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Date: February 11, 2023
Go to your parents, he is making this whole thing a break but actually he is ending things with u I feel like!! Don’t bother yourself and leave him!! He isn’t worth it
Just end it.
She doesn’t seem to care much about you, and definitely cares more for the misogynist guy.
So wait until she is ready to leave on her trip, tell her to have fun, but when she gets back she will need to find a new bf, as you are no longer going to allow her to disrespect you.
Absolutely not normal. And without rancor or judgement, I think this is happening to you in part because of something you prefer or are communication. I'm not blaming you, exactly, I'm just saying I'm guessing you're participating in this pattern somehow.
I would laugh in a man's face if he tried that with me at my age (I'm 43f), though this did happen to me when I was much younger, in my 20's. I definitely had a hand in why, and I allowed it. For awhile.
I'm married to a man that I met when I was 36. I already had a whole life, like you do. Career and goals, friends, a past, a mortgage. I am respectful and transparent with him about who the people in my life are. One of them is an ex. He's pretty much my best friend, aside from my husband. I would not have accepted any relationship that couldn't accept that friendship, and the friendship also accommodates and respects my relationship: I don't air my relationship grievances with this friend, I don't tell him things that disparage my husband in any way, and there's no flirtation or physical relationship of course. My husband knows he could look at my phone and read any text he wants. He never has, but he knows he could.
But saying this friendship is part of me that has to be accepted excludes certain men, and I'm fine with that, so there's a fair chance I was weeding these guys out while dating without even really knowing it. If we went out a few times and that subject came up, if they didn't like it, we stopped talking, and that was totally fine.
I'm kind of scared for you, and I think you definitely need to tell this guy you're not going to follow his rules and he can and should GTFO. Lose his number, unless you want to be incredibly controlled. The behavior will escalate, and you won't be able to comply naked enough ever. It'll begin to change how you move through the world, and that will last even after you break up. It might take years to shake it. You'll fold inside yourself so you don't trigger his anger and paranoia by looking at and talking to other men, even in perfectly normal and non sexual situations.
It took me a year to stop looking at the floor and avoiding men in public after what I went through before. I'm naturally very extroverted and I talk to strangers everywhere, but I'd become meek and skittish.
Idk why you would pick this person, when obviously they wouldn't pick you.
Absolutely not you need to tell your wife.
This will come out one way or another. You need to be honest about it or it will look as if you’re hiding it on purpose for malicious reasons.
Never say “or I’ll find someone who will” wtf?? That’s terrible advice smh
you're fucking a woman who fucked your daughter so inevitably fucking your daughter. grossssss
For the record I was with someone who was like this, and I broke up with him. It was exhausting to be with someone who would rather argue with me than to find a solution with me. I am now engaged to someone who is not like this and we pretty much don't fight. So, think about if he's really worth your time.
Now, how to not have the argument: Stop trying to change his mind, and just focus on what you can control. Yourself. So, my ex and I were going to see my parents. The best way to to get there was to take a train that left at 6 pm and got in at 9. The next train isn't until 9:30, and gets in after midnight – late for us to go to bed, late for my parents to pick us up etc. He didn't want to take that train because he at a 5 pm therapy appointment that he did't want to miss or reschedule. That's fine, because there were also buses that literally go hourly. Nice buses, comfortable buses with big seats, wifi, and free snacks. He said “Once I was on a bus and it broke down and it got stuck for four hours, so now I now I don't take the bus.”
Literally the only thing he would agree to was the train that got in after midnight. The earlier train, nor the half a dozen buses were acceptable to him. It was ridiculous!!!
So instead of fighting about it and trying to make him see that he was being a precious little princess, I simply said “Okay, sure. I'm going to take the 6'clock train. You take whatever transport you want. If you get in before 11 we will pick you up. Otherwise, there are always cabs at the train station – the address is x, and I'll make sure the downstairs door in unlocked. Looking forward to the weekend!”
In this way you control the situation by controlling yourself, and you don't have a fight. (He got on the 6 pm train with me without further discussion).
I like to arrive at airports early. He hates having to wait at the gate and waits time his arrival so he can get to the gate and walk onto the plane with no waiting. I said “Sure, I'm going to leave at this time, I'll met you on the plane”. (Note, I said on the plane not at the gate…I was getting on the plane regardless of whether his late-ass arrived).
