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Date: November 24, 2022
Yes, forgiveness is for the offended, not the offender.
I think she needs help asap.
No brother. You need help. Find the best lawyer possible and file for divorce.
How is this a thing?
Like are you an MP or something?
He can buy a pregnancy test, take it to her and wait while she takes it so he can see the result. Then if it’s positive he can accompany her to her doctor and see what the doctor says. The doctor can tell if she’s pregnant, how far along she actually is, etc.
But let’s make it clear that your friend is not 100% sure because the only way to be that sure is he never had sex with her. Sometimes even the best precautions won’t prevent pregnancy. It’s not good that she says she always wanted a baby and couldn’t have one with her previous partner so she may have poked a pin in the condoms. Unless he brought his own that she didn’t have access to, I’d be questioning that. Also, is he the only fwb she has? Maybe. But maybe not. Don’t just take her word for it. Her biological clock is ticking and she might feel desperate.
If she is pregnant, he doesn’t need to be involved but he will have to pay child support unless he gets a dna test done and the results say he’s not the father.
Sorry. Just clarifying, do you love him, or are you in love?
lol. you're being scammed. that's why these laws exist.
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so what you’re looking for is to fill a hole of a missing paternal figure with a romantic partner. this will never work. recognize that you are in the age group for young women that are easily abused and manipulated by older men. no man in his mid 30s is going to date a child (yes you are 18, but you don’t have the life experience that he does) unless he’s a fucking sick groomer. continue with therapy and ditch this loser and find someone you can grow WITH, and not worry about catching up to.
I get that he doesn't like the smoking and that they are loud but he is treating them badly in their own house, eating their own food and spending their money. Is it not pissing you off???
My thoughts exactly.
He might fuck you good now but the more he treats you like a maid the less attractive he is going to seem. Find yourself a good guy before you get too deep. Imagine how it would be if you had kids with this guy?!
Sounds like you are in high school lmao!
He is. I have guy friends who are repulsed by Tw*t and my own partner doesn’t get people like your bf.
He is a misogynist. Just like if you’re at a table with a bunch of Nazis you are one too
She’s definitely the side piece in their relationship for both them. She might be a part of what they do, but she is not in any sort of equal footing in the relationship. She is definitely in a one sided monogamous relationship with a guy, who is in a poly relationship with his real gf. She needs to end it.
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I know, I just put the cheating down to immaturity and being self conscious and a thing that happens a lot more regular in relationships due to social media etc i thought it’s just a stage and something we would get past, I just won’t stand for the being dictated to and told to accept no physicality in my life and I won’t take that but I love her so she has now agreed to work on things and that she wants me ??♂️
You are 25, not 15. You are a grown woman with a fully mature brain and you can date who you want and live the life you want. His attempt at being sincere with her was taken the wrong way but that’s her problem, not yours or his. And even if you decided to stay at home and raise your children while he worked to support the family, that has nothing to do with her. That just proves that you can think for yourself and are happy. And that is all parent should want. Ignore her. She can only interfere in your relationship if you let her, so don’t let her.
Yeah I'm currently just trying to see almost what I can get away with and see what happens but I worry if I have the totally wrong idea I may end up just making things awkward and straining the relationship between us or cause us to drift apart
She actually did ask me who J was after j liked a picture and I explained and said that I offered to block her if it made her feel uncomfortable. She said it was fine but asked me how she found my Instagram account since I made over a year after I stopped talking with j
You speak the truth.
I have he's just not taking his clothes off this time isn't that weird?
If you're going to make stuff up, at least make it interesting. This is such a non-issue.
This sounds like you’re starved for kindness and connection. That you put on a brave face, don’t show vulnerability, probably push people away or keep them at a distance so you don’t get hurt (google attachment style as that’s avoidant attachment and it sounds like maybe what you have going on). And few people are warm or vulnerable with you because youre not that way back. But as a teacher and a kind man, he was. So you feel drawn to him because he feels so very unique, but really you could have that with a lot of people if you opened up and were more vulnerable. Additionally it’s not uncommon for people with avoidant attachment to develop crushes on unattainable people, as it’s safe. They can daydream with out ever worrying about anything really happening.
Nope. He lied. And then lied again. Why would he suddenly hang a bra that “he’s had for months” up on his door?? If he was that concerned about returning it, he would have asked her when she left it behind. And TBH if I left a bra at a guys house months ago, it’s gone. He’s going to be waiting a while for this imaginary woman who would contact an ex for some underwear months later ?.
