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Are you a drama queen? I know several people who would love to be friends with this guy so they could regale everyone with your story.
If you're not a drama queen, what are you doing?
Hey, sorry it happened to you and hope you are doing better! It is classic love bombing, so you dodged one there.
Unless he specifically asked for more details, just let it be. I doubt he wants to know the things you’ve done with other people. Unless it was like sex for money, prostitution, shooting porn, or maybe you’ve had an std in the past, then I’d tell him. Other than that, just keep it to yourself unless he specially asks for more details.
He started yelling at me to leave and I said' come at me bro with that tone' so it's definitely done lol
No girl break up w him!! It doesnt sound good
Follow your gut. His reactions are not how a normal caring boyfriend/person would react. You deserve better than “smh”. You’re young, get yourself someone who would have shown up with a hug, cuddles and dinner.
Well at least he has a plan lol
This is just… So much. I can't even fathom the depth of your grief.
My only suggestion is to continue to work on yourself through counselling. By helping yourself perhaps you can help her just by being there and eventually learn to exist together peacefully. Couples counselling perhaps? I'm so sorry I don't have better advice ?
Take good care of yourself.
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My friend and I got our nipples pierced together yesterday. We decided to get glow in the dark rings for them. Afterwards we actually went into a dark room just to see how they looked lol. I know this seems silly and not a big deal, but my boyfriend is mad at me for this. He says i basically cheated by letting my friend see my boobs. I don’t think I cheated, it literally wasn’t even sexual at all. He literally won’t even talk to me over something so small, we’ve been together for a year. Any advice would be helpful
Co-signing everything you just said. The girlfriend is asking playfully to not make op feel bad, but she does want, and deserves, to know if the relationship is going somewhere. If after four years you’re not sure if you’d like to marry your partner one day; the answer is likely no. And if that’s the case op needs to be up front about that so the gf can take fully informed control of her own future
Just regular sex acts in an aggressive tone tbh. I just got in shock because like I said, it’s not like I was snooping through her old messages to find things like that, in that case i’d say okay I’m stupid and I deserve to feel like this, but I never do that no matter what, because I know what I’m going through and I prefer to do what they call not to ask questions that I don’t want the answer for.
Thanks for the advice dude, I’m already working on this. I want to let it go really bad because I don’t want something that doesn’t have anything to do with me to be bothering my relationship and me this way.
Why do you feel bad? He deserves the felony and you need to stay far away from him. He will kill you.
Most people, would say it is all of those things.
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Also WIFE not gf ? makes it even worse
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You can either show him this post or write a letter to him to help get your thoughts out.
The issue here sounds almost entirely on your boyfriend, not this friend. He's not honest or communicating.
It's not just about their bond. It's that he's leaving you in the dark for 0 reason.
You're ignoring the context of his making comments and expressing potential doubt previously. She offered the reality that she's a tall woman, and recessive genes do weird stuff, as a reasonable explanation – but she DID have to offer an explanation. So, there IS added context you're ignoring that makes it less likely to be a random fun things.
I hope not, but with how long it's been I worry she's built up resentment thinking I hate her and therefore she hates me. She's always been very socially self-conscious and keeps walls up to keep people from hurting her. She's such a genuine and kind soul with a lot of emotional wounds of her own, and the last thing I want is to open old scars.
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What would converting entail, what's the list of stuff you would need to do. Not the list of things you don't need to do
I asked him if he would take me for a ride in his new truck. He said yes but that he only takes it out on Saturdays and before I left he said see you later.
two things – man in his 40s cruising mall for teens… pursuing you… I mean…what if he is a very bad or dangerous person? You talked to him briefly at the mall? That’s it?
The thing is, adults treat teens as kids because we get old and go oh shit I was just a kid when I was a teenager.
He might be very hot but going to a total stranger’s house in secret for sex? Good idea?
Went through a similar thing. I don’t know why she wouldn’t want to go through counseling, seems like she is not willing to try. Not a good sign.
I can tell you for sure that there's better options out there for you. What he does after you get out of this awful situation he's created is not your responsibility. You don't have to put up with his abuse to protect him from himself. And just to be clear, judging from what you've written down here, he's most likely bluffing anyway.
