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I didn't say he should propose. He most definitely shouldn't.
Counter point – what if what's being hidden is a potential danger to the wellbeing of your partner (or others)??
Not all snooping is trust issues. Got a friend going through some shit and she is absolutely acting out of love for whatever the fuck is going on with her man. Easy to paint her cray cray and she has acted the part in desperation, but she's also one of few who knows he's in real threat of financial security amongst other shit that NO ONE else seems to have even the slightest clue about. Violation of trust?? Idk man, all I see is a girl wrecking her own reputation in the name of being the only real advocate for someone she loves, rather than others willfully turning a blind eye to something seriously off what mathematically makes sense.
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Then sucks to suck! He had a child, that child’s mother happens to be another woman. That means he’s tied to that woman through their child forever, if you can’t get over that and leave the parenting to the parents than you need to let this guy find a gf that can respect his coparenting relationship. But trying to call the shots, demand thing from the child’s mother as well as being nasty to her and just overall being nasty is not going to get you anywhere positive.
Okay this is either fake or you are really stupid and really shitty.
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If I caught someone in a lie once I’d leave them, how could you ever trust them again. Leave.
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Ok so when did she last sit on your lap? And pls tel me u haven’t been in love with her for 5 years?
And like that…. Tinder disappeared FOREVER
If you are financially independent please don’t keep setting yourself on fire for his warmth it’s not healthy for you mentally.
Your husband put his hands on someone first. You are not victims.
Just so you know, you can live and work together and he can still secretly cheat. He's already having an emotional affair.
Just let her go dude, she ain't worth it.
Keep trying to find a place together or maybe stay were you are if she can help you with the rent increase
Yeah. Someone doesn't NEED to be in the wrong. No one needs to be a villain for a relationship to end.
If someone is too unhappy with something, cannot be at peace with it, and that thing cannot change, things can end, and it'll be the natural conclusion of the matter.
I'm aware… That's my point…
I mean he’s here criticizing his wife while leaving comments like
If she told me directly that she did not want kids, not now not ever, obviously that would influence my feelings more than “maybe there's a small chance someday”
He has literally never expressed his desires either but she is the bad guy? Mmhmmm
You should lose all trust in him, break up with him, and block him on everything.
You waited all this long to find a decent person, not the self-disclosed player you’re talking about. Believe the guy when he told you that he’s a player. He’s playing you.
Wait a few months before being intimate with someone. This is a good way of vetting the intentions of a guy.
The thing is she did put the boundary down and told her friend about it… from the first time I was uncomfortable…
Get your ducks in a row. Start pulling yourself back from him. Don't tell him you know. Play dumb. When you have enough saved and have a new place in order then leave him.
She literally brought up the subject herself a few months ago saying “I’ve always wanted to try this but I’m nervous it would hurt, but it sounds hot”.
Could do an eyepatch and say you had some eye surgery.
So you were already drank when you visited him? How drank you were? What time was that?
Wow, I didn't expect my unofficial diagnosis to be so spot-on (!!!). Another long reply:
Obviously, you should never feel like you are your partner's therapist, nor his parent. Now that I read one of your older posts, I understand more of your situation. While there can be flexibility in who acts as the “alpha” in the relationship, you have ended up in more of a parent or psychologist role than as an intimate partner. I can't see that working out long-term.
I'm blown away by how much of this you already understand. Very few people, including psychologists, understand this.
Now it's time for some very hot decisions. Your situation is stable, and you (unlike most people) understand it well.
Your advantages if you were to marry and move to the US:
You as a couple would be able to afford to online in a good neighborhood (which is hot to do today in the US!). While pediatricians in the UK make £129K, in the US it's $216K ( £175K), which is enough for all but the most extreme cities (e.g., Manhattan, San Francisco, Miami). If you also are high-earning, anywhere is fair game. You would eventually qualify to become a dual citizen. With only one caveat: Americans are the only people in the world who have to pay double tax on earnings on anything above about $110K USD. So your net income would go down if you ever moved back to the UK as a dual citizen, assuming you have a high-paying job (with gains in travel and retirement options). Note that I've been tempted to do something similar: my wife and I would qualify for a quick dual citizenship if we became residents of Spain. She would get it in about 2 years, mine would take about 5. But to find my job in Spain at a salary equivalent to what I earn now… unlikely!
But:
You would still be living basically as the parent and therapist instead of the intimate partner. Racism has reached a high point right now in the US (we've gone backward about 60 years!). My children are literally a mix of about a dozen countries, and we have to be very selective about where it makes sense to on-line. The other half of it is that, while the LGBTQIA community now has more rights and is more accepted (especially gays), much of the gay community in the US is VERY racist. So finding a good location that is both gay-friendly and not racist is HOT. Good cities may include: New York City, Las Vegas, Los Angeles, Houston, and Miami. Not sure about Atlanta and DC (good for blacks, not sure about Mediterraneans). It would require some serious investigation. You should assume that anywhere that voted for the angry orange toddler in the 2016 and 2020 elections isn't a safe space.
In my case, I have aphantasia and some autistic traits. My wife is asexual 99% of the time, and had some traumas in her youth. It's far less extreme than your scenario, yet it's still been difficult.
I especially relate to your scenario because my children are in similar circumstances.
One has ADHD, some autistic traits, clinical depression, is nonbinary, is pansexual, has PCOS, and is demisexual. Complicated. An attempted marriage was a disaster. Due to being demisexual, a long-term intimate relationship could never last (demisexuality eventually turns intimate partners into roomies). The other is fully autistic, greyromantic, nonbinary, has PCOS, and is a sex-repulsed asexual. Marriage absolutely cannot happen, unless it was with someone with nearly identical characteristics (“needle in a haystack”). That child has dated a little bit, but it always has been “friends without benefits”.
Some would suggest for your scenario an “open relationship”, but that would never work. Your partner would freak out about it, and from your perspective, you would be further separated from each other. If you cheated on the sly, you would feel bad about it, and would still end up breaking up.
I wish I had suggestions on what you could do to improve your relationship, but you are facing things that don't have a “cure”, they are aspects of your partner that are permanent. He's not “broken”, he's just very different from you.
Please let us know what ends up happening. Onward and upward!
I was wondering the same thing… is everyone else the problem, or, more likely, the one person everyone else has a problem with? Some major details are left out.
I wouldn’t do anything about it . I will quietly move to another team . I mean I’m not single neither is he. I’m not a person who has secret affairs . I don’t think I can leave my husband even if he wants to leave his family .
That's kind of where I'm at ?
Quit being friends with her and quit associating yourself with anyone that is defending her. That fact that your husband wanted to meet with her first after being hit on instead of discussing it with you is still shady. What was he exactly going to say to her in their private meeting. Keeping her around is opening a door for both of them. Cut her off. She is insecure and interpreted your kindness as a green light to hit on your husband.