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Man I’m sorry bro. I really am this sounds like a hard and sad situation. Heart goes out to you. I think it’s funny sometimes the world thinks oh this would be every man’s fantasy! But in reality most of us just want our partner and are extremely loyal. I have some old friends, where they started dabbling in this. Because his wife was bisexual. She joked about it until he kinda got behind it. I could tell he wasn’t too bothered cause it was other women. And he hadn’t actually been with anyone besides her. But after the fact they started having threesomes with her female friends, it ruined him. Eventually after they had a 4 some and included a guy, it almost ended then in divorce. Now they are still together but have a pretty crappy relationship. I say run man. Run for the hills. Seems like she’s a liar ? I mean doesn’t sound like a terrible person / relationship but man. Just her joking about it means she has lust and desire that is greater than her commitment to you. I’m sorry man. I just wouldn’t be able to trust her anymore
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I got a lap dance at a bachelor party about 2 months into our relationship from a random stripper. I slept with a girl like 6 days after meeting my now wife well before we were a couple who was in my friends wedding 3 years later having never seen her again in all that time.
I definitely don't want the deal with it conversation because that would make the trust thing go crazy as well.
As for the existential conversations, any advice on how to frame that exactly because that's kind of where I'm getting but I definitely don't want any ultimatum shit. I love her and am committing to making it work.
Congratulations! You now have an admission of guilt and her intention to commit a crime. She has probably done it before. Chances are this isn't the first sign of alarming behavior.
You want a marry a girl that would stop BC and even jokingly talk about reproductive sabotage? Lmao normal people don't make those kinds of jokes because they're fully aware how badly it can damage trust
You literally can’t. People are entitled to their opinions. All you can do is enforce personal boundaries. Your mom is going to think what she’s going to think and there’s nothing you can do. You can express yourself, but there’s no magic words that will make her support you
Absolutely block and move on from the woman with BPD. Not saying all people with BPD are bad partners, some are working on themselves and trying to make progress. But my husband was in a 5 year on and off dance that you described and it really messed him up for long time. You don’t want to miss a good partner because a person who wants to keep you hanging on is taking up that space.
In the future, you might try writing out disagreements so you can read them back and remember. You can also take workshops to help develop skills in this area; it takes practice not to shut down in an argument.
I was asleep and for whatever reason, dreaming about a guy trying to harm me, so I lashed out to “protect” myself.
I wasn’t fully aware of what I did, but my wife told me about it the next AM. I was afraid I’d done it, but wasn’t sure & was hoping I hadn’t done what I was afraid I’d done! Well, I did, to my everlasting regret!
All this is to say that your bf may have been in a different state of sleep where he literally doesn’t know he did it. Or, He may have a suspicion that he did, but might be too afraid to face his own actions.
I’m just trying to give you a different perspective on the incident.
At 20 yo, you can definitely decide that, even if totally “innocent”, you just don’t want to risk being punched again. God knows, you’re young enough to seek a different relationship. Perfectly understandable response. If he can’t control that impulse, then that’s reason to bail out on him, but you may – if the relationship is important enough to you – want to give him another chance.
It’s honestly because of the way dating works now with the apps, men are pretty disposable. You can just get another quickly if you are a woman so why give this guy a chance? The reason why is basically what you wrote but it’s just a byproduct of the times and pretty depressing.
Man I’m sorry bro. I really am this sounds like a hard and sad situation. Heart goes out to you. I think it’s funny sometimes the world thinks oh this would be every man’s fantasy! But in reality most of us just want our partner and are extremely loyal. I have some old friends, where they started dabbling in this. Because his wife was bisexual. She joked about it until he kinda got behind it. I could tell he wasn’t too bothered cause it was other women. And he hadn’t actually been with anyone besides her. But after the fact they started having threesomes with her female friends, it ruined him. Eventually after they had a 4 some and included a guy, it almost ended then in divorce. Now they are still together but have a pretty crappy relationship. I say run man. Run for the hills. Seems like she’s a liar ? I mean doesn’t sound like a terrible person / relationship but man. Just her joking about it means she has lust and desire that is greater than her commitment to you. I’m sorry man. I just wouldn’t be able to trust her anymore
you’re a fucking predator
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I got a lap dance at a bachelor party about 2 months into our relationship from a random stripper. I slept with a girl like 6 days after meeting my now wife well before we were a couple who was in my friends wedding 3 years later having never seen her again in all that time.
