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Date: April 21, 2023
Break up with him for his sake. You're awful. Throw yourself a little higher up on that pedestal why don't ya? I hope he finds better
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Yesterday, we were placing an order over his phone and he said that he'll take a shower by the time food arrives. He left his phone with me as I was making the payment from my card.
Soon after he went to shower, there was a silent notification on his phone and it was red heart and it was from someone who he had met on tinder 3 years ago and he'd told me they no longer were in contact with.
I know it was wrong of me to check his phone and i wish I hadn't, but my curiosity got the best of me and ended up opening his WhatsApp.
He has an “Archives” section and i found multiple women in there. I realised all of the chats were in fact very recent (last week).I scrolled up to find unending texts dating back to last year so idk how long it's been on. I went through a few of them and there were sexts and partial nudes.
What made it worse is, i found his ex among them who I've hated the most because she used to gaslight and manipulate him.
We've been together for 3 years including 1 year of on-line in. I moved across the globe while facing so so much to be here. Having had a severly abusive relationship previously, taking this step had taken me everything to be here.
But here's the thing, i feel numb. Idk what to do. I don't know how I'm feeling. I know how I feel mentally – shattered and hurting. But for some reason I feel numb. I was supposed to see a therapist but haven't been able to due to lack of money and time.
Idk what to do. It's complicated. I have my finals on going now. Due to housing and financial problems, i can't move out too.
I just feel lost yet numb and defeated.
I think you’re directing your anger at your bf when the person you’re really mad at/should be mad at is the girl. Cuz it sounds like that while maybe your bf didn’t handle it exactly your way, he did handle it. He brought you up and told her he had a gf, there’s not a whole lot else he can do. She now knows he’s taken, and if she continues flirting, it’s her that needs to be addressed, not so much your bf.
When he asked you “what do you want me to do?” You need to answer him specifically. Say “It makes me uncomfortable if you talk to her. If she’s flirting with you, I’d rather you not respond at all”, or whatever it is you’re wanting. He said he’d do whatever you want in regards to her, and you responded with you didn’t care what he did but that you’d be keeping an eye on it. You’re sending a mixed message, because clearly you do care what he does.
He prolly didn’t say anything to his friends because that’s just how guys that age are. They don’t wanna look like pansies by being all defensive when their buddies are teasing. Not saying it’s right, but that’s def just how guys are- they prolly aren’t gonna stand up to their buddies over innocuous teasing.
This guy is an overgrown man child who lacks empathy and compassion. You deserve better. He needs someone to hold his hand, and that’s not you. Cut him loose because he will always resent your career.
She gives me the feeling of being loved unconditionally
Really? Are you sure she doesn't just see you as money and a place to on-line? Now you will have even more earning power with your post-grad degree.
I pay for the majority of our living expenses, and she is very reluctant to contribute anything
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she started to accuse me of cheating all the time (based on being friends with women), demanded I was on the phone with her 4 hours a day and admitted to provoking fights for no reason.
You've got yourself in an untenable position. She has no intention of doing anything. Why would she? There are no consequences to her doing fuck-all. She doesn't work on her mental health, she doesn't need to really work much or put in much effort. As you say, she sits around getting high.
Unless you want this to be your relationship dynamic for the rest of your life, you need to sit down with yourself and really evaluate if this is what you want. Just because you've parented her for 4 years doesn't mean you should waste 1 more day parenting her. You've got a 14 year old teen for a gf.
He is not in any way because he has some principles with which he was honest from the beginning. She could refuse. He didn't ask her after the relationship started but before. She was the one who lied about it.
I got a self-emptying roomba and it turns out that it takes a BAG like it’s 1972 or something. The bag started giving me errors that it was full the very first time it was emptied, which was about 10 minutes into the first time I used it. Huge waste of money.
To add, a lot of the things she accused others of stealing were things she either misplaced or things she had in the past, but no longer had.
What ever we had is done and broken
Broken can be fixed, it’s giving him hope. It should be what ever we had is dead and cannot be revived. Otherwise everything else is perfect
you absolutely can go no contact under any circumstances. If you’re forced to be in close quarters, don’t talk to her. And do whatever you can to not be in close quarters.