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Date: December 7, 2022
Sounds like she’s got used to being lazy and has been taken you for granted and no longer cares enough to fix the relationship.
She’s probably use to being treated like a princess and never had to do chores, if she grew up with maids.
Sit down and draw up a chores list. Ask for help when you need it. Ask for massages or head rub (try not to pressure her sexually and see if that will naturally pick up).
If she gets angry, you have your answer for your next step – divorce.
He's a selfish young man and immature
I wouldn't advice people of break ups or not, it's not my business when i don't know details. But i don't think her manipulativd tactics is in your best interest long term. It could easily be transitioned to something else for her to get her way. She's shown you who she is. It's up to you to decide if you're okay with that part of her.
OP could be blinded by his love bombing. Sit down and do this with someone who knows you & him well enough to answer honestly
I would suggest moving in together before ever considering house buying. Rent a place you can afford together for a year. If he isn't willing to commit to that level, then move on.
I’ve made one comment but I want to make another after reading other comments and your responses to them.
You continuously state “HE WAS A BAD GUY”. You keep saying how bad he is. How there’s a documentary about him. How HE killed someone. Etc etc.
SHE IS NOT HIM. She didn’t hurt anyone.
Lastly don’t you think she’s tearing herself up inside since SHE’S the one who dated him? I’m sure she’s embarrassed for ever being w him, regrets it & wishes she could go back in time and never be w him. Probably hates herself and feels she has poor judgment in men. If you keep this up or bring it up to her she’ll realize she does have poor judgment esp being a divorced. Don’t be another guy she has to put up with. Gotta wonder if her ex husband had the same issue w her last and she got fed up w it.
Dude. You say she’s such a wonderful person yet the relationship is suffering because YOU ARE hung up on a guy.
OP made bad decisions in getting drunk. Ideally that shouldn’t have mattered around friends.
But crying and saying stop during sex means consent is withdrawn, and if sex doesn’t immediately stop, it’s rape.
Of course!
You ask in exactly the same way as if she were wearing underwear: Did you fart? Don't you think it smells like pee around here? Where's that smell coming from?
She was trapped.
If you have only been together a few months is it possible to be from pre relationship?
Dating someone is the test run. The trial period. The goal is to see if someone is a compatible life partner. Not to fix them, not to be tormented by them, but to see if they are worth your time and attention and love.
This dude ain't it.
Hi OP. I was having pain with penetration every time I had sex, even with proper lubrication. Went to see a urologist to realize my pelvis muscles are too “tight”. I went through physical therapy to loosen the muscles and it has drastically improved my sex life. Just putting this out there.
About 8 months prior…
Idk they might try to say I was “menacing him” or loitering because I was waiting for my Lyft on a public sidewalk. You know police…they want to find something to arrest for.
Hate to say this but he’s trash. His comments are not looking out for you, they’re putting you down. A good partner will use supportive words/ways if they’re looking out for your health. ANDDD he’s reply to you asking him to knock it off is an excuse for the next time he body shames you again. He knows how it makes you feel but still continues and does not make any effort to stop those rude comments. He is wishing you to look a certain way and you should not tolerate that.
You are NOT making a big deal out of this! YOU DESERVE SOMEONE BETTER!
Have a talk, tell her how you are going to do better and why you want to do better for yourself and for her. Reassure her that she means the world to you and that you have full remorse for fucking up. If you both love each other and communicate properly it should be a good conversation that will reassure her that you are serious about this boundary and will actively work to keep your promise/mend the broken one. If you can’t keep your end up on the boundary, leave or try find a compromise.
That you're not a puppy or a child that has any idea of what a sexual relationship is.
I wonder if he’s doing so to try an start some sexy time? Could he be going through a period of excessive arousal, kinda like how women tend to get more aroused around or on their periods? If that’s the case, he’s much better off just saying so, but he could be a little shy about it. Try to ask WHY he’s doing it and what his goal is.
Time to move on! Her behavior will get worse!! Soon she will threaten suicide and hold you hostage at knifepoint!
Possible narcissist. Be weary of him after a comment like that. He is belittling you.
Communication is key. You need to confront this head on with your wife and take it from there. Some of this repairable but that will depend on you two putting the effort in. You both need to be brutally honest with each other and understand what is missing, how to fix, and if you are willing to walk away understanding what is at stake (e.g. financial, custody, etc). My advice is since you have kids, try to work it out. A lawyer is expensive and in my mind last resort. I'm sorry you found out this way but I'm sure you probably noticed something was missing for a while. You are in shock and need to confront her, take some time between you two, and then discuss when anger is no longer there.
