Do you expect her to get over your relationships that you’ve had during that break? If the answer to that is yes, then grant her the same grace you’ve given her (e.g., let the past be in the past).
In the two years you’ve been apart, you’ve both grown and matured. You have a better for for what you really want in life.
Do you really want to be with her? If the answer is yes, then look at her from the standpoint that she has chosen you, which is what you’ve indicated. She didn’t do anything that you didn’t do while separated, so accept the fact that you’ve both learned and matured and have finally found what you wanted in life. Sometimes that road is easy, sometimes that road is rocky. Be focused on the destination and not the road!
You seem to have a lot of reasons for not liking men that are dependent on your assumptions about what other people think.
That’s rather… passive aggressive. And it’s an excuse not a reason.
Maybe you should be examining your reasons – like, “I am not attracted to men” or “I was taught all this stuff and now I ick when I see a man”
Then you can focus on you and the work you need to do
OP,
Do you expect her to get over your relationships that you’ve had during that break? If the answer to that is yes, then grant her the same grace you’ve given her (e.g., let the past be in the past).
In the two years you’ve been apart, you’ve both grown and matured. You have a better for for what you really want in life.
Do you really want to be with her? If the answer is yes, then look at her from the standpoint that she has chosen you, which is what you’ve indicated. She didn’t do anything that you didn’t do while separated, so accept the fact that you’ve both learned and matured and have finally found what you wanted in life. Sometimes that road is easy, sometimes that road is rocky. Be focused on the destination and not the road!