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This guy sounds dangerous and narcissistic. Be careful leaving the house alone and get a stun gun, pepper spray or something to defend yourself in case he sneaks up on you. Keep him blocked on everything and don't interact with him whatsoever. He wants a response from you.
Start collecting evidence and tell your friends to screenshot his messages about you and email them to you. Tell them not to respond to him. Even in defense of you. He wants to keep this going and craves feedback. If he is harassing you, get a restraining order ASAP. Keep your evidence in a file for the judge. He/she will ask for proof of harassment.
This guy sounds dangerous and narcissistic. Be careful leaving the house alone and get a stun gun, pepper spray or something to defend yourself in case he sneaks up on you. Keep him blocked on everything and don't interact with him whatsoever. He wants a response from you.
Start collecting evidence and tell your friends to screenshot his messages about you and email them to you. Tell them not to respond to him. Even in defense of you. He wants to keep this going and craves feedback. If he is harassing you, get a restraining order ASAP. Keep your evidence in a file for the judge. He/she will ask for proof of harassment.
Crocodile tears. By presenting himself as the bad guy you feel inclined to console and reassure him, more inclined to 'prove you love him' to alleviate his fears. It is a common tactic to emotionally coerce and entangle people.
Just be careful. The age gap is a very clear and obvious red flag and it is only exacerbated by the reality he is using common manipulation tactics.
NTA, because you are still grieving and should not have been pushed to get married. The only concession you had to get married being to have a symbol of your daughter at the wedding and someone literally stole it from you.
You need time to grieve, your child and potentially your marriage.
They are stressed about staff for sure. He seemed like he was already annoyed with her but I don't know if he was just trying to be sympathetic.
I just feel stressed because she treats my boyfriend poorly and I recommended him to work there. So he gets mistreated and blamed for issues and I feel like it won't be treated seriously because we're together. I'm also anxious he is going to get mad at her constantly watching and criticizing him.
I don’t understand the people who are saying his decision to turn the offer down needed to be discussed together. First responders can get hurt and die on the job. You need to be 100% committed. Yes he should have told her right away but something had to concern him to keep quiet.
Also getting her mom to use her connections is a big red flag.
This is the kind of thing that should have been discussed prior to…if it wasn't or you have decided after the fact to change your mind…no, that's not how friendship works or contracts. Verbal or otherwise.
It's not cool to say one thing and then decide later, oh…no…you need to lay more now. That's a bait and switch, imagine if someone did that to you.
Well, she is 20 but she is really mature but i believe that she is very naive too. She thinks that if she knows someone for some time he wont do anything to her. Its something that you should always have in mind doesnt matter if you know someone for a month or 10 years.
My husband and I have had this “discussion” many times in the past 8 years. If I want to do something together, I have to plan it. So I made some work friends. And we plan/execute those activities together as a group. If he wants to make time to plan something with me, he can. Because if he wants to plan things for himself, his son, his friends…he’s capable of doing so. I have planned 90% of our vacations, concerts, meals, movies, date nights, parties, events…some of those things I still am in charge of (our yearly cookout, for example). But I have stopped planning one-on-one dates with him. Unfortunately that might be what you need to do too. At least until you feel like the relationship is 50/50.
So she treated you terribly and got you to beg for forgiveness? That sounds about right. They always have to be the victim so they don't have to accept any blame.
This guy sounds dangerous and narcissistic. Be careful leaving the house alone and get a stun gun, pepper spray or something to defend yourself in case he sneaks up on you. Keep him blocked on everything and don't interact with him whatsoever. He wants a response from you.
Start collecting evidence and tell your friends to screenshot his messages about you and email them to you. Tell them not to respond to him. Even in defense of you. He wants to keep this going and craves feedback. If he is harassing you, get a restraining order ASAP. Keep your evidence in a file for the judge. He/she will ask for proof of harassment.
This guy sounds dangerous and narcissistic. Be careful leaving the house alone and get a stun gun, pepper spray or something to defend yourself in case he sneaks up on you. Keep him blocked on everything and don't interact with him whatsoever. He wants a response from you.
Start collecting evidence and tell your friends to screenshot his messages about you and email them to you. Tell them not to respond to him. Even in defense of you. He wants to keep this going and craves feedback. If he is harassing you, get a restraining order ASAP. Keep your evidence in a file for the judge. He/she will ask for proof of harassment.
Crocodile tears. By presenting himself as the bad guy you feel inclined to console and reassure him, more inclined to 'prove you love him' to alleviate his fears. It is a common tactic to emotionally coerce and entangle people.
Just be careful. The age gap is a very clear and obvious red flag and it is only exacerbated by the reality he is using common manipulation tactics.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
NTA, because you are still grieving and should not have been pushed to get married. The only concession you had to get married being to have a symbol of your daughter at the wedding and someone literally stole it from you.
You need time to grieve, your child and potentially your marriage.
I wish you all the very best.
Therapy.
Or you leave.
Because if she doesn’t get therapy your relationship is going to explode when she finds an abuser to cheat on you with.
They are stressed about staff for sure. He seemed like he was already annoyed with her but I don't know if he was just trying to be sympathetic.
I just feel stressed because she treats my boyfriend poorly and I recommended him to work there. So he gets mistreated and blamed for issues and I feel like it won't be treated seriously because we're together. I'm also anxious he is going to get mad at her constantly watching and criticizing him.
:/ you know what it is.
The real question is, do you know, truly and deeply, that you deserve better than this? Because you do ♥️
OP I hope you GTFO of that situation. You owe it to yourself to be happy and secure with someone
I don’t understand the people who are saying his decision to turn the offer down needed to be discussed together. First responders can get hurt and die on the job. You need to be 100% committed. Yes he should have told her right away but something had to concern him to keep quiet.
Also getting her mom to use her connections is a big red flag.
It is obvious most redditors are roughly 15 when it comes to these things.
Yes exactly. The advice on Reddit is veryyyy black and white.
You think it’s lucky that you attracted a two-bit gold digger? I’m sorry to say, but gold diggers don’t target attractive people, they target dopes.
This is the kind of thing that should have been discussed prior to…if it wasn't or you have decided after the fact to change your mind…no, that's not how friendship works or contracts. Verbal or otherwise.
It's not cool to say one thing and then decide later, oh…no…you need to lay more now. That's a bait and switch, imagine if someone did that to you.
Well, she is 20 but she is really mature but i believe that she is very naive too. She thinks that if she knows someone for some time he wont do anything to her. Its something that you should always have in mind doesnt matter if you know someone for a month or 10 years.
My husband and I have had this “discussion” many times in the past 8 years. If I want to do something together, I have to plan it. So I made some work friends. And we plan/execute those activities together as a group. If he wants to make time to plan something with me, he can. Because if he wants to plan things for himself, his son, his friends…he’s capable of doing so. I have planned 90% of our vacations, concerts, meals, movies, date nights, parties, events…some of those things I still am in charge of (our yearly cookout, for example). But I have stopped planning one-on-one dates with him. Unfortunately that might be what you need to do too. At least until you feel like the relationship is 50/50.
So she treated you terribly and got you to beg for forgiveness? That sounds about right. They always have to be the victim so they don't have to accept any blame.
Did you move into his home country to online with him?
Asserting possession or entitlement to her attention and time too soon or too much is another great way to tank your chances at the next date.
Stop looking if you can’t avoid the FOMO. Call your own friends and get out of the house.
He’s a proper plum!