I always treat an OP's version of events with a little scepticism. Everyone is biased. Something about this post sets off alarm bells. Feels like we're reading the testimony of someone who is deep in the affair fog and rationalising the irrational. The post is full of contradictions and double-think:
'Ex is a good dad; ex is a checked out father. Ex is financially abusive; Ex pays the bulk of the bills. I'm recovering from co-dependancy; I monkey branched into a new relationship.”
I wouldn't say that divorce is not the right choice because, honestly, the post divulges very little of substance, so I don't think anyone can fairly judge the state of the relationship. I would say, however, that OP isn't in a headspace to make good decisions or even handle the 'right' decisions properly.
That is absolutely a part of the plan.
Yeah I would cut your losses on the tv and run because that’ll probably be your face one of these times
She had an abortion last month and you’re worried that you’re not having enough sex?
I don’t understand why people stay in bad relationships.. move on esp if they are this toxic
Sit her down one more time and let her know that this is absolutely no laughing matter — and that if she doesn’t hear you out on this and take you seriously, you’re done.
She has to get it into her thick antebellum-race-play-skull that what she is doing is repugnant to you, and that even if it weren’t, she is going about it the wrong way, and it will end up biting her in the ass one day if she pulls this type of shit in the future.
I have no taste for this type of kink; but if it HAS to happen for someone in order for them (in this case, her) to get their rocks off, then it is ENTIRELY contingent on the active and enthusiastic consent and go/no-go of whoever is the recipient of the racialized name-calling. She should not be the one calling the shots here, except if whoever is her partner now or in the future gives her the explicit OK to do so.
“She’s cool I guess”
Do you…like her?
“Most women today are sleeping around”
Do you…like her gender at all?
Virginity isn’t a bad thing and I don’t think would turn anyone away but there are some much bigger issues in this post that absolutely will.
OP this guy seems dangerous. He's lied and gaslit and resented you behind you back for 20 years and he's losing his power position. Leaving relationships is the most dangerous time for women– please take it seriously to protect yourself!! And update us as soon as you're out and safe.
How are you going to survive in the real world with your head so far up your ass? The world has 7 continents not just America.
This is why this sub advocates for breakups so often. There are wok actions that can’t be forgiven.
Awe I love this ?
After 2 years, I would assume you’d be making more decisions together. He hid it from you because he knew you wouldn’t like it.
Outside of current non-existent cheating claims there is a decision to be made: Do you want to move with him? Do you trust your boyfriend?
If any or all of those questions are “no” then that’s something to consider. Remember he did not consider you when accepting the position. Does your opinion matter to him?
I don’t want to hinder your decision by saying you should break up with him because he could be an incredible guy with a lapse of consideration. But you must do what makes you the most comfortable. I personally wouldn’t be able to accept that a big decision was made without me. What would my future look like if this happens again and again?
Genuinely curious – what do you think her family is going to do when they find out the guy they've been treating like family for the better part of 2 decades is defiling their little girl the moment she got legal? And not even for true love, just to give her a dicking?
And don't make this about her choice, you're as in this as she is, one assumes you had some modicum of affection or respect for them?
On Reddit, yes there are those people who are dumb and selfish!!
It’s time to put an end to this friendship for two reasons:
First, you’re interested in more than friendship and she isn’t. You agreed to be her friend after confessing your feelings, when it’s clear you’re just waiting for her to give you a romantic chance. I’m sure she’s attractive and that you want to be with her romantically, but that’s just not going to happen. And you’re not going to be completely romantically available to find romance with other women while she’s in your life.
Second, she sounds like a person who shouldn’t be in your life even if you have zero romantic interest in her. Think about it, if you start dating someone and she finds out your friend willingly pursued a relationship with a married man, that will cause insecurity in even the most confident person (or rather, they’ll just nope out of your life to save themselves the trouble). Yes, your friend dating her boss means that the boss likely leveraged his position of power over her, and you can have sympathy that she might have been coerced, even if it’s not overt, but your friend doesn’t recognize this and is still twitterpated to the point that she still believes that he’s going to leave his wife. The fact that she broke their cheating protocol and texted him a very hot while with his wife is maybe a sign that she doesn’t believe him, but she still wants to be in the middle of that train wreck. And the best thing you can do to get through to her that this is a bad life decision is to step back from her and her life.
