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Has he cheated on anyone? Playing the field when single is not indicative of behavior while in a committed relationship.
It also seems weird and unusual to me that 5 girls went out of their way to find his IG.
I don't think this is weird. Like I say, all my coworkers have found me on IG. That's a pretty normal thing these days.
I would still find it strange for him to follow girls on IG with no interest in their personality.
I would venture to say the majority of people follow at least some acquaintances/coworkers/classmates on IG with no interest in their personality. It's a social norm to reciprocate a follow.
Your “oh well” shows me you really don't care what happens which makes me sad for you. His reactions are his reactions and will continue to be that way until you tell him what the heck you feel. But yeah, if you feel “oh well” about how he feels, then any advice I give ya isn't really going to do much.
My last advice, tell him that his indifference and misunderstanding hurts you and makes you not want to tell him ANYTHING. If he reacts poorly, dump his ass. If he changes, maybe see what changes.
Good luck girlfriend!
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This is why I asked the questions because so much of this changes how the situation is seen. I meant her POV that getting annoyed about a mistake and not dropping it would cause her to decide not to deal with you.u wouldn't either
You both wanna leave but don't have the guts to do it. Just rip off the bandaid before it gets too late or even more painful.
You're in no place to be having a kid maturity wise, you played the roulette with a deadbeat alcoholic and is no surprised you aren't getting support?
You have shown horrible judgement and decision making and such a lack of maturity on such a huge level that it questions your ability to be a decent parent. That might sound harsh but that's what your actions have shown.
And then the worst part is the other parent is somehow even worse than you. I'd pity any child with you as two as parents-
Oh boy you are royally fucked. How could anyone be this stupid?
So why are you still with her? She clearly wanted to have sex with other people just move on
So he’s a “shit” father but she still decided to have a second child with him even though she’s supposedly fed up with his parenting skills after having the first one.
I bet he’s not that bad a father he’s just too immature to be one, like she’s too immature to be married if her go-to is cheating instead of grown up talk.
She’s not going to tell him. Your husband needs to decide if he wants to tell his friend.
You’re not forced to stay in a relationship with someone. Dating is all about getting to know one another. If she wants to post underwear pics on her social media, she’s allowed. Now you know that she’s into that. It’s up to you to decide whether you’re cool with it and move forward, or whether it’s a boundary for you, in which case you leave.
There are girls who post underwear pics on the internet. There are girls who would never do that. You need to decide what you’re comfortable with, then you find a girl who fits that. This is a learning experience for you. You’ll either decide you don’t care what your SO posts or you’ll decide you want to commit to women who don’t do that.
OP has been posting for 6 months about her shitty relationship, and has responded to comments exactly once.
She doesn't want advice, and is probably just an attention tr0ll.
Some girls get so used to toys that they straight up get so desensitized that no human can compare. Guys have the same issue when they death grip when masturbating.
There have been several situations in the beginning of our relationship where she lied to me about something huge and the only reason I learned about them was from my own investigating.
And you married her thinking things would be different?
Talk to a lawyer. Talk to a therapist.
I will say that he did get the number from me, I’m really sorry for the confusing wording! Though he did ask me in a weird way (In my opinion) He held his phone up, the back facing me and i was like huh? And he then flipped to face me and it had the contacts page pulled up. I was like oh ok..? and put my number in because I THOUGHT it was just for a friendly exchange, because he had befriended others in the class. But then he just continued to get really weird. Thankfully that class has ended- however I have seen him outside of class because our campus is not huge. I thought he’d back off since class was over but he hasn’t. I really appreciate your advice and I will definitely implement it into how I move forward with this Thank you so much
think of it this way- are you comfortable with your Mom being your sister in law one day? do you think she and your family would be comfortable with that? this potential relationship will severely impact your relationship with your entire family, are those consequences you’re capable of upholding?
Then either way they shouldn't be together. Coparenting is better than two parents who shouldn't be together 100% of the time.
I'm a sister, and if I saw a woman kiss my brother I would not be upset/offended/negative. I would simply walk up to her and my bro and say “HI, I'm Witch, so and so's sister! You must be his new girlfriend?” And put my hand out to shake. You didn't do anything wrong, it seems he was wanting to continue hiding you for whatever reason.
They obviously aren’t worth pursuing as friends, but expectations for two acquaintances were way too high. They essentially cancelled on a awkward arranged night out. After already making it obvious they didn’t want it to be a huge thing (staying more than a day, being unresponsive in the group chat). They should be less shitty, but she also is responsible for her expectations here… like why make them handmade things? And now because they’re flaky people she doesn’t click with he has to exclude his two good friends from his wedding? I think she should try to just learn a lesson and move on, don’t try to hang out with them again.
