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I remember when I was young I was like “I want someone that will stay with me no matter how nude I push them away” and that's kind of abusive and I thankfully grew out of it.
I'm still lonely, though. But I don't push people away like that anymore.
Listen, I WAS you. I had an extremely complicated childhood where I wasn't ever really allowed to be a child. So when I was a teenager and old men pursued me and told me how mature and different I was, I believed it. Because it seemed true, and I was so used to people prattling on about how mature I was (people who WEREN'T predators).
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I remember when I was young I was like “I want someone that will stay with me no matter how nude I push them away” and that's kind of abusive and I thankfully grew out of it.
I'm still lonely, though. But I don't push people away like that anymore.
Hotel sex is great, best there is!
Really you just turn it back around and say βIβm completely uncomfortable with the amount of time your girlfriend spends here.β
Then proceed to walk around in boxers. Or if youβre bold go European and wear a Speedo.
Oh Dear, where to begin?
Listen, I WAS you. I had an extremely complicated childhood where I wasn't ever really allowed to be a child. So when I was a teenager and old men pursued me and told me how mature and different I was, I believed it. Because it seemed true, and I was so used to people prattling on about how mature I was (people who WEREN'T predators).
Spoiler alert? EVERY SINGLE PREDATOR I HAVE EVER KNOWN will ALWAYS tell the person they pursue how mature they are for their age.
He was NOT pursuing you because of your maturity or your personality. You were FRESHLY legal, THAT is why he pursued you. I can guarantee you that if 15 was legal he'd target a barely 15-year-old girl.
Please get yourself to a therapist. And please consider some sort of support group or live! forum for the countless women who went through the same thing.
Your husband is a predator. You're not a special snowflake. And please report him to the school. This is horrifying. He is grooming her, just like he did you. Don't blame her for his despicable actions. AND GET OUT OF THIS MARRIAGE.