Trans person and trans people are fine (especially since many trans people don't fit into a binary of man or woman). Just “trans” can be problematic because it reduces people to only a label and can be dehumanizing.
Replace this fuckboy.
How is he great if he can feel no empathy and take care of you when you need it? If he's great, but not reliable, just be his friend.
If she hasn’t done his hair in 3 years, how did this relationship develop? He told her he was wishing he could see her when he was with you for Christmas?? That’s pretty unforgivable imho
It’s an unconscious reaction, he has no control over it. Seems like you’re making into something bigger than it is. Same thing happens to me when my gf touches me, and unless its a touch In a sexual way, 99.9% of the time I’m not thinking about sex. All it means is subconsciously he’s very attracted to you, which certainly isn’t a bad thing. I think you would be far more upset if he would have to try and get it up.
I feel so conflicted because I have never felt this much for someone. He's acknowledged my races very clearly and expressed that he feels no special ways about them besides wanting to understanding them more. (No fetishes or negative feelings) But I just don't know if that's enough.
Ya, I’m not really upset if she moves on. I more or less just don’t want to cause her any pain.
Thank you haha I needed that laugh. ? Good suggestions though.
She didnt want kids but wasnt able to have an abortion. We are both friends with her she just has nothing to do with our son through her own choice. But if she wanted to take a role in his life we both wouldn't be opposed to it.
I’m glad you’re in therapy and appear to be working on yourself. Social media is evil and addictive. Ugh.
what breed of dog?
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Aw thank you ☺️
This is my moral dilemma. I am trying to analyze the situation from each angle, considering the cultural differences as well. I understand your two points. I am very “westernized” and I have adapted to the Canadian culture. With that said, my mother lived most of her life in the Soviet Union and left Ukraine after it collapsed. She was upset after I told her what happened. My friend that told me the hurtful things spoken behind my back, lived in Ukraine her whole life. Most refugees I helped at the welcome center were so kind and refused help, even from the food bank because they thought others needed it more. What is the boundary between what is culturally “normal” versus what is rude in every culture?
I am trying to understand why they would speak behind my back and whether something was lost due to lack of context or interpreted differently. She may have been lying as well.
Of course, they did the other things I mentioned in the post but honestly we just glossed over it because we thought it was a different culture and we didn't need to be thanked every time we did something nice. But, I don't think speaking behind someone's back is an acceptable Ukrainian norm.
It's very hot without confronting my godmother's son because I don't want to betray my friend. But this is serious, as we are potentially going to stop talking to them so I am really afraid of making the wrong decision and misjudging them based on our cultural differences in what behaviour we believe is acceptable.
You don’t trust him and he’s already broken your trust at least once. What do you think?
This. Screw the drama. Just leave. You’ll never trust him again.
Kinda sounds like she got in her head about it & self-sabotaged. I hope you get some closure somehow. None of your mutual friends have talked to her about it?
But is it really cheating if you legit don't have anyone else that fits all the parameters? Or are you doing what you need to do to complete the assignment? I'm not a fan of cheating, either, but sometimes you just have to figure out how to make things work.
There are a few things you need to consider prior to breaking it off.
First, do you feel like you want to be with your current girlfriend or do you feel obligated to stay? From the sound of it, you feel obligated and would rather stay and keep the semi-friendship you have going on than lose that.
Secondly, is the Turk girl planning on staying or would you be willing to go with her? If you want to risk a good relationship with someone else you should probably have some idea of the logistics behind it. The Turk girl may not stay, and you may have the same issues as before. Are you able to handle two possible breakups? Is it worth it?
Thirdly, do you have the means to move out? It seems like you do and is afraid of doing so.
Fourth, it seems like your communication with your current girlfriend isn't quite where it should be. From the beginning of your relationship, you felt obligated to live! with her to keep the relationship going. Is this something you've mentioned to her before? This lack of communication may be a reason that she's not the girl for you. It seems you can't be honest with her.
Looking at how I see the situation, based on what you wrote, I would say to stay single. It seems like you are not ready to commit to the Turk girl, but you don't like your current girlfriend enough to be with her. No one should settle in this situation.
Probably brother’s wife’s sister.
Psst, bud, ever thought about how she was “paying” for that crack? Using her crack, probably.
