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They are two single, consenting adults. They both understand of the potential ramifications of this and deemed the reward was greater than the “risk.”
And I personally don’t think there’s anything wrong with the dynamic. A pastor isn’t a therapist. And if I had a “friend” snitch on me to church leaders I would consider that pretty unfriendly behavior. I also wouldn’t let an organization tell me how or with whom I can live! my life.
I feel for your mom. I've been in the same situation before and I know the pain that can rip your soul apart.
However, a mom should never put her child in a position of having to choose a parent. And should certainly never make it an ultimatum. That is very selfish of her. She is focusing solely on herself and completely over looking YOUR needs.
I think you should sit down with your mom and be very honest with her and tell her you will not be put in a situation where you have to choose one parent over the other. Tell her that your dad doesn't stop being your dad just because he has a different life now. Just like she wouldn't stop being your mom, if the roles were reversed. Tell her you love her, and you love your dad. Tell her you can not and will not, choose one over the other. Your discussion should be focused on you, and keeping both your parents in your life… not what happened between them. It's not a matter of what your dad did is wrong or not, it's about her ultimatum, and how that ultimatum will affect YOU.
Although your mom is viewing things through the eyes of a woman who feels she's lost everything and is more than likely in a depression, she should think of her child's needs as well. Is it fair to expect your child to choose one parent over the other? Is it fair to ask you to stop loving your dad? Absolutely not. That's why the focus should be about LOVING both your parents.
In my own case, my ex was a step dad to my daughter, but he raised her when her own dad bailed out on us. At first, when she would go to visit her step dad, I did feel a sense of betrayal. Because he had cheated on me and left our marriage for someone else. However I never said to her “you are betraying me every time you go see him”. Although she was upset by his actions, he didn't stop loving HER. And she didn't stop loving him. A friend asked me how I could handle it when she would go visit him, and not be mad and hurt. In that moment, I realized that them STILL loving each other was more important than my own pain. I changed my focus from myself, to my daughter loving both her parents and still being able to see both her parents, and KNOWING that both her parents loved her. My daughters happiness meant more to me, then my own pain.