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Hey good on you for sticking to your guns. I see too many people here that can’t do that.
Eh, I would advise letting this slide for now. It’s about picking your battles. She’s hormonal and probably having insecurity and fear about her body and attractiveness as her pregnancy advanced. If you want to be an active participant and support during her pregnancy, then I’d hold off on pushing back against her attempt to exert control. The truth is she will have little control once the child is born and a co-parenting plan is devised and in place. Just as you won’t be able to issue a blanket statement that a future BF is forbidden to be around the child. She would have to establish cause by providing evidence of why this woman’s presence around the baby would be detrimental. Hurt ex gf feels won’t meet that criteria. And keep your wits about you when it comes to text exchanges. Delete nothing and remain aware that your texts can be taken into consideration in future conflict. That can work for you or not.
Maybe she realised you are better for her. But she is and her ex has a difficult past
Why are you avoiding the obvious question of why are you so stuck on this one, almost unanimously agreed, terrible way to propose?
My red haired, blue eyed husband has two kids with his ex, who is a Black woman. Both have red hair, one has blue eyes.
Same deal with Prince Harry and Meghan's kids, they're both redheads.
Hair color IS complicated.
OP, Do not keep a cheater's secret. Go no contact with mom and John until you've had time to process the impact of their betrayal. You may want counseling to help with this. You may want them to have SOME consequences for their actions (why should you be the only one to pay for their behavior?) Do you want liars and cheaters in your life? If so, how far are you willing to trust the untrustworthy? Only after you have processed your feelings and answered your questions do you deal with them…if you want to.
Just because someone asks you to do something, doesn't mean you have to agree to it.
Tell her you have been thinking this over, and you don't feel at all good about the group sex while you wait.
I’m glad you’re in therapy and appear to be working on yourself. Social media is evil and addictive. Ugh.
I’m glad you’re in therapy and appear to be working on yourself. Social media is evil and addictive. Ugh.
Other than child custody, ex can only be in your life as much as you allow her to be, why are you allowing it?
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Cut contact and just move on and better yourself.
Consent still matters in marriage. You don't have to have sex with your wife if you don't feel like it.
I’m not so sure. He said it was his “new years resolution” to quit cold turkey. He tried to have sex with me to cope with his addiction.
Separate your finances, you are not married and should not have merged finances.
You can't make him give a shit. I'd probably break up with him because his work ethic doesn't align with building a future together but that's up to you.
He knows. He doesn't care. He knows you'll just pick up his slack.
Rule #1
If your relationship would make an interesting episode of Jerry Springer you should probably end it
First of all I’m really sorry you’re going through this. Unfortunately you can’t force someone to be with you and I have to say, the way your ex has behaved, you’re better off without someone like that. She’s cheated on you and you deserve better. Might not feel like it now, but you’ll feel better for it in the long run. No one deserves to be cheated on.
I mean I'm a women with a much higher libido then my male partner I generally let him initiate and just initiate once every week on my own because he could happily go without sex for months sometimes we mismatch the opposite way too but we never put pressure on the lower libido partner to fully meet the higher ones standards
Lol yeah I have never seen one no matter the size of it and was impressed. Size even in this situation don’t mean shit. A nice dick is a nice dick but it isn’t shit if he can’t use it.
I think she has feelings for you and thinks a blowjob or FWB arrangement is the back door way into a relationship.
This was exactly what I wanted and needed to hear. We do vemo eachother money. I’m not good at math. I suggested doing the gym together. Let me make it clear he is 6’3 200 pounds but just strives to be better and stronger. I love him just the way he is. But it’s his biggest insecurity. He thinks he’s skinny, he’s just lean. He has worked very naked to be in the body he has today.
I know his personality it’s like mine, we’re both stubborn. He’s a bit more egotistical. He will interpret me saying good job you gained 5 pounds of muscle as if it’s bewhittling. He’ll say I’m treating him like a child.
He has a very hot time saying no to what he wants. Like watching anime before bed. “One more episode” he lacks discipline. If I remind him he gets upset.
We love each other and do want this relationship to work. If we didn’t want this we should’ve broken up a long long time ago. Fuck, even our first date his ex was his Lock Screen and I had photos of my exs in my phone. We both fuck up. We both make changes. We both forgive each other. And move on. Lately this has been the subject of fights. Just me wanting more time. It’s no coincidence that as soon as I leave my old job for this significantly better job playing the waiting game,for fingerprints etc. I feel lonely.
If he’s willing to open up to me being there for him and swallow his pride. We can make it.
Dude grow up. Y’all are having a baby. Marry her or leave.
You can ask, but don’t be surprised if she tells you no.
