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You don't have to justify your reasoning. You can end a relationship just because you want to end it. But for the record “my boyfriend didn't really care when I was in a car accident” seems pretty valid to me.
And what about the blowback? I am maybe prepared but what should I expect?
So you married someone incompatible who doesn’t like to listen to your wants and needs? He doesn’t sound like he treats you like a princess
Responding to this message but I'm going to address the other one. First, yes, you absolutely can on Reddit. Vent as you need and don't feel bad about it.
Happy that you're going to couple's counseling. I hope that helps. The point should be to figure out how you got to this point. The root cause of the issue.
As for needing to make sure she knew; again, fair enough. I'm certainly not here defending her. I'm entirely on your side. My original comment subtext was more along the lines of it more than likely being a waste of your time and effort.
Her thoughts of you should absofuckinglutely be 100% irrelevant. Like you (and I'm not directing this at you), I don't give a flying fuck how she feels about anything, be it you or whatever else. She's objectively a piece of shit too. My point just again continues to be that she's not the problem. Even if she entices him in any which way, your husband has his own agency to make decisions.
Why is him looking elsewhere career/job wise not on the table? Or is it?
You’re thinking with your dick. Don’t subject yourself to this child’s life if you aren’t going to stick around. The kid will have major daddy issues. Think about the child.
Must be interesting to her,let her mingle
Bruh.
I think its very normal at that age to not think to much about the future yet. At least I did not and many friends of mine did neither. For many men thinking about self improvment starts later in life. For some it never starts and for some it starts early however. If you want to be with a man who cares about self improvement in certain ways and that is a big deal for you, you should find such a man. However if he is not that way you won't change that in him.
Solo travel is great so no problem there. Unfortunately there is no end date so I would let her go. If you’re single at the end of it and you want to get back together then cool. But do not put your life in hold. I know some people that have solo traveled for 6 months, more than a year and two that just never came home. You have no idea which your gf is and I think it’s best for you both to be adults about it and cut the cord before she leaves.
Because jobs in America are guaranteed for any period over two weeks. Lol
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Even if you think you can get him to back down, and agree to marry without conversion, he will just bring it back up later, and keep bringing it up until you convert.
At least he’s showed this now before he married you and had kids with you, making it difficult for you to leave him.
I hate that I'm being made to choose a side here and feel regardless of what I choose I'm going to lose as much as I gain.
This is the answer for your mother.
Also add: “If you want a decision: Do it yourself. I will not make that for you. You are my mother, he is my father. I don't want to cut neither one of you out of my life. So either you keep the peace or you are the one who has to make the decision that YOU don't want to see me, your son, who has nothing to do with my fathers or your wrong doings, anymore.”
You both sound awful and manipulative. Demanding someone be kind and soft and gentle in the middle of a disagreement is unfair.
The right answer is “yep, no problems.”. Get the test, as I think it should be compulsory. Seen too many stories on here about what happens when you don’t.
It’s not sexism or toxic. Anyone saying it is has issues, or aren’t trustworthy, or are just entrapping their partner into a kid that isn’t theirs.
From one life of financial abuse to another. You want your kids to be forced to think about finances from day dot? Not to mention the forced education they'll be subjected to. My guy has priorities which don't include you
I'm glad it seems that there's been a breakthrough of sorts, and the crisis ended about as well as it could have in the moment.
But you CANNOT let this be the end, in terms of you and your now husband discussing this. It's simply not enough to say you'll draw boundaries. You are MARRIED. Things are GOING to change for your fiance and his brother. That's just a fact. It is literally impossible to do both at once, so throw that concept out the window.
I'm just deeply concerned that while your husband showed a tiny bit of backbone, it was almost when he was hours away from losing his fiancee. Until TWO IN THE MORNING THE DAY OF THE WEDDING, he was ok with blowing up your ceremony, and maybe his relationship. It took an actual threat from you to make something happen.
That doesn't smell like “oh, I see the light.” It smells like panic.
This probably isn't over, and if you can't afford/don't want couples therapy (though I highly suggest it), you need to watch like a hawk for backsliding
I love your MIL more than your hubby and I hope you feel the same.
Maybe his ex’ suspicions became true and that’s what he is trying to hide. Whatever the important thing is he’s not okay to be around.
he's being a jerk. I don't know how close you are with her, but it might be worth reaching out privately and making sure she's okay. weight loss that sudden, especially when the person doesn't want to talk about it, can be a huge red flag for various health issues. it sounds like she might be underweight for her height, as well.
generally speaking, you should never comment on someone's weight. even if it's a compliment. your husband should know that since he's almost 40
Agreed that it doesn’t make sense. If she’s looking at nsfw sapphic stuff on reddit, she would quickly figure out which apps we use. I assume she was wanking to pictures of gay men, or using their profiles for fantasy fodder. ‘Hot dom bear ready to teach you some manners’ type stuff.
You can want her to be better forever, but you need to realize that that won't happen until she decides she needs to change. She's been this way for a long time and she won't change until she absolutely has to. Her hitting bottom is required.
I suggest you go to some al-anon meetings, you will find help and support in dealing with alcoholics and their addiction
This really reads like you've got feelings for her, and she knows it and isn't entertaining it.
Why the hell are you still in a relationship with this person? She sounds like an absolutely vile human being. If she can abuse her sisters in this way, do you really feel safe marrying her?
How?
Nope just give her what she wants. Why would it matter where the outfit comes from. Stop over thinking.
Honestly, it’s probably more about him than it is about you. There could have been a range of things that made him want stop, but i think that probably performance anxiety with it being the first time. Don’t think about it too much and keep everything else going if it’s ok.
Paying for a house and getting a piece of paper instead.
Lol this is such bullshit
Have you been on this sub for a while? You fit a pattern of women married to men much older than themselves. He thinks you are baby trapped and that gives him license to do anything.
Again do you have a source of income? If you don’t want to spell it out for privacy reasons that’s cool but you do need a way to find some financial independence so you don’t have to report to him how and where you are spending money.
After 3 days? It’s lust. Not love. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t grow into love but boy it sounds even more that he felt he found the perfect person to bear his children and take care of his personal needs when home and complete independence from you when he is not.
It actually IS harder to read for someone with a learning disability. My brain focuses on the missing letters and what they could be. Way to go shaming me for it.
Screams insecure. This behavior is only learned because your bf is gullible enough to believe anything and everything some “Traditional” men tell him. He's afraid of not being manly, which is ridiculous.
It's time to be firm and tell her that you aren't asking her permission. You're telling her that you will not continue the way things have been and will be moving back in with your parents at least temporarily and that you need her to sort out her finances, job and school situation, and make plans for the future financially before you'll be willing to on-line together again. If she refuses, just end the relationship.