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Room for on-line sex video chat Scarlet_Spring
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Languages: en,es
Birth Date: 1996-06-23
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Ethnicity: ethnicityLatino
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Date: October 21, 2022
Oh hell yeah they gonna be fucking.
You don’t do anything except listen. It’s normal to be insecure and it’s normal to not be ready to do anything about it. She’s not looking for you to fix her or even advice what to do. She knows what to do. She just wants you to love her regardless
Exactly this. It feels as tho the husband never actually wanted kids and was hoping OP would let it go after awhile.
It's nice to see how excited you seem to be about this relationship. Best of luck! Not that you seem to need it haha
Ideally he'd be talking to a therapist about why he locks up in social situations. But minus that, maybe he just doesn't like to go out. So ask yourself if you'd still want to be with him if it meant all of your social outings had to be with your friends (while he stays home). Sometimes this kind of anxiety can be treated. Sometimes people just choose not to put themselves into the kind of social situations that make them anxious. This is something you two need to negotiate because if he's this averse to the kinds of situations you enjoy it may mean you're just not a great match to one another. Good luck.
You don't change her mind, you've told her your feelings and now you need to respect her feelings and decision. She might not ever get back with you. But keep being a great dad and keep that co-parenting nice and respectful though! Goodluck to i
Just dead it. You cheated, go ahead and put her through more pain. Unless you’re clean off of drugs and drinking you’re not serious
Even my husband was ambivalent about people going to his 6-9 year birthday meetings. It’s the same story, and he’s been in the rooms long enough to know those birthdays aren’t about him, they’re about whoever might walk in the door that night looking for something. By 31 years you’d think this supposed mother would know that.
Let's not victim blame her, because when she beces a victim (she already is) she's going to be hurting. Buy I also love your comment.
It's over. You need to move on.
You have every right to have hobbies and friendship outside the relationship. Would she rather you go to a bar or strip club with your friends? She is the one that needs to accept your hobby. If she can't, I can't see this relationship working long term.
There is nothing wrong with gaming. Play it when she watches her Dutch TV or whenever. Try to come to an agreement with her. If she doesn't try to compromise that pretty much says she doesn't care about your happiness.
I'm a woman and my hot working and amazing partner games a lot. He needs his down time and I'm happy he enjoys himself. He doesn't play loud games and he chats more than he talks but if he talked a bit I would be happy for him.
It would be pretty controlling if she didn't allow you to have hobbies. You should be able to play when you want as long as you are not neglecting your responsibilities or relationship. She can wear headphones or do anything else while you game.
I had to get an abortion, and I asked him to come support me. He didn’t communicate until the last minute that he didn’t want to come because “I’d see him soon anyway”.
In journalism this is known as “burying the lead.” This alone tells me you need to dump this guy. No decent caring man would do that. Period. 3 hours is not that far.
Babytrap him? They'd been married for 6 years by the time they had a baby!
If she were qualified and registered with her professional body this would be an ethics violation and she should be struck off.
All I'm thinking is:
She went through your stuff?
She went. Through your STUFF?
SHE WENT THROUGH YOUR STUFF?
She's not trying to help you she's trying to help herself feel better because she feels inferior to you. See? I know all her secrets cause I read some psychology stuff. Fucking hell, she's a liability. Report her. She thinks that having a diagnosis and being TREATED for mental health means you're not okay. Wtf?
There’s obviously more to this story. Since it’s not in your profile, you’ll have to let us know.
We tell you it’s the bare minimum because you shouldn’t HAVE to make this list for a normal adult. The fact that you even HAD to make this list is a huge red flag.
He freaking long term cheating with MEN is just icing on the Get The F**k Out cake. Once a Cheat, Always a Cheater isn’t a well know saying for no reason. Please respect yourself more than settling for a cheater. You deserve better. Get that.
You should move in the house alone.
I want her to move out of state but she won't do that lol. I feel like a kid sitting down with her eating dinner that her mom cooked honestly.