Hahahahah holy shit good find ??????
But why would she even need to break into his phone to get his number in the first place?
Absolutely. I would preface this by saying that you actually have to have known that person for a long time. I don’t think I would ever share my phone if we were only together for 10months, but in this case he only took the iPad for other purposes. He was also justified in looking the photos. My opinion might’ve been different if he went though texts.
That's worse. So much worse. Don't date 16 year olds unless you are 15 -17 yourself.
Ahh.. This changes it completely for me actually. He let you believe something that wasn't true, that's for sure a dick move on his part! He kinda wasted your time for nothing and then made you feel like you were being the picky one about it. I apologize for my previous comment
I doubt her was shooting her vag up close
If you hate trans people and refuse to respect their choices it typically comes from a place of fear, whether you realize it or not. That discomfort is a fear of facing the thing that makes you uncomfortable.
But KEEP THE PROOF! You need proof for people to believe you
Your side piece caught feelings and reacted in an irrational and accusatory manner. Prob smart to end things with him sooner rather than later, unfortunately.
Thanks man, hope I am just overthinking this and it's just Whatsapp being dumb
Oh, you are way too young to waste time on this. There is a whole world of guys out there that would DREAM of a girl wearing lingerie to turn them on. MOVE ON. Sex is great and you need to find someone who appreciates you and your sexuality.
So when I was in college I cheated on a boyfriend while I was traveling on vacation. I cheated because I wanted to. I later worked out it was a pattern that I wanted out of the relationship and was not emotionally mature enough to handle it. I've never cheated since and will end a relationship when I want out.
Don't waste your time wondering why. End the relationship.
I’m just talking it through my friend. I need someone to talk to. No need to be such a know it all. If you don’t want to reply. Don’t.
I get what you mean. But I struggle to believe it sometimes.
Girl. I would be PISSED if my husband knew I wasn’t okay with something, and then went behind my back to go ask his friends permission first. You on-line with both of these men. Your husband has (knowingly) backed you into a corner where it’s much harder for you to say no.
I know it’s a joke that reddit always says leave, but this crosses so many lines. The utter lack of respect for you is appalling.
She calls me “babe” and everything
It honestly sounds like he isn’t happy any longer. People often stay in relationships they are not happy in because it’s easier than leaving, or because it’s easier than starting over. It sounds like he has checked out mentally.
Whether communicating is easy or difficult for him, it isn’t an excuse to ignore you, and not even respond to his own name…
It sounds like you’re beating a dead horse here. The way I see it is you have two choices, either you tell him this can’t go on and he needs to get help, or you get yourself together and you leave.
You sound intelligent and outgoing, and a fun person to be around with a lot of personality. If you stay there, and nothing changes, you will lose yourself and before you know it, you’ll have spent another five years and you’ll be wondering why you wasted so much of your life on someone, that couldn’t be bothered to give what he gets from you.
I know making the choice to leave when you love someone is difficult, but girl, this type of relationship is absolutely soul crushing.
This isn’t normal. She needs professional help. Have you never ever seen her pussy? That’s strange. Like, what if she had a herpes outbreak? You’d never know unless you got it. I kinda feel like this borders on your personal health and hygiene. I mean I would always want to know what I’m sticking my penis in. I don’t think that’s too much to ask for a long term partner
Sir come on now. We know what this is…….
Journals are not meant to be read by other people. You shouldn’t have read it, and now that you have you shouldn’t be mad at things she wrote. People vent and work through all sorts of issues in journals.
You should apologize for reading it and try to move on. If you can’t get passed her inner most turmoil at various times over twenty years, then get divorced, but you won’t be a martyr.
Even tolerating the friends behavior wouldn't sit well with me. I dear like a sailor but that's my boundary.
You have to decide whether it's a deal breaker for you
I was about to be like who does that and then I realised you’re 18 and this is exactly the kind of bizarre behaviour I would do at that age ??
Sounds to me like your spouse was trying to groom a minor. That should be a bigger concern for you than the crush. She's behaved like a predator. Is that really who you want to be with? Have some self respect
“You're so mature for your age.” – Every old dude trying to fuck a 20 year old ever
He’s too old for you
I think it’s best you two needs counseling, individually and as a couple as it sounds like you both have been cheated on in the past, and no doubt also insecure with each other.
First thing first: it is YOUR wedding day and YOU must be happy and CELEBRATE together with your LOVED ONES! Your sister is a despicable person and so your ex, I would not speak with any of them for the rest of my life and certainly would not want to see their faces on my wedding day!
Don't fall for what your family says, do as you wish/feel!
I wish you a bright, happy and lifelong marriage! Good luck!