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He needs to grow up. I saw a friends nipple piecing cause she wanted to know if anything looked wrong. It's what friend do, it isn't cheating.
I'd ignore the request to see it and see if he brings it up again. It really is too early to tell, could go either way really.
This chick can’t find ANY OTHER MALE???? Seriously I’m questioning her motives. If you happen to bump into each other that’s cool. But if she found you on Facebook or reached out to you, she has ulterior motives. If it’s social media keep it on social media only but don’t go out of your way to talk to her. That’s a ticking time bomb. Respect your wife. Women can be sneaky especially if she’s single or in an unhappy situation.
Why are you letting your boyfriend's ex on-line in your head? You're probably thinking about her more than he is. Are you sure you are ready for a relationship?
Noone can skip a day of showering. Shower daily thats nasty. You also shouldn't do it for somone, do it for yourself because practicing good hygiene is important.
I'm not sure where that one person's comment went. They must have deleted it… I may not be “mature enough” but I think me realizing my mistakes and wanting to make things right, rather than just being salty, is a mature thing to do. I learned from my mistake. 🙂
If you wanted a family of your own down tue road then she can’t be able to. Just think long term
Buy the nee bed. There will be hills to die on in any relationship dont pick this as the one you wanna.
He is 32 and dating a 22 y/o. He doesn’t want kids with you because you are being used for sex not a future.
You husband is abusive, a compulsive liar, manipulative and overall just a trash bag in your marriage. He refused professional help and uses your money to pay bills? You're not in love anymore and if I were you, this would be the absolute advantage since your feelings are no longer in the way. Just get rid of his dead weight, make a custody agreement and get your life back.
Finally someone with some sense
With him being 100% sterile it’s either another man or the Holy Spirit. Which one is the most likely?
Why has noone mentioned that he could have been raped? He was drunk and on drugs and therefore unable to consent. He did not move or touch her and can barely remember anything.
If a female was drunk/on drugs and woke up to find someone having sex with them, you’d all be screaming rape. Why is noone saying this at all?
How deeply sexist all the commenters on this thread are. I’m appalled.
How long until he starts hitting you?
Well, I don’t think this is about an apology. I think it’s about a communication.
I think right now you both are miss communicating with each other. You’re just tired and it’s not that you don’t want to sleep with her ever just right now. Do you want some food and you guys can visit something later on. You told her what you wanted. She didn’t provide that so it sent up a signal to you.
I’m only assuming here, but she’s probably assuming that you’re a guy and just automatically want sucks. That most guys want sex for the birthday so she wants to provide that to you. She’s just trying to offer you what she thinks you also want and then provide to you what you communicated. She’s just trying to make some plans with you. I think it’s something that can really be appreciated.
I don’t know the job you have, but I totally get just not being in the mood because of it. It’s probably very hot for her to understand that and that’s why I think this is just a miscommunication. In cases like this, I think you both can apologize for that. This isn’t about a right or wrong. It’s just about how each of you feel. You both need each other to have a healthy relationship, and I think that something worth having a good conversation and apologizing and both Ends.
THIS! I am 24 yo and I would be very disappointed at any friend of my age dating a 18yo. I actually had issues with a friend a few years ago because she was 22 and dating a 18yo and I didn't agree with the relationship. The age gap wasn't that big, but the kid was still in high school and even then I found it weird.
Why don't you just move the cat food bowls somewhere else?
If it’s a vacation incompatibility, it would be silly. This sounds like a difference in priorities and life goals though tbh.
Tysm for sharing your story I've only had my therapist for a few months and we've had 5 session I'll definitely write my issues down and give it to her!
No that I can understand. this was some random app that shows real time locations and addresses
He kisses me every time I ask him to? I guess you didn’t see the other comments.
Bro is making the forbidden white sauce
Stop trying to find ways to coerce her into having sex. She wants to save herself for marriage and that’s her right, whether you disagree with it or not.
If you disagree, then break up with her.
This is what I would do in your shoes. Do not confront him about it. It’s a waste of time and energy. I would carry on acting as if I’m still in the dark. Collect all the evidence. Screenshot everything, open a secret google account and store everything on that drive. Go to a bank and open a separate back account. Make sure it’s not the bank you use with your husband. Pull out cash every time you go to the store and start squirreling it away little by little.
Start collecting every document that covers your assets. Meet with a few lawyers. You will be working closely with this person for years seeing you have children together. Make sure they are a shark but also someone you can trust.
Start building your support team. Call in trusted friends, let them know what’s happening.
When all that is done, you hand him divorce papers with printouts of all the screenshots. Tell him he has 30 days to move out. If you want to be extra petty, find this woman and send her the printouts too. Tell her you are leaving him over his obsession and lack of involvement of your marriage. Tell her it basically a heads up he might come looking for her and good luck.
Op, ever wonder if your depression was because you are living in an unfulfilled life with a dud of a husband?
i really dont know. posting this made me decide want to just do it for my peace of mind so I can stop daydreaming
“My girlfriend bought me a thoughtfull and expensive gift, and now im angry!”
My dude, what the fuck are you doing? Just fucking buy yourself something different if you feel like you absolutely need to spend 350$ on something.
Girl I hope you keep us updated
Wow people are being really very hot on OP here. Yes in the comments he sounds a bit douchy, but at the end of the day, he tohis GF he wasn’t thinking of marriage at the moment. She was ok with that. She changed her mind after pregnancy.
All of those things are understandable. But OP going into a marriage he doesn’t want to isn’t going to magically make it a good one.
So what birth control actions were you taking to stop pregnancy? If you didn’t want another kid why not get a vasectomy or use condoms? It takes 2 to tango.