He sounds like a psycho
Except her family is their childcare, and he has no plan on how to replace that. He will also be commenting into this town he hates, so less time with his family, OP said he feels she can care for the kids all day, while working full time at home, and making the lions share of the income. All while he would have to “allow” her to go visit her family. He doesn’t even have a plan on how to go about building their house. Do they have the money for this? That doesn’t sound like any sort of good compromise to me. If he had a plan, okay, but he doesn’t, it will be a shit show
Let's all hope you raise your kid to be better than you
Yeah man, this will be hot to hear, it you’re a cheating piece of shit.
I hope she doesn’t take you back.
Human garbage. Absolute filth.
Yes, I've tried to suggest it, but it doesn't believe in therapy. He says he just need time alone
I'm so sorry you've been through this, it's not your fault, nor your wives, give yourself some time to get better and more stable. Don't know how to help, but there are some groups on Reddit for possible support. Good luck
What's good for the goose and all that. Most of these are guys replying because their egos are wounded on his behalf
You're being demonised for:
crossing a line.
trying to lure someone's gf away.
acting like a teenager when you're 35.
acting as if the way you feel is more important than the boundary you crossed.
Had you shoot your shoot, took the rejection, gave her some space and came back to the friendship without feelings. I'd have called you mature.
Seriously? Fantasizing about other men during sex, and her exes on top of that and you're blaming him for snooping? Seriously?
Your wife is a predator and now you're stuck being her baby seed machine and free childcare.
You won't feel that passion with the ex. And never ever ever stay with someone out of convenience. Life changes a lot over the course of a lifetime, don't lock yourself into what's easy today.
Also, You don't owe anyone anything, never forget that. You didn't owe your ex a justification for dating. You don't owe him an easy life.
And be single for at least a year. No one ever listens to that advice, but it's the single most effective method for ensuring that the next relationship isn't just a continuation of the last one, with someone standing in.
Please update tomorrow since you're going to do it
Thank you, I needed that. You’re right, it’s just hot to get out of that very strict traditional rules I was raised in. Might be why I can’t think for myself very well as I was always do as I was told or belt comes out. But you’re right, the more I experiment around I can learn to be my own person and find my own life and path and not be another doll in our very weird twisted game of house.
Why would you? What good could come of that?
how else do we get guys to go see the doctor lol
This hurts to hear. I guess you're right.
UPDATE:
If anyone would like a new post linking back to this one let me know, and I’ll try to figure that out. In the meantime below is the update:
Firstly, thank you all for your advice, it is much appreciated.
I sat down with my fiancée last night to discuss, and tbh I tried to stay calm but might of come in a bit hot and heavy, so made for an uncomfortable conversation to say the least.
Anyways, we agreed that the terms used might not be appropriate and she has acknowledged she would not appreciate seeing similar messages from me to anyone else, regardless of sexual orientation/preference.
The man in question will not be staying here, as again if the roles where reversed she would not be comfortable with me inviting a coworker (regardless of their chosen gender) to move in on even a temporary basis. We have agreed overseas visitor are fine, as we are both international ourselves.
However, she feels seeing her messages was an invasion of her privacy, and not accidental regardless of my insistence. Subsequently, will need to rebuild a certain level of trust. I am struggling with this to an extent, as my iPad, MacBook and iPhone are at her complete disposal – and she has full access to them all which are all backed up by iCloud which syncs all messages/photos/emails etc. So this will be next hurdle to overcome.
Lastly, the gentleman in question does identify as gay from my understanding, and I’ll be having lunch with them both next week.
Thank you all for your advice/suggestion, appreciate you all!!
Are they still in contact?
Fuck no. He clearly has no respect for you so have enough respect for yourself to leave his freeloading, childish ass in the dust
I know no one’s reading this but she was faking everything the entire time 🙁
You can say “Sorry, I don't have any.” White lie or truth, it's a way to shut this down. After you refuse her 5 or 6 times, she may get the hint, or just find someone else to mooch off of.
Yeet the cheat!
Block him and move on instead of sitting there reading his texts or taking his calls
If I may, I have a follow-up question. What are y'alls thoughts on this game she is playing?
is she really wanting to leave is this un dealt with crush even going on is she trying to get back into our relationship again
Just tell her the truth that you are uncomfortable with her baking it for him. It's not giving an order or an ultimatum it's just telling her how you feel.