Looks like he has deleted his account now – after a bunch of people already commented on his posts…
“I’m not comfortable having a non monogamous relationship. If you’d like to sleep with other people we will need to break up.”
Definitely has nothing to do with her diabetes and definitely something to do with the fact she's a fucking asshole.
I'm in an open relationship- it's great if it's what both people want! But if you don't want it, don't be pressured into it. That is not a boundary you want to allow your boyfriend to cross. It sounds like he may be insincere about the reasons he wants this, or you may just not be compatible anymore- either way, you have every right to make your needs clear.
Op just needs to send them this whole post. The husband and his brother owe op an apology, they are nuts wtf
I'd respond to that nasty text as ” your bastard of a brother planned this child with me and he knew very well where kids come from and how. Just because he changed his mind, he is causing shit to portray me as a bad guy. I can easily do without him, or rest of the family, you in particular. Sincerely, fuck you all.”
Then I'll spread the word around that mofo fucked off because he doest want the responsibility and would plan how to take care of my child.
I'm sorry you had to deal with idiots. Best of luck to you and your baby. Don't exclude your family and friends, no matter how very hot it is yo talk to them rn. Ask for a bit of support, even if it is just a chat and a cup of coffee.
You did NOTHING wrong. Feeling distant is not a reason to cheat.
If she felt neglected, but love you, then a one-time indiscretion would make more sense. Still not justified. But she blocked you, your family and mutual friends. She knew exactly what she was doing. It was all about her and had nothing to do with you.
Time to take care of yourself and find someone who deserves you. Best of luck!
Terrible idea……put the boot on the other foot. I'm sure you wouldn't like it, plus it's nothing that cant be conveyed in a letter or email.
Personally I'd stay away. People never just want to give you closure in situations like this
I know I made some bad decisions and I do have a latex allergy according to my doctor so I genuinely don’t know why I’m able to use condoms and lazy is the word he used I’m still trying to understand his point of view on the whole thing and I wasn’t sick I got injured and was struggling to recover
It’s ok. We live! and we learn and we hope the people coming after us don’t make the same mistakes. I wish you the best of luck and remember you are so young and there are many lovely guys out there. It’s ok to be super upset about things not working out. But realising when to walk away is super important. Love isn’t enough.
Never pretend
Well there's two possibilities from where I'm sitting
Either A) she caught feelings but she really didn't want to, so she's self-sabotaging until you get fed up and disappear
Or B) she's married, you're the side piece, and her spouse is threatening to leave, so she's staying at home trying to fix things
Both ways suck for you, my man
Late comeback but maybe her holes might be too loose, rather than you being smol.
No he shouldn't have to compensate using his fingers. He should be with a woman who loves and respects him for who he is and takes pleasure in his penis.
If a woman came on here complaining that her bf told her she was too loose, would you say, “Don't worry, you can always give him head!”
how would you feel (community responders) if you were my partner?
I'd probably feel pretty shitty and neglected. Are you actually the partner writing this? lol
I would never want this for my kids…
I just don't know how to stop caring how to pick myself up and move on… I'm scared to be alone and its times like this that intrusive thoughts start happening. I have no support system. 0 family and my ex husband made sure I had no friends..
Oh, I've just read your comments and you've purposely left the important info out of your post.
This is not about masturbation. This is about you bugging your girlfriend for nudes daily.
Stop bugging your girlfriend for nudes. Like literally, never do it again. If she's already been sending them, you have loads for your spank bank. Stop being a pest and using your girlfriend like a cam girl. It's gross. She deserves way better.
I'm confused- if you were non-monogamous when he slept with the last sex worker, how is that infidelity? I think you need to be fair here and not ascribe infidelity where there was none. To be taken aback or unsure of how you feel that your partner paid for sex is totally understandable- but he didn't cheat on you.
It is uncool that he didn't reveal this much of history to you sooner. That part can feel like a betrayal of trust, for sure.
I think part of it may be that there's a loophole to paying for sex versus dating or hookups- in that you can just order service without any of the rest of the work of dating so it can seem dehumanizing. And, even if you aren't judgemental of sex workers themselves, maybe you are judgemental of johns?
I can't say how to overcome it, but if you really love him and the relationship feels worth it, then give the news some time to settle.