You should first see a doctor that does test on the physical aspects since it could be a hormonal imbalance or something of that sort. But if the strict medical aspect shows no problem, you could be dealing with some unresolved stress or anxiety from when you had all those problems, and you should seek therapy. I don't think you're on the asexual spectrum because you used to enjoy sex before and wanted to have it.
Uh, you married her knowing she was a liar and capable of extreme betrayal? Sounds like you dug your own grave here. Not to say you have to stay, get divorced for sure but maybe next time take the red flags for what they are and don’t marry the person with glaring red flags.
yeah thats his job. i watch porn but it doesn't affect my willingness to have sex with my wife, i even want to have sex with her more when i watch porn, cos i need the release.
why would you break up with you? what’s the problem?
Why would you leave without an explanation of some sort? That is ludicrous.
When did she leave and with whom?
I am quite sad because of what I've been doing and needing a wake up call like this one. However, I am also glad that I'm thinking fairly straight about my future now. At one point, the situation was so bad that I was just thinking to do the worst to myself.
It is going to be very hot but I really want it.
Thank you so much ?
This guy is garbage, don’t waste any more time on him.
There is clearly missing info here.
I remember when I was in college more than 40 years ago, I was dating a man who was much older than me. He and I were even talking about marriage.
A mutual friend told me that Michael (his real name) was already engaged to a flight attendant named Cindy and that Michael was just stringing me along for free sex.
I refused to believe him until I actually met her. Cindy was a very pretty blonde woman with blonde hair and an augmented bust.
To this day, I wonder if I should have told her about the fact that he was cheating on us with one another. ?
Eh sounds like you've made up your mind, so just be prepared for an ensuing break-up.
Tell her, but be prepared for her to not believe you and be ready to move on.
Psst! Fiancée. I was confused and thought the man had cheated until further down when her gender was referenced. That said, do not forgive her! Cheaters don't change for the better! She's sorry she got caught.
Psst! Fiancée. I was confused and thought the man had cheated until further down when her gender was referenced. That said, do not forgive her! Cheaters don't change for the better! She's sorry she got caught.
Can you respect her values? Really, deep down respect them. And encourage her to live! her life according to them. Can she do the same for you? Without contempt. Without say eye. That's what you need. It's a tough road. But opposites can attract. With respect.
Man! Dude! Firstly, I'm so sorry. This is so bad of a betrayal it's not even funny but I want to talk about you. I need to ask, why do you gravitate towards that particular kind of woman? I think you should get therapy and do the work on yourself, value yourself and choose differently.
As for the cheating ex, nahhhhh- she gotta go! She chose to get drunk, broke your trust and LIED! She put another man's member in her mouth and then kissed you after that! Oh hell NO!!!! Get tested and dump her!!!
Honestly it probably will tear you apart. If you don’t genuinely agree on family planning then the one who doesn’t get their way will grow to resent the other almost every single time.
Honestly it probably will tear you apart. If you don’t genuinely agree on family planning then the one who doesn’t get their way will grow to resent the other almost every single time.
And also has sex outside of marriage lol
Wasn’t asking you.
Any advice?
The entire frat sound like entitled assholes all around if they all pick on Jake.
Advice 1: DO NOT talk to Brad about what happens between you and Jake. Because he might say he is Jake's friend, but he is not. He is a bully and so are his frat/pledge-brothers.
Advice 2: You can join the formal, but keep a low profile. Don't make yourself a target. If you want to talk a bit more seriously with Jake, take him on a nice date.
Brad told us that Jake’s a virgin and that he keeps telling him that he has no chance with me. (I’m like a 7/10 and not a virgin lol)
Brad is a bully.
Jake’s not a super “fratty” type, or the most handsome guy in the world, but he’s certainly doesn’t seem as bad as Brad points him out to be.
Jake is a convenient target for Brad and his fellow-frat assholes.
OP good men dont act like this. I know you thought he was a good Christian man but girl i grew up in the church, do volunteer work for the church, i do kids church! These men aren't as good as u think.
He sounds insecure. You are allowed to work!!! Do not quit your job. My husband does youth group with a bunch of boys. We are very liberal Christians. I love helping people and thats most important to me.
(Like i believe in God but religion and all the very toxic shit it teaches us sometimes isn't really for me. Don't come for me ppl this isnt a religious debate. Thank u)
He's trying to get a stay at home mommy. He doesnt help u and he probably says all tht nonsense about it being a womans job! Nd a man should be bringing home money while ur barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. He isnt being loving! He isn't being caring. He's being controlling and a mess.
