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Date: November 2, 2022
Dude, listen to me: That sucks, and I know it hurts, but run. Break up. You aren't responsible for any of this and you don't want or need any of this, believe me. Just end it. You didn't do anything wrong. There are lots of other women out there for you, believe me.
Thanks. I'm kind of feeling torn about talking to him because he'll say it's nothing either way and I don't want to end up being with someone who's only acting right after that because they want to stay on your good side. Idk what else to do though.
IKR its going in my lexicon now
General life rule. Don’t cheat with another man’s wife. Due to obvious example, she would likely cheat on you too if you got together.
there is something wrong with a 28 year old manipulating an 18 year old to leave a relationship and uproot her life for him, which us what you did 10 years ago, which is the entire basis of your relationship.
Why to lie? I am sure there are many people looking for ONS/casual things. Heck, a few months back even I was looking for same.
I don’t like play fighting, personally, because it just seems like practice for real physical aggression and something some guys use to assert control and wear down women’s boundaries. While he may not have wanted to hurt you, he definitely wanted to let you know he could IF he ever wanted to, and imo that’s a massive red flag. Honestly I’d end this relationship, but at least put the breaks on any more play fighting.
Then you have your answer as to his motivation and it isn't good.
(Hug) i am so so proud of you. So so proud. What you did was incredibly brave. Everything you have mentioned was abuse. Even the beginning. He groomed you and preyed on you, and isolated you on purpose.
But even then you found your own way out, which takes so much strength. You are free!!! It will be very very hot, but you will adjust with time. My mom changed countries too and it was naked, she tells me it took a long time but now she loves where she lives and her new language has improved a lot.
Use a public phone to call your mom when you can, dont tell her where you are but let her know youre safe. Im sure shes very worried! Try to find kind older women to find job opportunities, but also be careful! Try to work in public places and no where too private.
Divorce.
Your husband is sexually abusing you. He keeps asking/pressuring you for anal sex but refuses to accept the steps you need to take to be comfortable with that. That is intentionally pressuring you to do something unwanted and painful (anal without the necessary prep) – that's abuse.
Well from what all you wrote doesn’t sound like you love her
You might have to get over that, I imagine she will and good chance everyone you have a relationship with moving forward will have a past as well, including yourself.
It’s nothing to be scared of, it’s just part of adult sex lives.
thanks for making me laugh 🙂
That guy isn’t a man, he’s a man sized pile of ?.
The only reason 36 year old men prey on teenagers is because women their own age think they’re a creep and women your age don’t know better. Yet.
Break things off with him. Tell your friends. Maybe even put a call in to your local non-emergency police line just reporting him as creepy. And tell him you did that. The life you save might be your own.
OP, I’m not a mom and I can’t help with that. Sorry everything has been such piss shit pisser cock.
I’m here to validate you. Because that shit with the “what do you want me to do” would make me #%#%ing %}}% his =%+%=% into the next century. Holy shit, how are you not on Snapped?
YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER THAN THIS.
then youre insane
Nah just move on. Hopefully within your age range next time.
“Other then our bedroom issues, he’s such a great loving husband.”
Uh…. he seems to know pretty well, that what he does to you is WRONG! Every bit of him forcing you IS rape.
So in fact you have been raped by the man your are being constantly gaslighted into believing loves you.
This has nothing to do with love.
Your entire relationship is based on dominance.
And disregard tiwards your most basic wants and needs: feeling protected by your partner.
Depending on in which country you on-line he would even be considered a criminal. In most countries there are laws protecting women from that. And if a complaint is filed the man is in for a looooong stay in prison.
Reconsider your last sentence. That sounds like Stockholm Syndrome: the victim of undergoing physical and spiritual dominance falling in love with the perpetrator.
Point is: this isn't love!
It's a bio chemical reaction of the body for dear life! A survival instinct.
I am sorry to hear about your mom, that is never an easy thing to go through.
Alright, so there is something tangible on the table.
I know it might be soon to make the move now, but what would her thoughts be to move to you and find a job here?
Sometimes, when your life is a challenging position, we have a way of allowing negative situations other areas of our life.
And what in particular do you think is resulting in these thoughts of yours?
Is it potentially a lack of support from your GF through a challenging time with your mom?
