You are not her therapist and not her scapegoat. If Bob is so much better than let her have at it. For people like this, the grass is always greener elsewhere. She is transferring her trauma onto you. Best thing you can do for yourself is to fund someone else who can appreciate your efforts. Dont ever change who you are bc of her.
Speaking from a person who was your gf once upon a time.
Red flag. Big red flag. If he gets this angry over sponges imagine what else he will get angry about. Run. Run far away from this man.
You are not her therapist and not her scapegoat. If Bob is so much better than let her have at it. For people like this, the grass is always greener elsewhere. She is transferring her trauma onto you. Best thing you can do for yourself is to fund someone else who can appreciate your efforts. Dont ever change who you are bc of her.
Speaking from a person who was your gf once upon a time.