It doesn't sound to me like she's looking for a boyfriend. She thought you would be a sympathetic ear, is all I am seeing in this situation. I would not encourage you to hit on her.
But you're already the bad guy according to his family.
Get a no contact order, if he violates it’s his own fault and problem.
You change your number than he can’t reach you
Sounds like he's had 3 opportunities to be with you over the course of 10 years… he just doesn't want to be with you.
He doesn't have romantic feelings for you. It sucks, but I'm not sure what you're holding out hope for. His mind isn't going to change—it would have, already.
At some point you're going to have to stop going back to this guy and learn this lesson. Until then, you're just going to keep hurting yourself.
Poor fiance…
Spend as much time with your mom as you can. Boyfriends come and go but you only get one mom.
Tbh, my mother was the same, as in she will usually be shut it but often needing to pee won't interupt her having a conversation with me either in person or on the phone (not when other people are about).
It's slightly comforting that someone else's mother / stand on future mother in law does it but she would never dare Infront of my husband lol
I stopped reading after “hoeish behaviour”. My boyfriend takes me out just so I can be a “hoe” on safe terms while he watches my back. Get a new boyfriend.
I stopped reading after “hoeish behaviour”. My boyfriend takes me out just so I can be a “hoe” on safe terms while he watches my back. Get a new boyfriend.
Honestly, if I were you, I would look into the cool temporary tattoos they have these days. There are even designers who can make custom ones.
Then you can express yourself the way you like, and have the option to change your mind on placement and design. Best of both worlds.
Honestly, if I were you, I would look into the cool temporary tattoos they have these days. There are even designers who can make custom ones.
Then you can express yourself the way you like, and have the option to change your mind on placement and design. Best of both worlds.
Why would you date someone who said you had no personality when you first met? You kind of put yourself in this situation. She’s also belittling you, probably because she’s quite a bit older than you and feels superior. I don’t think this is about what “women can do to men”, i think you just chose the wrong partner. It doesn’t really sound like either of you are currently ready for a relationship anyway..
A little too late for that. You already helped turn him into this. It's best for you guys to move on and for you to become a better person and partner for the future.
Get a lawyer. Why are you wasting time posting on reddit
So you were 20 when you married a 16 year old girl? How long had you been moles… er dating her at this point?
Something is very sketchy…. I casually mentioned the show and name dropped his male friend who he normally hangs out with, and I’m almost certain he said to me he went with this friend however it was a month ago so can’t say 100% he never at any point corrected me about who he was with ? now, I know in a previous relationship he got drama for hanging out with other female friends, however that’s not me and never has been. He’s gone to a gig before with a different female friend I also don’t know and I never made an issue of it, I was also aware beforehand. I don’t think he’s cheated but if I’m wrong I’ll be devastated, I’m more upset that he’s been deceitful and want to know the reason why.
That or he's trying to open the door for him to get a 17 yr old girlfriend
They do accept it. Angel-4007’s point was to prompt OP to reconsider whether “no regrets” is even a better answer in the first place. They’re encouraging OP to question her default assumptions.
You’re not understanding their point; even if you think your life is a perfect utopia and you wouldn’t change anything, you’ve still by definition missed out on a bunch of experiences and it’s perfectly natural to think “yeah that is a shame”. Both can be true at the same time.
So, I have a real question and I'm not trying to be rude, but why are you with her if she's such a terrible communicator?
Second question, real talk, is she on the Autism spectrum? Because if she is, it would explain SO much.
And last question, do you trust her?
Because I think it might be time for a converssation where you say “Girlfriend, I love you. I care for you. But at this point, I just don't trust you because you keep me in the dark about everything. I get having a certain level of privacy – but if you won't even tell me what you'll be up to in the afternoon, how am I supposed to trust you with BIG stuff? I'm going to need a lot more transparency with you to build up the trust or I just don't see us lasting much longer. Because I feel like in a lot of ways, I'm in this relationship alone.”
Is he overweight? I ask because confronting someone about their eating habits is a lot more sensitive with someone that has weight issues
Leave her alone. You don't need to know if she's happy being apart, if she wasn't she would have reached out at any time in the past 4 months. But she hasn't.
Time to focus on yourself and move on.