You are not nuts, the only reason he has said you are nuts is so that you will be too scared to tell people in real life about what’s going on because you think people think you are crazy. It’s a manipulative tactic to keep you quiet and compliant. Your gut is screaming at you and you should listen to it. You know the truth. Now it’s time to decide if you are going to tolerate it or not because of you do, this won’t be first time or the last time he cheated.
he cheated on you and has ghosted you. your best course of action is to realise he's doing you a favour. please choose yourself. this man is not good to have in your life, so just let him stay ghosted.
Just to clarify for all those who can't understand your German post:
Ok, so you write to a woman whose fan you are on Instagram. She is nice at first and writes back. Then you start stalking her on her private profiles and also start asking her about it and harassing her, even though her answer to your question about her private profile clearly shows that she doesn't want to talk about it and justify herself.
You then continue to stalk her, demanding that she let you on her private profile – although she makes a distinction between fan profile and private profile. So that strangers she doesn't know personally and with whom she only writes on Instagram from time to time can't see her private profile and the information on it. Only people she considers close friends. Which you clearly are not.
You then continue to pester and harass her. She tells you several times that she doesn't want to talk to you anymore. You continue to harass her.
But still, in your story she is the bad one and you are a nice guy who is rightly angry?
Boy, get a grip on your life and learn to accept people's (women's) boundaries.
He should at least know what you want to do and also at least be interested in your goals and future plans. He messed up big time and inexcusable especially asking what is an accountant.
She’s not even remorseful. The sentence where she would have chosen him over you was all I needed to know to end it. I would not want to be someone’s second place because she will always be looking for number one. Obviously you will do what you want but she’s 2 for 2. Do you want to be a three time sucker?
What are the domestic violence stats for exotic dancers?
“It's a prank bro!”
Hope you get the help you need…
You were fwb with a coworker (bad, bad idea) for three months, correct, Op?
You want to break up with her but
* we don't really hang out anymore*
In addition, you have TRIED to give her a ride home but she already has a ride home?
Dude~~~SHE already broke up with you!
Regrets it big time now, realised I give her the world on a daily basis and wants us to carry on. So do I but struggling with how
You are not nuts, the only reason he has said you are nuts is so that you will be too scared to tell people in real life about what’s going on because you think people think you are crazy. It’s a manipulative tactic to keep you quiet and compliant. Your gut is screaming at you and you should listen to it. You know the truth. Now it’s time to decide if you are going to tolerate it or not because of you do, this won’t be first time or the last time he cheated.
he cheated on you and has ghosted you. your best course of action is to realise he's doing you a favour. please choose yourself. this man is not good to have in your life, so just let him stay ghosted.
Whatever. Ain't that what this forum is for? gtfo
Often abusers wait until their victim is stuck. Like with marriage or engagement. Are you cool with getting hit randomly?
Just to clarify for all those who can't understand your German post:
Ok, so you write to a woman whose fan you are on Instagram. She is nice at first and writes back. Then you start stalking her on her private profiles and also start asking her about it and harassing her, even though her answer to your question about her private profile clearly shows that she doesn't want to talk about it and justify herself.
You then continue to stalk her, demanding that she let you on her private profile – although she makes a distinction between fan profile and private profile. So that strangers she doesn't know personally and with whom she only writes on Instagram from time to time can't see her private profile and the information on it. Only people she considers close friends. Which you clearly are not.
You then continue to pester and harass her. She tells you several times that she doesn't want to talk to you anymore. You continue to harass her.
But still, in your story she is the bad one and you are a nice guy who is rightly angry?
Boy, get a grip on your life and learn to accept people's (women's) boundaries.
He should at least know what you want to do and also at least be interested in your goals and future plans. He messed up big time and inexcusable especially asking what is an accountant.
She’s not even remorseful. The sentence where she would have chosen him over you was all I needed to know to end it. I would not want to be someone’s second place because she will always be looking for number one. Obviously you will do what you want but she’s 2 for 2. Do you want to be a three time sucker?