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Room for on-line sex video chat Suzzy-SL
Model from: lk
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1987-01-01
Body Type: bodyTypeLarge
Ethnicity: ethnicityIndian
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBlack
Subculture: subcultureHousewives
Date: April 10, 2023
1.. decide whether YOU are her friend or not. Not whether she feels like just your friend. If you want more, just move on.
Shes probably extremely depressed right now and I wouldnt take it personally.
1.. decide whether YOU are her friend or not. Not whether she feels like just your friend. If you want more, just move on.
Shes probably extremely depressed right now and I wouldnt take it personally.
Right? Who leaves in the middle of sex to hang with their friends?
I feel bad for you. ?
So, what you do is casually mention “oh by the way, I'm going to exchange some nudes with my friend”
When he replies with disapproval, all you need to say is:
“Oh. I thought since YOU think it's appropriate to do that, you wouldn't mind me doing the same.”
And then you break up with him.
He isnt as financially stable and likes to stay home, you are the one that is forcing him to go out on dates, and you are mad that he doesnt want to pay. Alrighty then.
Hospice has grief counseling and support groups for people. His wife can go to the groups too. They may even have groups that are cancer specific.
I’ll start off by saying I have put myself in the same situation as you and let it go waaaay longer than you have. I get things jumbled up on my head a lot and I end up sounding pretty stupid a lot of the time when I talk. So instead I learned in school to just lie about things since that was easier for me to keep straight. Say something dumb, just lie and make it true sounding. Forgot to leave the house on time, just lie on why I’m running late. Grab the wrong item from the grocery store, lie about why I thought it was right. Etc… lying was my default.
Let me tell you I had a crisis moment where I realized I was pretty much more lies than truth in my relationship with my wife. I started a concentrated effort to just stop lying and it was HOT. Like she would ask me something and I’d lie and then start saying, “that’s a lie, I actually haven’t done the dishes.” And it was frustrating for everyone. She was begging me to just say the f***cking truth the first time and it was so dang frustrating. “Why did you lie about that?” “I don’t know I’m a liar who lies.” I literally texted her that.
But after a few months I re-trained my brain to just not default to lies and I feel like it has helped me in all aspects of my life. I didn’t even realize how much of a liar I was until I tried to stop. It was second nature by then. It’s a lot less brain power, but it also sucks to give honest answers sometimes when excuses would be so much easier.
Get started now to make an effort to not lie and call yourself out and correct your lies if you do. Do it before it becomes even more a part of you. Once you let it become a bad cycle it’ll control you like it did for me.
Thank you for your assumptions. Two posts surely shows the total packs of my character and my relationship. One thing you said that could be true, I do need therapy. My attitude can be very nasty. Over the years I’ve been working on it, hence why she said “I do” overall, I love how you think I’m pester my wife. Which is not true, but hey that’s what you got from two post and now you know my whole life. Thank you for not asking me questions or giving me some actual advice. Have a nice day on purpose!
damn. If he was willing to end the relationship over contacting your abusive father then how much can he really love you? And makes me wonder what other power plays he will pull WHENEVER he wants you to do something
If this isn’t a blazing red flag then I don’t know what is.
He wants you to break up with your bf and date him.
Onward and upward, love. Take some time, grieve the loss, do some reading, maybe some counseling, and learn what a healthy relationship looks like so you can set your bar higher for next time.
It’s okay people on Reddit have a hot time understanding anything beyond the literal words on the page
Honestly, I would choose neither. Definitely not your ex. She has the nerve to complain about always being second choice when you're literally her contingency plan? She left you when she found something she wanted more, then came back to you after it failed.
The other one sounds like she's enjoying the attention you give her, but unwilling to commit. It's OK to continue talking to her if it makes you happy, but I would recommend against investing too much in her. She probably finds validation in keeping you on the hook.
She didn't quit her job but he did prior to this and they keep seeing each other after that too.
She and i are living in different continents, that's why we were planning to get married and she was going to move here. Now idk what to do.
She’s using the nuclear option of wanting to break up to manipulate you Dude. A girl does that, you give her what she’s telling you she wants -you return her to the streets, especially when she’s such a leech.
A bright red flag. Leave.
I moved out due to his drinking. He was becoming biligerant on a regular bases. And I asked him not to go out to drink and he still went. I told our kid and I wouldn't be there when he got back if he went out
I’d tell you what I think of him but I’d be banned for not being civil. He doesn’t care about you in the slightest, all he cares about is how some of the most traumatic times of your life is affecting how often he gets his ehem, Johnson wet.
Do yourself a favour and please break up with him. You deserve more than this.
He just revealed his desires and you have every reason to be upset if it was never mentioned before and you are monogamous. I wouldn’t ignore it if I were you and have an open conversation where he feels comfortable opening up so you can reassess where all of this is coming from and both move forward more comfortably with trust.
don’t you want to be able to share new experiences with a partner? to figure out life together as a team and work through all of its stages?
instead you’re going for men who already have their lives together except they don’t have a partner; why do you think that is? if they had it all together and were perfect in every way, why aren’t they dating someone their own age?
date someone your own age. learn with them. grow with them. experience life with them. you don’t need someone who already has their life figured out, you need someone who wants to figure their life out with you.
You need to “think” more and “feel” less.