Yes this!!!
Right? I was surprised at the number of people thinking rehoming is the appropriate solution to a problem that training would correct.
You said it's over. It's over. He hasn't replied in a day. Let it go. He understood. What do you need to hear from him. Delete his contacts. Have a good Holiday.
Yo, don't leave us hanging!! How'd it go? I've seen videos of folks actually crying when they got to use them for the first time. Now I'm gonna have to go dig up some of those videos to give me a smile.
Well, how about having a friend plus the neighbor's son?
Your friend, assuming good friend, really good friend, can stay in the bedroom with you while your neighbor's son can stay in the room next door.
This way, more bodies in the house (not that it stopped someone from murder if they really are keen to do this) and maybe somewhat make your bf less insecure or whatnot.
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I mean, he reminds me of this a lot: he's a nice person, which is rare. I guess I agree, it could be worse. He's not cruel to me or anything. So there's other stuff in the relationship where sometimes I wished I felt loved, but he does try to care for me in his own way. So I guess the answer to your question is that it all depends on perspective.
The dude obviously sucks, drop the asshole.
He can get alimony if he has nothing and she is rich.
You are doing the right thing for your own mental health
Her motivations matter.
Is the 25F with the man because she actually likes/loves him, finds him attractive/fun etc. or is she doing it solely/mainly for what he buys her?
Be warry of people that challenge their attractivity with the crowd because as they grow older they'll have to push the moral boundaries more and more to stay relevant.
We briefly discussed in the past how we want gifts done. She said ‘something that makes you think of me’ and I said ‘I’m the same.’
That said, I’m not looking to be angry at her. I just would like a different kind of gift in the future but don’t know how to approach the topic without sounding cruel to the gifts she did get me and hurting her.
see, only good things, but i still recomend you to advise your kids to stay in contact with their mtoher even because her being a bad partner dont prevent her from being a bad mother, and this can come back to you later on
If it aint broke, don't fix it.
If your daughter and your wife's 'friend' are comfortable with the situation, then let it ride. There's no point trying to artificially stunt the relationship before there's a need, it will only bring trauma into a situation that is currently working.
Addressing it now will not ameliorate your need for damage control if they break up in the future, it will only add to your daughter's confusion.
I am wondering if this speaks to a deeper situation that you have not really considered – you and your wife are in an open marriage, without having pre-discussed what boundaries are appropriate for the children.
My advice would be not to tell your daughter anything until she asks about it. Then, give her an age-appropriate explanation.
“Uncle” can be an honorific for many reasons. Let it ride. Unless this is some form of jealousy peeking through? Are you willing to share your wife's affection, but not your daughter's? That needs unpacking with a professional.
You made her breakfast and everything so now it’s all good, it wasn’t that bad and you should be forgiven. No actually, you shouldn’t even talk about it and pretend it never happened. /s Get help! And leave her you abusive POS!
Ma'am, you need to share this with someone IN your life. Do not be a headline.
Keep dating the awesome chick. Dad and brother will just have to buck up and quit being pathetic dick bags
Best of luck
yikes. he's defo using me for entertainment i can tell that already. gonna have to work out a way to gracefully exit the conversation, we share friends so i can't block him without causing dumb drama
I had to scroll wayyyyy too long to find this comment.
I would argue that even her reaction to it was a an equal red flag. She either severely lacks a social tact or doesn't care how her reaction is affecting him, thus disrespecing him. Like cool, I know that there will always be a bigger guy than me but come on, you won't see me almost passing out from a hot picture of a very hot model in front of you. Having at least some consideration to your SO in any situation is a must. She failed there miserably
Do they look the same in your pack? Mine are a completely different colour so you can't confuse them. I'm sure sugar pills that look identical could be purchased online though
I'm sorry bro, best of luck and all the strength in the world my man. Literally the worst feeling.
Bullshit. It’s been on here many times.
Both of you messed up on that one his was a complete overreaction. I can fully understand him being angry about it but that was no excuse to take it as far as he did. Id be scared for the future with a person like this. If you do stay watch out for his behavior. It's not likely to improve and even get worse.
I firmly believe before taking something you should always ask. I try to plan things out and depend on certain things being there when I need them. It's just not as simple as swinging by the store sometimes to pick up more when you are out. Just be more aware next time. Thats all.