He left the house with me and got to the airport early without further argument.
So, wherever you can, control your behavior and don't control his. So if he's yelling at you and you don't want him to say “Yelling is unacceptable to me, so I'l going to leave now. Let's try this talk again tomorrow.”
I've find that I get my way most of the time avoid a remarkable amount of fights this way.
My guy… YOU are the side-piece.
While “loose” isn’t the correct terminology, muscles will contract more or less depending on how your body feels. If you really enjoy riding him, your body will react that way making muscles relax more and you will obviously be more aroused making that sensation. Try different positions with him and let him know his comments hurt your feelings. BTW just as an added tidbit.. women give birth and go back to normal size. “Loose” isn’t a thing 🙂
He’s not your friend, move on.
Because he’s not an infant. He’s 20. Why would I think back to his baby yrs? I wasn’t crushing on him as an infant. That would be disgusting yes. But I met him when he’s 20 yrs old, not 20 months old. There’s no reason to think back to the past when it has nothing to do with now. Also why care since he is legal and happy? How is he being harmed? He chose me and chased me and can choose who he wants and understands what makes him happy. No one preyed on anyone lol. We just click and that’s it.
I’m a little confused if y’all have ever talked about what you are and what you’re doing because it’s clear you are both expecting something else entirely.
Did the wife find out?
Wait whoa. He is degrading you for listening to porn, when he actively WATCHES it. Dude he has a double standard for women and men. He's allowed to watch porn “because that's just what men do”, but women are supposed to be “pure and innocent” so they shouldn't. Do you really want to spend your life with someone who tries to control who you are? You can't even be open with him in the bedroom because he shuts you down every time you try to have a conversation. You even said he watches stuff you actively want to explore WITH HIM and he just shuts you down. I'd honestly say don't play his mind games. Shut it down here and let him and his friend figure it out. Find someone you CAN have these conversations with.
I’m praying this is fake/rage bait.
If it’s not, oh my…you married a terrible human. Don’t appease this MF. Take that sound machine, tell him to shove it up his @$$ while he’s walking to another room to sleep. Since his ass snores too. If this is legitimately real I hope you drag this smug little man to divorce court and take every last thing you can.
Not everything though…my petty ass would make it a point to leave him that sound machine in the divorce.
Walk away. Now.
Men gossip more than women? Any evidence to back that up? Cause it sounds like crap
Manipulative & childish! Your husband needs to grow up & realise that this is a 2 way street.
Can I dm I finally broke off with him
That's horrible, I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope your dad's doing better.
Thank you for the correction, tbh, seeing the BIL hit on his widowed SIL seems worse especially since he's married
The dishonesty is a bit concerning though I can see why she chose to lie. As for the age difference,22 and 18 is a perfectly reasonable difference. It doesn't make you creepy.
A year-long affair at that.
Guilt or regret?
If him having a child with someone else isn't something you think you can handle, then you did the right thing for everyone involved. You wouldn't want any resentment spilling over on to him over something that happened before you were together and over which he has no control or on to a child that you'd likely have had to spend quite a good amount of time with if you stayed. Not to mention the toll it could potentially have taken on your mental health if it was simply something you don't feel you'd have been okay with.
By the sounds of it, it's been fairly recent since the break up and it sounds cliché, but it's true that time heals. You'll be okay and one day soon you'll be more content with your choice.
Texting won’t cut it. Real conversations would need to happen
Yeah you did something bad and deserve to be accountable, but now my bet is she’s playing games to mess with your head before she dumps you in a week.
There’s no right way with this stuff, but this is a wrong way.
Personally you need to figure out why you did it on a personal level?
How do you change that coping mechanism to something that isn’t people?
How can you communicate what you need here to work through whatever didn’t happen here for next time?
Why would it be too harsh? Your quote is essentially spot on. People who are interested don't just disappear for weeks. Either way, unfollowing/unfriending and deleting their number doesn't block communication. Nothing's stopping them from reaching out, but realistically, you shouldn't be wasting time on people who've shown you that lack of interest until they reappear a period of time later likely out of loneliness.
More red flags than a CCP rally.
Thank you for your kind response. I just don't know why I want to talk to him so badly. I didn't want this to end. It feels so abrupt and I'm so confused and lost.
Wow, thank you. Yeah this explains a lot but is there any “right” way to go about things or just del with fights when they arise ?