Jealousy is a bitch and it will ruin everything. You'll look at your bf differently. You won't be able to trust either of them with each other after it happens. There's no pros only cons. Trust me. It's happened to me twice.
That's mean to today's teenagers who know better lol
I’m an addict and married. I think OP should let this go and understand where she’s coming from. She just has his best interest at heart. It can be painful to be treated like a child who can’t be trusted, but the truth is she is still rebuilding that trust. It takes a lot of time and energy.
She actually handled it quite well in my opinion.
Thank you friend. Can’t wait to chat w my therapist tomorrow lmaoo.
Well, hoping for good results – whatever that may be.
Thank you very much for your reply. I know it sounds like excuses but my children attend an international private school where parents do have limited time and dont really talk things other than business, world politics etc. I kinda socialize with them once or twice a month but it feels fake and more build on business. Some are in tech, some are in fashion, some are in construction etc. business. I use to have hobbies like photography but I let them all go. My performance is critical because profitability of the factory directly relates to my take home. I dont have set wage. One month I can bring 10K, one month I can bring 100K. No one around me says “hey, how about you, what have you done for yourself” it is always next dress or activity or trip. I am also stressed because I dont know how long I can sustain my pace without cracking. Some days I feel like an ATM. I do want friends but it feels overwhelming to even try to open up. I did consider therapy and scheduled it. I feel like end of my marriage is coming. She is due to finish Aug 26 but she is talking about spending extra few weeks to attend some events… like kids and I are less important than an event. Her “wage” wouldnt be enough for half of her rent. I dont want to bad mouth my wife. She is gorgeous, smart and loves her children but a big part of me wonders does she love me for the right reasons… like this XX guy, I dont think they slept together but I know she finds him more exciting than me. He travels around the world to set parties and events. He sounds cool, I got no problem with him but I find it very hot to swallow that my wife finds him exciting when she has so much at home. Our children are wonderful. Our youngest had a nightmare about mum not coming back home. I comforted her. I dont reflect anything to kids but I think they are sensing it. They all have iphones & ipads so they are accessible to talk to mum but they talk to her less than I do. It almost feels like a slowly twisting knife in my gut and I wonder if I should fight for her affection or try to heal and move on… I really cannot think clearly and I am afraid it is going to impact my professional life
You don’t want to convert and he wants to marry someone who shares his religion and culture. You are simply not compatible. I would also be wary of converting to a religion and adhering to cultural norms of a society that follows pretty strict gender roles and ranks quite terribly in terms of gender equality. I know you don’t on-line there but I assume his parents did and he could be swayed by his upbringing. I don’t know how progressive he is but it’s pretty much “men work, make money and are the head of the household” “women have kids and do the caretaking, cleaning, cooking etc” is this something he believes? Is this something you’ve discussed with him? Or something you would be willing to do?
Or a fake ass story
Single on Facebook….
Sorry man, but if she hasn’t updated her status after 8 months, then are you sure you are in a relationship?
This sounds like fiction
He doesn't care and he doesn't respect you. He possibly considers cheating to only be if he has PIV intercourse. Or he might even say that isn't cheating.
So the question becomes…. what differences does it make what his “views” are when his actions speak loudly?
Are you hoping to change his perspective? What will that do? The bigger issue here is he has cheated on you, whether he admits it or not. He didn't take any accountability for it and continues to gaslight you. He hasnt changed.. He likely continued or will again cheat on you. And he'll gaslight you then too.
So what does the majority opinion matter? It isn't going to change him.
begging isn’t rape
Multiple people have pointed out legal instance where it is
“Hey we can chat about this during work hours” is a good comment I think. Sets a boundary without being too presumptuous.
The reason why this controlling, 40 year old, insecure twat of a man is dating someone of your age, is because there's not a woman his age with a shred of self respect who'd put up with this kind of toxic bullshit.
Tell him to take a long walk off a short pier then block him on everything.
This is abuse. You’re in an abusive relationship and you deserve better.
The thing is, you don’t have to break attachment or stop caring before you can leave. Unfortunately it kinda has to go the other way – often it’s not until you’ve left and had some time away from the trauma bond and abuse that you can start to seperate yourself from the cycle of abuse you’re stuck in and see this for what it really is – with your heart as well as your head.
Yes you are
Ah also she told me a lot of her hoe stories before we even met, so yea thats kinda adding something to my anxiety.
Can and always is.
I am not trying to say that because he is Christian he should not watch prn, please, do not get me wrong.
But, why WOULDN'T you say that? If you're both christians, you can't watch porn. Like, this is christianity 101. I'm an atheist and I can even tell you that. If you're following jesus you can't lust over people you aren't married to. Jesus said that, it's not some far off bible verse. It's really clear.
It's Matthew 5:27–30
If you're following the version of jesus from the bible, porn is not a part of your life.
It's been fun. Just the other day I was in another sub where people were talking about how most replies on reddit are just the person projecting, and now you're saying I have problems with reading comprehension. That's perfect!
If he says anything related to my appearance that seems extremely judgy one more time I think I’ll end it
Thank you for your opinion. It’s good to hear what other people opinions are besides me and my friends. It’s easy to make rash decisions when there are emotions flowing through
You’re done here and it’s time to move on.
I think that she got the 7 year itch and wanted to take a try with someone else while keeping you on retainer.
That’s not something you can easily come back from because if she had just been honest and said that she wanted to break up then no one’s being lied to but this way you’ll never know if she’s telling the truth or not.
Sorry.
I feel like men love pursuing women though. I think I might leave it to message if he doesn’t by tonight then I’ll just say thank you
You have been together 8 months and you don’t want to go past kissing, time to move on. Sounds like he isn’t the person you thought he was. You could waste months or years waiting for this to change. It probably wont.