It's a tough spot to be in, having feelings for your best friend while being in a committed relationship. I gotta say, it takes a lot of courage to even acknowledge those feelings, let alone consider acting on them.
But here's the dealio: it's not necessarily a black and white situation. You can love your boyfriend and still have feelings for your best friend. It's all about how you handle those feelings.
Now, I ain't no expert in the love department, but I do know a thing or two about communication. Have you considered talking to your best friend about how you're feeling? Maybe he's feeling the same way, or maybe he's completely clueless. Either way, talking it out might help you get some clarity and figure out what you really want.
I know that of course, and talked about it with her a lot before I left, and I agree with you on the last part of your message, but I love her and I can’t control my emotions at 100% unfortunately… My friend is going to leave again in about 15 days so we’ll see how it turns out
I would say that there are indications he sees you more than a friend.
Why not be forward? Make things clear that you like him?
Who knows, those 'hints' you want to drop, might have been something like this from him:
thank you for being around, with chocolate.
Hints are hot to read ? his hints have left you with confusion.
Be honest and direct. No room for misinterpretation.
It's a tough spot to be in, having feelings for your best friend while being in a committed relationship. I gotta say, it takes a lot of courage to even acknowledge those feelings, let alone consider acting on them.
But here's the dealio: it's not necessarily a black and white situation. You can love your boyfriend and still have feelings for your best friend. It's all about how you handle those feelings.
Now, I ain't no expert in the love department, but I do know a thing or two about communication. Have you considered talking to your best friend about how you're feeling? Maybe he's feeling the same way, or maybe he's completely clueless. Either way, talking it out might help you get some clarity and figure out what you really want.
I know that of course, and talked about it with her a lot before I left, and I agree with you on the last part of your message, but I love her and I can’t control my emotions at 100% unfortunately… My friend is going to leave again in about 15 days so we’ll see how it turns out