and it is OK to be so, but it almost reads like you are resentful that she doesn't openly appreciate your efforts. Just because she does not give love in the same way as you doesn't mean she doesn't like you anymore.
Are your behaviors something you'd like to change? If so, I would seek out counseling. I would tell your gf that you are sorry if you've asked for more than she can give and that you are trying to work on it. However, it's OK to want those qualities in a relationship, it just might mean this girl isn't the right girl for you.
I'm not saying she and I are the same, but I go through pretty bad mental health stints. Having my boyfriend around helps immensely, but if he kept sending me long messages and asking for reassurance when I couldn't give it, I would just pull away. Not trying to say that she should never pull her weight, but relationships are give and take. There are days when he gives 80% and I give 20% and vice versa, and days when we give equally. Bad days happen and I'm sure it means a lot to her that you're trying, but maybe ask if she needs space and be okay to give her that.
He told her they throw things at each other all the time. Op and her bf are kids. They don’t know nothin but they know they can’t online without each other.
I know my mistakes and wouldn't make them again
Apparently you haven't learned from your mistakes because you are asking for advice on how to contact her again. If you do actually want to take some advice – leave her alone. She obviously had a lot going on during the past few months. All this laughing and joking is exhausting. If she were more interested and/or had more time, you'd know.
I feel shitty just for having to put someone in the situation in the first place. It sucks, they likely don’t want to deal with your kid but you have to (try to) move on at some point in time and find someone else. Shit situation for your child and potential partners.
I just wanted him to talk to me if something was bothering him about me but I wasn't even worth that?
Like why?
You don't get it. “Inclusion” doesn't mean they'd date anyone, it means they don't think people should be left out because of things like sexuality, ability, gender, race; make space for others.
Inclusion doesn't mean date the woman who isn't in to the things you're into.
Charity doesn't mean sleep with the posh gal or she'll feel rejected; it means raising money, caring, activism.
Leftist ideals doesn't mean force themselves to be attracted to you because you're a woman and are equal.
These are humans, you don't seem to grasp that.
If these dudes wanted to date a doctor they wouldn't have spent all the time, energy and money to look like they do, and they wouldn't spend their evenings drinking and taking drugs.
They don't want a posh woman. They want a woman with piercings, tattoos, ripped clothes, who stay up all night drinking beer and listening to grunge garage bands.
Also, not wanting to have sex with you isn't ignoring you. The rest of your post implied they actually try very very hot to make you feel included, they just don't hit on you
also, i am complaining about MY financial stress about not being able to pay rent and bills and stuff, not complaining about not having things that i want. idk if that makes a difference in the situation but wanted to clarify.
They don't just do that for no reason…..
I am basically the BF in this story minus the dog. But with my GF we actually talked about this extensively and we plan to get her residency, get married, get house and then kids and we know it can roughly happen in next 4 years by which time shes gonna be 34 but we both also agreed those things like her residency and marriage is a must for house and kids to happen.
Being 30plus and being constantly vague about these things means at the best that they dont know and are hesitating.
Do not see this person again
After all the things he said to you, it should be YOU who is reconsidering the marriage.
Sounds like she either doesn't trust him or believes she's incapable of fully trusting him.
If she's willing to end a 3 year relationship over this, it's probably more than “curiousity and the freedom” of using OP's phone.
Also wondering if there is a situation with OP looking through gf's phone. Could be better if this is a mutual thing with their phones (or worse if gf feels more entitled about her own phone privacy)
Yeah I was pretty understanding until OP casually commented that he tolerates his children verbally abusing their mother.
Where did they learn that behavior was acceptable?
I mean I do think i can, I do want to be with him and eventually have a family. Maybe its just something I need to work on in myself. Because like i mentioned I do know he does love me and that should be enough. I also do know that passion is nice but not needed to have a totally happy relationship.
Thank you. I feel like its very hot to see stuff when you're in it!
I wouldn’t unless you were friends with the step Dad. Sign the online condolence book and make a donation in his memory to a charity you support.
Break up with him. If you’re bi but not really attracted to dudes, maybe don’t bother with them in your future relationships
No. It's not that. After so many arguments, he knows the silent treatment hurts the most. Otherwise I come to him, apologize and pamper him almost always.
If she's that special and you really want to pursue something with this woman then those things won't matter.
While that is an age gap your parents will definitely point out, it's not the worst gap that's been talked about on here and I think your parents will understand if you're honest about how much you like this girl. I would be careful though as there will likely be a difference in both your values and opinions as 22 and 33 are significantly different stages in somebody's life.
Introducing them to her further down the line (definitely don't do this too early on, wait until she's a girlfriend first) should put their mind at ease if they're reasonable people and she's a good person.
The smoking is a non-issue imo, sure its unhealthy and I get that some are against it, but if they really want to kick up a fuss about her smoking then it sounds like their problem and they'll have to cope.
Just pursue this girl and see where it goes. It may fizzle out and you won't even have to worry about your family knowing. But if it's right for you, then any good parent will be able to see the change in you and how happy you are when around this girl.
Good luck man