My husband does chores, he cooks, cleans, does laundry and helps me. we go out, we spend quality time together. This isn't your job to maintain a good relationship with someone who isn't trying. It's not your job to sleep with him because the Bible says so. Intimacy is important and its how we connect with our partners. But it's supposed to make a relationship better. Not feel like a chore.
You are allowed to have friends! Just because your a married woman doesnt change tht. My husband helps me set up girls night and gets us wine.. well them wine because I'm pregnant.
A marriage is a partnership. You deserve a partner. Not someone that hides behind a Bible and tries to enforce rules on you.
Respect in a marriage goes both ways! Please realize that
Restraining order….
Exactly. Burn it to the ground.
A spouse “withholding affection” isn't an excuse for trying to cheat. It isn't on you OP.
We do have topics in common I mean we love esports and gaming which is a wide topic. The problem is that even if I arrange a whole date he doesn’t want to come. I clean his house since I’m a guest and they told me if I stay I have to help which ended up being just me doing everything since if I don’t do it noone will. I thought if I help I might get taken out more since it’s a nice gesture but so far nothing has changed. I don’t think breaking up is the solution here, or at least I hope so because we do have our sweet moments, but it’s just not enough for me.
/r/raisedbynarcissists
So you know he can do it but just refuses to. That's a huge show of disrespect towards you! He really doesn't care enough about you to keep himself clean & smelling pleasant for you. I think he wants out of your relationship but doesn't want to be seen as the bad guy so he's making himself & his habits as revolting as possible so that you'll end things. You deserve so much better.
I'm really sorry but what is WOA? I've never come across this short hand in this context.
Your Netflix passcode gives you access to email, text messages, bank accounts, work services? Interesting.
People are so quick to say ‘break up’ on this subreddit, it’s mental
Reddit does tend to stay towards “the innocent have nothing hide” on this, in my experience, but it's normal and healthy to have some level of privacy even from your own partner.
I mean, I would want to know if my new boyfriend got so drunk he fingered a random stripper, so that way I could call off the relationship ASAP. Don’t call her while she’s driving. Call her now before she even comes into town.
Learn from this and move on, but absolutely let her know what happened.
I can't see myself being fine without him. Even with my therapist, he was what made me get better
Since dad and his wife found out where OP lives, I wouldn't be surprised if they got the hooks on the therapist, somehow
It sounds like you are missing the intimacy component… Is your sex itself satisfying/pleasuring to you & are you even having the sex you want to have? If you enjoy it, then great, but I just would hate your intimacy to suffer while you are performing sex acts solely for his pleasure. Otherwise now I can understand a bit by why you say you feel used, if you don't enjoy performing these “non vanilla” acts.
I keep body wipes in my nightstand, to use in instances like this, and sometimes will put a towel down first or at least easily accessible.
I wish my girlfriend wanted to do things with my friends.
Honestly the Sundays were a pretty normal thing for my family and when I met my ex his fam did it too so it worked. That may not be your thing, but it’s not unheard of.
I’d be more concerned about the fact that you get no 1:1 time with her. Like does she even like you? It’s like she’s making her family be there as a buffer the other days.
I was with a guy who felt less than because I slept with more people than him. When we took a break after being with him for three years, he specifically brought this up and how he wanted to me not to sleep around while he experimented with what he wanted. Low and be hold about three months into the break after I had rearranged my life and decided I didn’t want to be with someone who considered my body belonging to him and quitting birth control and feeling happy in my body for the first time in years and gained back the weight I loss from stress from him, he called me and gifted me a book I had on my amazon wish list for our entire relationship asking me to take him back.
I said no and now I’m happy with someone who asks me if he can kiss me because I told him I didn’t liked be touched without warning the first time he slept over.
What I’m saying is you need to do right to yourself because there is someone out there who actually loves you and not the idea of you or the idea of a girlfriend. Bestie, do yourself a solid and break it off with him. Any man who doesn’t hold you and tell you that you’re choices and regrets don’t define you and validate that remorse and want to make you happy starting now and forever isn’t worth your time.
So choose to date someone constantly negative? Sounds like a good reason to break up. Find someone more compatible.
Your boyfriend is a creep, that's what he is.
How can I show her that I'm into her favorite book?
You don't. The ship has sailed. If, after four years, she doesnt know that you are into the things she likes then this is too little too late. Another thing to consider is you don't have to be into everything she is into. You CAN have different interests. You don't need to be into her favourite book.
How can I show her that Id play D&D with her (and that I like it myself)
See above. After four years she doesnt know this?
that id cosplay with her?