Be prepared for her to try to hook you back into remaining in contact with nebulous and mixed romantic signals.
I'd feel the same way TBH. Would he be ok with you having the same kind of trip once you have the baby?
You sound like a child. You are only thinking about yourself, this isn’t for her. That’s why.
Don’t put her name on it. If you are in the states I suggest you contact a lawyer and put them in a trust or LLC to protect yourself. And make her sign a prenup
That sounds nice and low key. I had a date with a guy a few weeks ago who I felt like pretty much interrogated me. I do think live dating encourages the job interview type approach.
Nah bro. You were right in your statement… She's crazy.
You're not the police, you don't need 'evidence'. Not only did you snoop through his computer but now you have taken intimate pictures without the consent of those in them. There's a creep here but I don't think it's your boyfriend!
So you want to perpetuate the idea that men should only respect other men?
He shouldn't hit on her out of respect for his gf, or your gf, but you?
I don’t think either of you is in the wrong, but rather that you simply want different lives and are overall incompatible in a big enough way that it won’t work out for you long term. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to go out and enjoy partying while you’re still young, but having a partner who isn’t on the same life level is so difficult for the partner. As heartbreaking as it is to breakup sometimes people just aren’t compatible for what the other wants in life, no amount of therapy or compromise is going to change that.
Nobody starts with that charm. We all fake it until people think we’re actually that confident!
Based upon your last post where you made 12 superficial and ridiculous points you want your fiance to fix, including baldness, please just let this man go so you can continue your vain existence by yourself. Yikes.
She doesn’t believe you accept her culture?
Why is she dating someone she doesn’t believe accepts her culture? Ask her. She can’t make that accusation and then be unaccountable herself.
You simply say; “If this is important to you then I am not the guy for you.”
Make it her decision.
Reddit has seriously destroyed my faith in men to not be creeps.
As others have said, get a lawyer. Unless there are serious issues in your household, your husband's ex will not immediately get primary custody. They will likely give her a step up visitation schedule to work towards 50/50 unless there are very compelling reasons not to. A lawyer is going to be best equipped to help your husband and you resolve this. I'm really sorry you're all going through this.
His clothes, his property, his responsibility. My husband knows that the laundry basket goes in the washer as is. Anything in it is fair game because I’m not his mother and I’m assuming he’s responsible for his own belongings. He lost a pair of AirPods that way and he hasn’t left anything in the pockets since. Mothers teach and train, wives treat you like adults who should know better.
Once is an accident. Twice is suspect. He’s not respecting boundaries. He’s hoping to try it and you let him go ahead.
It’s time to break up. Not speaking to your female work colleagues almost certainly will hold back your career. What does she expect you to do if/when you get a debate boss?
Take her with you on the business trip?
Sounds like you need new friends. What you enjoy sharing between you and your partner, doesn't need to be questioned by your peers. You define your sexuality.
What the fuck. What a disgusting piece of shit. And stupid as hell too.
Tell her. If he ever comes back, report it. His poor wife deserves to know this, too. This is sexual harrassment.
What the actual fuck.
ESH. Him more than you in this particular instance, but you're more of a consistent AH over time since you've been unwilling to compromise on this or invite him a single time once in two years. I honestly think that if your boyfriend wasn't being such an asshole about this (trying to manipulate you into staying, only wanting to plan activities for the weekends you're gone, etc.), everyone would be saying YTA. I love camping more than anything, so I get why you love this ritual and it honestly sounds amazing. That said, you're in a serious relationship and have been with this person you (I assume) love for two years. The entire time, you insist on traveling alone for one weekend every month with no contact, and you're SO against the idea of even considering inviting him a single time that you've gotten in recurring fights about it and you're even posting on the internet about it rather than simply finding a compromise or allowing him to join you a single time.
You're so rigid about your glamping ritual that you apparently MUST do it for precisely one weekend every month, alone every single time, with no compromises whatsoever, which is highly unusual and self-absorbed behavior. Of course having someone join your solo trip would ruin the point of the solo trip, but could you have one less solo trip a year and let him join you once so you'd get to have a joint glamping trip, which is still amazing, and 11 solo trips? Is it so awful to have only 11 solo weekends a year instead of 12? The vast majority of people in your boyfriend's shoes would be upset. I know you personally might be fine with it if the roles were reversed, and you've even said in the comments that you'd be ok with it, but most people wouldn't. And your rigidity makes it very clear that think your boyfriend is overreacting for being upset about this and that you aren't taking his feelings into consideration at all.
he wants to enjoy weekend getaways with his partner
If that was the case, then he would have gone on a weekend trip with OP. It's already been suggested by OP but he specifically chooses the weekends that she uses to unwind solo. If he really wanted to, he would have already planned a trip with OP for another weekend. ' He's not into it ' because he really isn't.
