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1. Karst, your exGF's abusive behaviors cannot be excused — but perhaps can be explained, especially if you would speak to a psychologist in your city. They may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no chance to learn in childhood). My exW has that problem. If it is an issue for your exGF, you likely would be seeing 4 other red flags.

   The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, she started showing strong jealousy over harmless events involving other women — or tried to isolate you away from your close friends and family members? She would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing them over her. Moreover, she usually would hate being alone by herself.

   Second, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.

   Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes/mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”

   Further, to “validate” her victim status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”

   Third, you generally would not see her directing her anger at casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her outbursts and temper tantrums almost exclusively would be directed against a close loved one (e.g., against you, a sibling, or her parents).

   Fourth, you are convinced that she truly loves you. But you frequently see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells around her. Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. A few hours or days later, she can flip back just as quickly.

   Karst, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?

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2. This is a lose lose situation, if your past doesn’t come up to resurface later and ruin your relationship anyway, once he finally has sex with you he will see you as devalued now. He’s making a lot of promises to you right now bc he’s infatuated, but once you let him hit and all that wears off, he’s gonna go through “post nut” clarity and realize he doesn’t actually want you. What he wanted from you is done and achieved. He might even ghost you/treat you different. In hindsight I’m glad you didn’t lose your real virginity to someone like that, someone who treats it like a trophy, and with time you will be glad too.

   Keep in mind, you’re supposed to think that it is WEIRD that he wants to take your “virginity”, he’s looking at your supposed virginity as a conquest.

   Also not saying that is gonna happen, just saying it could. Also just saying he should like you for you, but it sounds like he just likes the idea of you. If that is shattered what else is there to hold onto?

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3. A practical solution: Take turns.

   Divide the week in 50/50 or take turns so it’s more an equal labour.

   Because this schedule isn’t working for you. And it’s ok to change things if they aren’t working anymore.

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