Ditto my comments above. Just move on. She is. The molecule of a spark is kind words, and its unlikely she despises you completely. So it can be true that there is some molecule of a spark but not enough to make her want to get back together.
drop his a$$. he's not going to get any better
You’re 25 and haven’t made love in 3 years? While you and GF are living together? My guy, this relationship has been over for a while. She’s using you for convenience. You’re worth more than that, and there are so many potential partners out there who can hold their own in a loving relationship. Set your affairs in order and let her go.
Thank you, i am trying to live! with myself right now. I have forgotten how to online happily alone already.
125# is fat? Holy crap!
Seriously stuff like this ends up fucking up relationships. I had one tht went like this it's toxic and will become more of an obsession and stupid nitpicked fighting about insecurities after a long term of dating. Ended tht relationship because obviously was a fucking mess.
I've been with my husband for 12 years. I love being in communication. He fucking sucks at it. We've had to work on it when we started dating. Hes the kind tht would still have a full battery after a whole day because he cant be bothered with his phone.
So when we started dating we talked about communication. If you're busy cool let me know so i don't bother u during whatever ur doing. And if u get home shoot me a text il get it when i wake up its cool jst so i knw ur home. We have the same rule now. And we didn't keep tabs on ooh u came bk late…she's an adult woman!
I go out on girls nights i keep my phone on me bt i don't text him constantly id let him know we got to where we went safely and if i need him he always keeps his phone on when he goes to bed. Same applies for his boys nights. Bare minimum requirement is keep your phone charged incase of an emergency.
If you trust your partner u don't need to knw each step they take. She'll tell u about it when she can. Don't try to sit up and wait for her to update u on anything and dont stew in anger when she doesnt. When you are with your friends u want to be present with them and not on your phone worrying about checking in like u have a prison guard or your dad waiting for u for curfew.
Yall should relax. Its really not tht deep. Dont become tht toxic couple with rules all over the place ur just gonna upset yourself over nothing and she's gonna start feeling like you dont trust her and want to keep her in a glass case.
Can I just set the stipulation that I don’t need lectures from fat feminists. If a girl doesn’t like that her partners let herself go all of a sudden it’s not an issue and she deserves better. Shut up.
This post was painful to read… I feel extremely embarsssed on your behalf…. You deserve MUCH BETTER!
Drop him… and don’t let him gas light you by making excuses…. It’s emabrassing as hell how he’s acted
Holy shit this sounded a little too familiar and described how I’ve been feeling recently.
He doesn’t make you feel emotionally and psychologically safe, hence why your sexual attraction for him has disappeared.
You insist you’re not a baby at the grown age of 25 but somehow 25 year old men aren’t looking for anything serious. Girl, there are plenty of men in there mid-late 20s and 30s who are just as mature as you seem to think you are
I do agree that I depend on him way too much, and I wish to become independent like I used to be before I spiraled. I figured just jumping head first into a job and getting it over with would help, but now I’m having second thoughts and not sure I could even handle it.
Part of me feels I am just being a pussy and need to get over it, because how could I ever improve if I don’t take any step forward?
he’s a misogynist, what else is there to say? he don’t like women as people and it sounds like he has a lot of contempt for you in particular. that’s not how you deserve to be loved
She threw it all away and probably deeply regrets getting caught out. It's better to get a clean break and move on with life.
She already said they haven't had sex in a little over 2 months…
Yeah, he dodged a bullet there.
While you are right about them being more dangerous you are also overly paranoid.
Ngl that's a dangerous mindset to have, not to mention one that's not fair to you. If you're fine being treated like this, that's your business I guess but why did you want advice? There is nothing we can say, nothing you can do, to make him want a relationship with you, or treat you better. He has to want to do that and it sounds like he doesn't.
I'mma be blunt with you: you are putting yourself through this suffering. That's your choice. You can choose to not suffer. He wants to fuck around and is treating this like a relationship where he can do that because you are allowing him in your life like this.
“But I'll suffer if I block him on everything and not talk to him ever” BUT NOT FOREVER. And you are also putting your health at risk. He's sleeping around with god knows who and even if he gets checked regularly, you are putting and allowing him to put your health at risk. Not all STI's are quickly or painlessly gone with medication. Think about that.
And honestly if he does have a relationship with you, can you really trust him not to sleep around again? Because he wants the comfortable façade of a relationship but the freedom of being single. He's manipulating you, darling, and you're falling for it.
Time to choose yourself, your physical and mental health, your freedom. Or you don't. Those are the only two options. Good luck.
If you're not comfortable with that yet, let him know, but a lot of people do say “love you bye” to friends.