If your gut says break up with him then do it. Your gut is usually right .
Ur a piece of fucking work holy shit. No wonder u have no friends..
It's odd that his wife didn't at least give him a heads up before coming in. Like she was looking for the fight.
Ive got to be honest, it’s not fair to expect a teenage boy to be your daily carer related to panic attacks. If I was him, no matter how much I loved someone, that is not how I would want be be spending my school day, no wonder he seems to be having so much fun in the class without that responsibility.
My ex husband was a Narc officer, and yes this is the way it goes!!!!!
Thank you, I'm going to try to work up the courage
Deep rock galactic, ready or not, halo infinite, cod mw2, and my buddy is trying to get me into star citizen
Yep, have you checked his social media lately? Any new friends?
I would not be worried because sometimes that is the easiest way out of a confrontational situation. I was alone on internship eating a smoothie bowl outside a shop. I man came up to me and asked for my number. I said no and he got upset and got closer to me. I then told him I had a boyfriend and he said things like “I don’t see him here” “that’s not a problem with me” and I said leave me alone I’m not interested. He started yelling at me and chanting random stuff and getting in my face and banging on tables. Another man was nearby watching and doing nothing. I grabbed my bowl and left to my car, cried, and could not eat alone the rest of the internship. Grubhub benefited but I did not lol.
Honestly OP,
The relationship is over, what do you really want out of it? For her to come clean, will that really make you feel better. Just know that she is/was a horrible person that did something nasty and move on. Letting her still on-line in your head will not let you move on.
If you want to do something spiteful, mail her a the pass and nothing else. No return address or nothing. No letter explaining what it is, absolutely nothing.
People don't just cut off their parents without a reason, so there's clearly something you're leaving out of this post, and I'm betting it's something you're either ashamed to admit, or it's something he's literally explained to you over and over again and you just refuse to accept it. You said your son and husband argued about politics. What exactly does that mean? How extreme are your husband's beliefs? How much did you force them on him? This is some Missing Missing shit if I've ever seen it.
He told her, he’s too nice!
I have to say that when i was studying or had a tough job, i filled my down time with 'fluff'. Easy reading, easy watching.
The brain can only handle so much complex stuff and it needs to relax with fluffier stuff.
I had hip replacement surgery recently and guess what i've been doing during recovery? i've been watching star trek. Not because it's my favourite thing to watch, but because it's easy to watch – i don't have to use much energy or focus on it.
I have tried watching the odd film here and there, but i genuinely can't focus and follow the plot on anything too complex right now. I just don't have the mental ability for it. Even with star trek i'm finding that i'm missing a lot of some episodes from sheer exhaustion – i'm either falling asleep or zoning out so much that i'm going to have to rewatch some episodes.
OP – many highly intelligent people do exactly what you do and i'm really confused that 1; you're ashamed, and 2; your bf has a problem with it.
Hi everyone, I am going to give an update. I’m planning on confronting him tonight. We will see if I’m sleeping in my car. I understand a lot of people are asking why I have stayed with him. It’s because I was holding on to hope that he would change and stop hurting me. And the sad truth is, if this wouldn’t have happened I would have still put up with it. My heart is too big for my own good.
I know it’s so dumb to believe someone would change. Trust me. But I just kept keeping that thought. He was supposed to be the one I settled down with. We were planning on building a house together and all kinds of stuff. This is just a horrible situation that I would never wish on anyone.
Why do you need him to admit it? Honest question. Why does that matter to you.
That’s the only question that is important.
Will you leave him when he admits it? Will you forgive him when he admits it? You are not being honest with yourself, you’re not being respectful to yourself, you are letting him cross all your boundaries.
You know he is cheating either accept it or stand up for yourself and leave.
I accidentally did this to wife once, I have never been so mortified in all my life.
He did bring up eye masks last night! I mentioned that the ones I've worn on planes before have been so uncomfortable, but he said he would find me a fancy expensive one that will feel amazing ??
Ok then people should suggest that OP goes to her house or something that actually makes sense. It’s just frustrating to see people giving advice when they clearly didn’t comprehend what was in the post.
To can tell him your preference.
But he's unshaved because he wants to be unshaved. You have to accept him for who he is.
I left because of my kids. I couldn’t raise them believing it was okay to treat anyone as I was being treated. Best decision ever.