The babies are only 6 months.
Buy time. Literally tell her that you do not want to talk about it. There’s too much as it is and this can have a pin in it.
Buy a year. Set a date and make a plan. Get a sitter, maybe a long weekend (mini-break) at a hotel. You’ve got a year to stick a few pounds a week into a jar for it.
I know this doesn’t solve it. But you both have six month old twins to juggle. This may not the time to be deciding, and frankly time works in your favor.
Work on yourself first. You've been exclusive for 2-3 weeks, chill the hell out.
I'd run if I was dating someone like you.
Is he on disability fir ADHD or something that could interfere with his ability to do chores?
If the only reason you don’t want to break up with him is because you’re insecure about your future, then you should do it. You’re both so young and the relationship is extremely new – there’s nothing there that’s irreplaceable and I guarantee you will find something like it again. Don’t tie yourself down to someone you recently met before you go to college – you’re going to grow and change so much there, and he’s going to grow and change in the Marines as well. Sure it might be possible to make it work if you really want to, but ask yourself if this relationship is really what you want to suffer potential heartache and misery over to save.
Ya! I did. After class last week. We went and grabbed a coffee. I told her I was super into her, my gf was super into her, and we wondered where her head was at. She’s super into us, and we made plans for this Friday for a hot date.
We still go to her gym 3x per week, so it’s also fun to hang out there.
All good things come from talking it out 🙂
Gotta get out there and find yourself a Dizzy.
Reading skills, really, tf is wrong with you guys?
Dump his selfish, disrespectful a$$ and find a decent man who loves you and wants you to be happy.
Going to someone's work and essentially investigating someone for infidelity, implying that they are engaging in immoral behavior and/or have in the past, thus endangering their employment meets criteria for legally actionable harassment in a lot of places. You might not be engaging in “stereotypical” stalker behavior, but harassing someone's partner to get to them is stalking. Like most behavior of this kind it's hot to prove, but what your doing is illegal, immoral and mean spirited. You're so set on causing trouble you've arbitrarily decided that someone is “fake gay” in a attempt to find something to justify all of this, which is awful for a lot of reasons. How dare you.
I choked on mine!
She's not definitely GOING to cheat on you…and is already laying the groundwork Move on from this relationship
why dont u just do it and get it out of the way and if u enjoy it ur pleasantly surprised and if u dont u have a reason next time it comes up
Doesn’t sound like you’re getting much out of this relationship except extra hassle, so… don’t worry, there are much nicer people out there for you once you dump him!
After all, why not? Why shouldn’t I keep it?
She didn't say “I should have gone and fucked some other guy,” she didn't even say she wanted to fuck some other guy, she just says most guys would have wanted to fuck her in that lingerie, the point being “why didn't you?” not “so I'm gonna go do that.”
What are u trying to overcome? That he seems to be having an emotional affair? P.s. my ex husband left me for his co worker.
I want to thank everyone for the advice. I have moved on and gone on some dates. All I feel around my ex now is irritation. He is someone who likes to milk things and get sympathy. I used to put up with it, but now all I do see is excuses. I am happy where I am now in life and aiming to further better it. Who knew the best thing he could ever do for me was to end things. Again, thank you, everyone. I know I didn't exactly message back, but I took everything that was said and applied it to my daily life.
And what if he is? So what?
One one hand, I'd strongly want to send a message.
“What makes you think it is okay for you to talk to me like this?”
Might get his attention but would probably be pissing in the wind. You're dealing with an adult child.
an “I'm done with you” and a block would be appropriate. You never owe anyone 110% (an impossibility) Much less for a hobby. Nor do you need to smooth things over with others. If you're done with Dickhead Steve, that's your business. Not theirs.
Don't be afraid.
Ok you thought he was a bad liar but discovered that he’s actually a good one and managed to cover up his one f up for 4 years. And he didn’t tell you about it – you had to find out about it by going thru his stuff.
Why did you decide to go through his stuff now? Apparently this information was there for 4 years, what triggered you to be checking him out?
And do you have any concrete proof that this is his only transgression? I mean he’s covered this up for 4 years, has he taken any vacations without you? Visited family without you? Had to work out of town without you? Had a different phone in the past 4 years? Have you went through his other electronic devices?
Don’t get angry with him. Communicate with him and tell him what you don’t like but understanding it comes from a good place. Also, people with bipolar disorder do sometimes need someone looking over them, particularly with regards to keep taking their medication especially in manic episodes.