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he’s not allowed to not want to. However if the reason is something that can be addressed, it should. He needs to communicate whatever underlying issue.
We’ve had a lot of conversations, and the answer he gives when I ask why is he says he is too tired or just doesn’t feel like it.
You'll deal with it for the next 18 years….I'm good…I'd rather just take the paternity test…
It so nude for me. I mean i love her. But i hate her behaviour…
I would choose nr2 but i think i cant handle this Situation.. i think about what she said to him all the time.
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Could be the guy told her not to, but yes it sounds like there was at least the possibility she was keeping her options open.
Hell, it doesn't even sound like he's sorry, let alone made an apology.
Notice that it's not that he wants to be in his daughter's life or anything like that, just “he doesn't want to die without meeting his grand daughter”. He doesn't give a shit about OP's sister.
You don’t have to ignore her but you can avoid playing into the game.
You can respond with “ I’m focused on something else at the moment”.
Or “you’re just lovely in not sure about the clothes”.
Try to be nice about it , but don’t play your part or you eventually blow up with anger when you’re exhausted by it.
Doubt he was searching for your nude pictures – how would he know that
Thank you for your response.
I've thought about couples counseling and I've told him how I felt, and every time I get waterworks and he tells me how much he loves me and that he can't do anything without me. But I am just really, really tired of putting in so much thought for him, because I've explained that birthdays and Christmas etc means a lot to me… one year my Christmas gift from him was 2 towels. I was so disappointed that I laugh-cried.
I just don't want to feel like I'm becoming like him, becoming “low effort” like him. He promised me he'd start therapy and he has, but it seems like most of the time he's there he spends his time defending his behavior or making me seem like I'm being unreasonable.
I don't even know if there's a point to couples therapy anymore. He couldn't even be bothered to go on dates with me and I feel like he doesn't care about romance in the slightest… it's just more complicated because we have a kid together. I just… I don't know what to do.
I don’t and you are right. I have already apologized to her and made right cause I love her and this post was mainly to figure out if I was wrong for acting that way which I now know I was
I really appreciate you. You have been most helpful.
I had this problem with me ex husband. He had a thing for like, cartoon sized breasts on older women. I was late 20’s, thin as a rail, and barely a B cup. I can laugh about it now, but at the time it was a huge stressor. He also had a porn addiction with erectile dysfunction. When he left me, I was neck deep in anorexia and bulimia, and diagnosed with major depressive disorder with suicidal ideation. I’m not saying you’ll end up like me—I’m a severe case. It will chip at you over time if your self esteem is vulnerable.
If the relationship is worth saving, go to a licensed therapist for couples counseling. There are many who specialize in porn addiction in relationships. If you feel this is too much, you know what to do. Breakups fucking suck, but time, space, and solid support will get you through it. I promise.
Why don't you both just sit down and talk about being non-monogamous? You're that way anyway.
Except Harry
This sounds like the beginning of a forensic file episode.
Oh my god. Honestly, you sound exhausting & dramatic.
I was in excruciating emotional pain
Not being able to talk to him was unbearable
I told him he must choose
I keep putting myself in emotional jeopardy
I ended up screaming, crying, calling him so many names
Being without him truly feels like I am dying
None of this is normal.
Relationships aren't meant to be this dramatic. If they are, they aren't healthy.
Despite the story you are telling yourself right now, if you two break up (and honestly, you really should, this whole relationship sounds like a nightmare) you will be just fine.
Break up with him. Block him on everything. Focus on yourself. Do things you enjoy with people who don't “disgust” you. Get your head on right. Stay single for a while.
It's because this sub is ridiculously sexist against men. So naturally the woman can't be wrong, must be that the evil man made her do it.
Your BF sounds like an amazing man, who clearly values and respects you. He is excited to meet your friend and her daughter, preparing a special meal. Your “friend” returns the favor by picking him apart, making fun of him, and demanding you break up thim.
I'm curious why you're on Reddit asking if you should break up with a really great guy based on the opinion of your truly toxic friend. How long have you been allowing this friend to pull you into the sewage of her life, and gaslight you with her warped morals and thinking.
You choose to continue a relationship with someone who is in a relationship with a married man. Then trashes apart a healthy relationship with a great guy who makes you happy and treats you well.
She's jealous and is doing her best to ruin what you have because she doesn't want you to be happy. She wants you to be as miserable as her. Some of what defines us is who we keep as friends. Why do you condone what she is doing? Why do you spend time with someone who has the morals of a tramp and a highschool mean girl.
You're at the fork in the road. Choose the right road. Be with a man you deserve, and be the woman he deserves. Time to leave your noxious, never was really your friend behind.
it’s not ethical or useful
I'm worried she'll think I'm a liar , even though I have never lied about anything to her but only this
i feel like … it is you who does not learn
do you have any personal examples?
I mean he’s right. No one’s going to care in 10 years that you had a bespoke wedding in the forest with faery Irish step dancers instead of Pastor Jim playing the piano on an out of tune baby grand.
The frustration I also had was that she more sees the monetary value of what I have her than the gifts themselves. The money doesn't matter much to me
Is he ok, medically? Does he have any history of drug use?
Both mums need to keep their noses out of your business.
It was his father and that story lives rent free in my head.
We have been going on dates since February.
I was pursuing a business opportunity and the education process was taking up a lot of my time and energy (the business itself doesn’t). He wanted to give me time to complete that process and make a decision without also worrying about taking time and energy away from him as a boyfriend.
Well do you actually like him? That’s an important piece. Or was it just for fun?
Those words are true I guess, I don’t wanna jeopardise with whatever is left in this friendship with some financial matters…
He doesn’t get to demand nudes or sexual encounters. B. If this is a deal breaker to him (because yes sexual compatibility is important) than you two need to have a conversation about whether or not you to can continue this relationship.
The same kinda goes with the romance thing. I think calling a partner daddy is weird personally but I do call my fiancé a wide assortment of pet names. I’d again have a conversation about what he wants and what you want and if they can’t mesh neither can you.
Not everyone is comparable. If he wants a more romantic relationship than you are capable and comfortable giving then he should go get one. You shouldn’t have to do things your not comfortable with but both of you should be happy and maybe you can’t be happy with each other.
There are some things you cannot fix. Your bf needs psychological help which is beyond your pay grade.
Life's too short to deal with this kind of BS. My advice to you is to put him back in the friend zone and move on with your life. You deserve so much better!
I was going to say that, but I’ve never come across one until I got on this god forsaken site ?
I had my MIL move in with us like this. Not only did it almost destroy my marriage, it almost destroyed my relationship with my Mil, which was good beforehand. Maybe have her move to your town of state, but not to your house. That might be a compromise.
Being insecure is pretty much part of the program as a teenager. Most people don't really gain their confidence until they've lived a little and have a real life story to talk about. So you're probably not abnormal in that regard. But as friends go, he's known this “friend that is a girl” longer than he's known you. This means that if they had any interest in dating they'd already be a couple. You will need to absorb that so you don't drive this guy away with your jealousy.
Sounds like a good follow up question for him.
They aren't always a bad thing? You have my attention…
I looked at your edit, and from what you posted before the edit, it looks like he is trying to manipulate you. He seems very attracted to the other wife, too much to want to just watch. He says he wants to just watch the other couple, but I guarantee he is planning on fucking her and then saying “I just got carried away, I couldn’t help it”. I think you don’t want this, and I think he is too immature to handle this type of encounter.
I can agree to that but I’m a female and I just wanted to talk about this situation that is occurring at hand is all without it being completely public to eyesight about some of the things her mother has sent me via text.