Thank you for the solid advice, I appreciate it!! xx
Depending on his finances…..
This is the exact reason why.
OP isn’t interested in seeing her BF, unless he pays to see her.
OP is perfectly able to do what she wants, and she should see her friend.
But her BF is also perfectly able to realise that he is putting more into the relationship than OP is, and end it.
Um yeah, obviously DUMP and RUN. What redeeming qualities does he even have? I'm scratching my head trying to find anything here.
You shouldn’t have to beg a partner for anything and they shouldn’t want you to beg for things (unless it’s part of a consensual kink of course)
Contact the pllice and tell them about that, send her a message and say she is mentally abusing you by making this threats and advise her to get help, then block her.
Dating someone with a kid and a coparent is just a lot. Not everyone, in fact maybe not even most people could handle that situation. So if you're already having to make time/space for treating your own mental illness you may just not have the bandwidth to be with someone who's already got a family.
I must add I know I should have left her after this situation, but I wanted to see the good, I thought this was a one off episode, but now ever since the constant beating me down every single day mentally has made me feel completely defeated.
Your wife is sleeping with other men.
Your post history has some pretty crazy stuff. Congrats, I hope this breakup sticks.
Some people do not ever commit. To family, job,friends,etc. You know him better. How does he behave with his family/friends? Do not ask for an engagement. He might accept to please you, but it wouldn't mean anything. Concentrate on your career, maybe further your education and see how you feel in a year time
You know this is abuse right?
i've been getting tattoos for almost 30 years, and some of my favorites are the cringy ones from when i was younger. it's a snapshot in time, of where/who you were at the time. i find humor and joy in them. and there's always coverups if you're that unhappy in the future.
Your boyfriend is a gaslighting douchebag. My ex did that and thought it was funny. I left him because he was the joke.
You definitely should say something to him: “Goodbye, asshole.”
lol children are totally above the law.
Reason why I'm currently not working. My husband told me I wasn't looking for a higher paying job fast enough while I was in a job that mistreated me and paid me 9$ and paid someone who came to work there after me with the same skills 1$ more and refused to give me a raise. They also talked to me like I was stupid because I'm autistic and when I put my 2 weeks in tried to tell my husband I was going mental because I put my 2 weeks in. Today's job market seems to be naked to find a job I've been jobless almost 2 months with many applications in but no one seems to walk to hire a disabled person who needs special care at a job.
Even if she doesn't work though the gaslighting and her not doing anything to help him around the house like chores is kinda bad. I know I've been doing alot of the chores since I don't work since I've been jobless.
She lives an hour and half from me the people I talked to even further away
It's fine, age gaps matter less the older both people get, if both people are over 30 it's most likely not a big deal.
Run, girl. You deserve respect and way more than that.
I’m reading other comments. People have seriously done this without malice, apparently. I would have jumped to conclusions, for sure!
Yeah, sucks but probably accurate. People suck
I beg your pardon, Op.
You didn't address what I asked you.
*I still can’t believe that he didn’t have sex for SEVEN years before he met me*
She sounds like a more passive person who goes with the flow. She may be able to change this to some degree, but that may just be a part of her personality that whoever is with her will have to accept. I met my girlfriend on AFF 6 years ago and in the beginning I felt like she wasn't doing anything and it was all me. We talked, and she said she was just enjoying doing lots of new things that she had never done before. She is still more on the passive side, but now that we are way more comfortable with each other, she comes up with activities for us to do and innitiates PDA. I guess only time will tell and it depends on how much you like your girlfriend vs how much this aspect of hers bothers you.
It sounds like you may have outgrown this relationship, and that’s fine. You met during a season of your life (college) and now that season is ending and you are being drawn to new directions. However, I’d refrain from bringing up the parts about feeling out of her league or unimpressed by her. These words may be your honest feelings, but they would be needlessly hurtful to a partner that has done nothing hurtful to lose your love.
Can you see your relationship evolving and growing if you both move somewhere new next year? If not, you should bring this up with your partner now. Express your feelings of wanting to explore yourself and the world. Express how you’ve felt anxious since you’ve moved in together. But try to avoid personally insulting her, this would break her heart even more. If you can, it would be helpful to have another place to on-line that you can go after the breakup.
Who is gonna tell him
dude look at her phone asap before u get married