Also what's wrong with self pampering? This is OP's way of unwinding, there's nothing wrong or unusual about it. Your method of unwinding may be a bubble bath, for OP it is glamping. There's nothing wrong with either.
Time to end it. If he gets this worked up over a toilet roll do you really want to find out what happens if you do something worse then this?
Chances are you already have a form of herpes because literally the vast majority of the population has it – about 80% of the population. He has HPV1 which is oral herpes so is his plan never to kiss anyone ever, share a drink, etc? Just don't do anything while he has an active outbreak and you'll be fine. He needs to educate himself on this.
Sending nudes or very hot FaceTiming has nothing to do with romance and everything to do with sex. He doesn’t respect your feelings at all and is trying to manipulate you into doing what he wants even though it upsets you. Tell him to sod off.
i did EVERYTHING my ex wanted and he still cheated on me.
More like antisocial media. That's why we all like it here so much.
Ask her if she'd be into wearing an outfit for you in bed and chat a bit about making it fun for both of you. P.S. I'm picturing a cute lingerie outfit and some fun accessories under a puffer but can see the appeal of a full bundle too lol
Your boyfriend is controlling. With that logic you can't have guy friend because it would mean you accept friend that want to bang you in your circle. He can have girl friend because he is “different” my ass. Guy and girl can be friend. Yeah it's happen that some guy will have a crush on friend like girl can have crush on friend. Dont let him rules your friendship because he is insecure. You are a grown up adult that can decide who is a your friend and who is not without him.
You need couples therapy first. You also need a housekeeper.
She’s not only read your diary, she jumped to wrong conclusions.
There are some underlying problems in this relationship you should not ignore.
Maybe try couples therapy and see if you can establish an honest dialogue? Or move on? But definitely do not leave this unaddressed.
piling on to say this is wildly unhealthy. anyone who would blame you for what happened to you is truly vile.
Looking back when I was on the scene.
It was kind of ironic. Sometimes the people where you had great texting chemistry leading up to the 1st date… Occasionally turned out to have dry in person chemistry.
And the people where you expected the first date to be dull (due to bad texting chemistry), actually got a long great in person.
My point being… Live dating, you will never know what you'll get until you actually meet the person.
And sometimes you're just not into each-other. It really has nothing to do with your performance on the date.
Everything about this indicates that he wasn't feeling it. That's all you need to know.
Let these thoughts go and move on.
You don't want to put on an 'act' for the next date because then you wont be your natural self. And you want to connect with someone when you are your most naturalist form.
Plenty of other people you can connect with on the app.
Good luck!
Her reaction tells you everything ?
He is not toxic at all really, he is a very positive person who is not controlling, a good listener and is armed with patience. And I was not an angel before, but am now ready to settle. He has a trust issue because he does not want to be hurt again (I know it is not my problem). I really think that this lack of trust mobilewise is the only problem we have. And he also said today that he was going to turn off the notification, too. (He always says that if I for example do something like that, he will do also).
And then there's quite a bit of misdiagnosing, too.
Got a family member who got diagnosed with Devic's disease (frequently fatal and very serious incurable illness), turns out it was multiple sclerosis (still bad, but WAY less fatal). That was several years of unnecessary anxiety. And the thing is, she was diagnosed by an expert on MRI, but when the (non-MRI expert) doctor at her work looked at her MRIs, she said it's MS instead of Devic's immediately.
The worst thing is that at the time there was almost no medication for Devic's disease available, and what was available was difficult to obtain, there was a waiting period. Someone could've died or suffered horribly because they gave my relative useless medicine (fortunately she declined medication on being told someone else was in worse condition and needed it more).
It happens, unfortunately. Humans make mistakes.
Honestly if she already wants out just tell her you know and she's got 30 days to pack up her stuff and leave. What's the point in hiding it? Tell her you don't care anymore and would just rather she leave quietly. No final confrontation necessary.
Then tell the other guys partner cause she deserves to know who her husband is.