This is exactly why you on-line with someone for a bit before you marry them. Y'all didn't pass this stage. Only option is to move on
He's 27!! Why exactly are you with a man who is both predatory and has no respect or affection for you. You were having a miscarriage and he couldn't even offer you support. Oh no, drinking is not important. Note that you aren't old enough to be out with him, but old enough to knock up. He's been using the pull out method?? Has he been tested for STI's prior to starting a sexual relationship?
He asked you for sex while you were miscarrying his child. That is vile! There is no redemption for this and you're making excuses for him. There are none.
You need to take control of your own life, you are young and should not throw away your future on this scumbag. Break up and leave while he's away. Do not respond to his messages or calls. You need time to heal, both emotionally and physically.
too needy, clingy, and “fugly”
Your friend sounds like a very superficial and bitter person. Not someone you should be taking advice from.
The fact that she (a 45 year-old woman) doesn't have better things to do than to be nasty, and she's training her 20-year-old to have that mentality too, doesn't reflect well on her.
There are times when the right friends can give valuable advice about a relationship, because love blinds. However, her justifications for not liking your boyfriend are lousy.
Attraction is in the eye of the beholder. Even if your friend is being honest, I hope you realize that who she is attracted to is irrelevant to who you are attracted to. You are (hopefully) not just dating to have trophy boy to show off to other females.
Whenever someone says they're going to kill themselves, if you leave, they're manipulating you. As long as you stay, that will continue.
You know yourself that this marriage is a no-go. He sounds entitled, lazy, and unable to regulate his emotions in an adult-like manner – and none of that is good life-long partner material.
This is exactly how our conversation goes.
Which is where he responded that it’s “my fault” for living here with him. Even though I’ve take multiple almost week long trips every month we’ve been together. I’ve even offered to apply to the places for him on my phone and we can make it a fun thing to do double the applications at the same time to help .
Idk maybe because it’s because I’m poly and possibly autistic, but I like knowing exactly what the expectations are from a relationship and having that spelled out. I feel like there’s so much pressure in mono relationships to get into a relationship before you really know someone. Like, why shouldn’t you be testing the waters with multiple people? If you set a date with someone from tinder do you delete all the other matches? Where is the point where having multiple casual dating partners becomes unacceptable? To me, it seems like it should be when both partners agree that’s not something they want to do anymore.
Anyway, OP, your feelings are valid. You’re allowed to feel upset because things were not how you understood them to be. However, there is a difference between being upset about something someone did and someone having done something wrong. Best of luck working these feelings out.
Instead of cutting her off, tell her she is only allowed to see the two grandchildren (yours) one week a year, and will have to put herself in a hotel even then.
I’ll edit the post now, I’m sorry I’m just really upset and she’s next to me asleep and honestly all I want to do is fix this
Your daughter needs you, not your brother, not your brother’s girlfriend, not even your wife. Focus on your child, she deserves it
Let go of the idea that he will realize the pain he causes and change his behavior. He will not.
Grieve your imagined view of what the relationship was during the lovebombing stage. That is not what your relationship is or ever will be.
Get help creating a safety plan through domestic violence resources. They can help with psychological abuse too.
Move into a different residence, ideally with a roommate.
Go back and complete your college degree.
On-line happily ever after without him, no matter what he says or does to regain ownership of you.
She's 25- So I wouldn't say creepy, but I would say it's a bit strange. I think you're fine to float some ideas of interest, but if she shuts you down don't be surprised. Do you have a lot in common? I think the good “test” is would you be interested in her if she was essentially the same person she is now, just your age. If yes, I think you're good. If no, then that's weird.
This is abuse. And your kids are definitely picking up on it too. Your only options really are to stay and put up with the abuse or leave. You’ve been very defensive in your replies and I’m wondering what advice you expected. Contact local DV services and ask their advice on what steps to take. I hope you find your way out.
He says he won’t accommodate your request when he knows you are uncomfortable? That’s a nope for me. You are asking a very small thing and he literally does not care about your feelings. Will do it anyway, just not tell you. That would make me leave tbh. He doesn’t care what you want, he’ll will do whatever he pleases. You need to rethink this relationship
I wish that were true. It’s not. I was forcibly committed from a neighbor’s phone call. No dangerous or self-harm involved