I definitely don't want the deal with it conversation because that would make the trust thing go crazy as well.
As for the existential conversations, any advice on how to frame that exactly because that's kind of where I'm getting but I definitely don't want any ultimatum shit. I love her and am committing to making it work.
Congratulations! You now have an admission of guilt and her intention to commit a crime. She has probably done it before. Chances are this isn't the first sign of alarming behavior.
You want a marry a girl that would stop BC and even jokingly talk about reproductive sabotage? Lmao normal people don't make those kinds of jokes because they're fully aware how badly it can damage trust
Run. Don't marry her lmfao
She’s cheating on you.
Colonisation is not a very happy topic. Usually the worst shit imaginable is involved. It is rarely something to smile at.
That said, if she doesn't know if she can refrain ffrom being violent, I suggest you separate.
You literally can’t. People are entitled to their opinions. All you can do is enforce personal boundaries. Your mom is going to think what she’s going to think and there’s nothing you can do. You can express yourself, but there’s no magic words that will make her support you
Careful… this may be related to her giving birth.
So this may neither be “out of the blue”.
You could have antivipated that her own parents/ father may become an issue when becoming a mother herself.
It kind of hormonally turns you inside out. And makes you all soft and weak.
And if there are unsolved childhood yearnings for validation by a father THiS will be the moment they get tangible.
That “lyon king” esk gesture to present the child to her father… in order to… what exactly we not know! speaks loud and clear of issues.
Father daughter issues, if you ask me.
So there may be no real reason there to feel blindsided! I bet you all you want she didn't see that coming either months ago.
One may well be aware of a parent being a disgusting ah with unbearable beliefs.
And still have leftover unhealed childhood issues which make one seek a parents validation/ praise.
I feel you don't see the entire picture and you may well judge her unfairly.
Tbh she’s lucky you still talk to her.
Did you find her?
Absolutely block and move on from the woman with BPD. Not saying all people with BPD are bad partners, some are working on themselves and trying to make progress. But my husband was in a 5 year on and off dance that you described and it really messed him up for long time. You don’t want to miss a good partner because a person who wants to keep you hanging on is taking up that space.
In the future, you might try writing out disagreements so you can read them back and remember. You can also take workshops to help develop skills in this area; it takes practice not to shut down in an argument.
Not everyone who's invited will attend your wedding. And a lot of women would skip a wedding at 8 months pregnant.
Keep the orginal date and be prepared that some people won't attend
I recently punched my wife of 45 years!
I was asleep and for whatever reason, dreaming about a guy trying to harm me, so I lashed out to “protect” myself.
I wasn’t fully aware of what I did, but my wife told me about it the next AM. I was afraid I’d done it, but wasn’t sure & was hoping I hadn’t done what I was afraid I’d done! Well, I did, to my everlasting regret!
All this is to say that your bf may have been in a different state of sleep where he literally doesn’t know he did it. Or, He may have a suspicion that he did, but might be too afraid to face his own actions.
I’m just trying to give you a different perspective on the incident.
At 20 yo, you can definitely decide that, even if totally “innocent”, you just don’t want to risk being punched again. God knows, you’re young enough to seek a different relationship. Perfectly understandable response. If he can’t control that impulse, then that’s reason to bail out on him, but you may – if the relationship is important enough to you – want to give him another chance.
It’s honestly because of the way dating works now with the apps, men are pretty disposable. You can just get another quickly if you are a woman so why give this guy a chance? The reason why is basically what you wrote but it’s just a byproduct of the times and pretty depressing.