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I mean I’m pretty sure she’d break him on the rack but ya.
You nailed your diagnosis. He’s got some weird emotional attachment. It is time for him to go. I’m sorry you’re going through this.
Lol great point
She likes being liked, but that’s it. Move on.
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He thought that she cheated and that his marriage was over. You wouldn’t go out and start sleeping around out of anger and grief?
Emotional manipulation
This is a little different from your situation due to circumstances, but I bring my mom with me as much as possible to any OB things. 1) my husband works a lot and it’s not reasonable for him to take off for every appointment, plus we have 3 kids so he knows the gist now and 2) my mom is a labor nurse and asks questions I forget about or will just be very honest with me about anything going on. She also works in the same hospital as my OB so we have kind of a banter between the three of us. My mom is on the nursing team every time I have a baby and it’s awesome. Like I said, it’s not the same, but the comfort a mom can provide is profound.
Exactly, OP please don't let it slip, think of the feelings that made you give him that ultimatum. Do you want to on-line the rest of your life experiencing his anger issues? Getting hurt and letting him do this? The other option, he keeps expressing those issues and you grow bitter of him and start to hate him, and it's not gonna be an easy break up.
Last option: INSIST on your happiness in the relationship. It's either he works on it or you're out. Very simple. Tell him that experiencing those issues are so bad, that you would rather be single and give up on the relationship. Give him perspective. Don't let it slip.
Omg girl, please please take this as a sign from the universe that you can NOT move in with this guy. You’re seeing this behaviour before moving in for a reason. This behaviour is not okay and it will only escalate.
I meant with the renovations he wasn’t like “Oh, come over to work with me.” It was just like I was there hanging out with him and would be like “oh he needs this done, so I should go do it for him”.
Maybe I’m hoping or wanting like the things you see on-line of “wow, my partner takes care of my needs without me having to ask, I’m going to surprise her with flowers”. Maybe I’m over romanticizing it. I know I do have a tendency to do that.
I do have bipolar disorder or possibly Borderline personality. I am diagnosed bipolar but have always felt it may be more borderline. The good news is that I’m aware of all of this and I was in therapy a long time before my therapist said I no longer needed help. I think I may need a different therapist. Especially considering I went through the loss of both my father and grandmother this past year.
I think your first paragraph saying I’m overthinking it is kind of also what I thought might be happening. I may be creating problems before I even know there are going to be problems. I’m trying to learn that not everything needs to be drawn out, confronted, and resolved.
No one here can give you insight on this behavior. You know your partner best. If you no longer trust her you need to have a conversation with her.
Why did you cheat on him?
Idk man watching a show without me is as bad as cheating imo….(/s)
Most people failed to read or understand your post. Your GF is not objecting to spending one evening a week with your mother.
She objects to being excluded from the conversation. This is neither your mom or your GF”s failure. You need to take control of the evening and ensure your GF feels included.
My dad, brother, and sister all wish me a happy Mother’s Day.
Wow this much older man doesn't want to commit?! Shocking
It's her apartment. they don't on-line together so not an issue.
I agree and I can definitely see myself being friends with him as we are emotionally compatible at a superficial and also somewhat deeper level. You're right that there is probably an underlying issue behind why he isn't with someone his own age.
If your father tries to guilt you, tell him you aren't entertaining it and walk away. If he continues put him in a time out and don't speak to him for a while. Rinse and repeat. At the end of the day, life is too short to make yourself miserable for other people's happiness. Refusing to engage with people who make you feel bad isn't running away, it's self care. Your father is wrong by trying to hold you emotionally hostage to get you to do what HE wants. That's not what a good parent, or person, does.
It’s beyond fair to send a letter about her feelings after 15 years.
Then told me it’s his house and he’ll do what he wants, told me to find a better place for therapy then
You should find a better place – to on-line. When you are in no good mental place, the last thing you need is a bf who does poweplays and other abusive stuff. I guess he waited until you are under his roof to show his true colors. NTA
No… I was in love with him and proposed to him and he rejected
Eric said “that’s advice that you would only give a stupid girl who doesn’t know her [body part] from her [other body part]. I’m sorry he feels that way about you.”
What a mean douchenozzle.
True, didn't think of that. Which of course makes him an even bigger AH, if that's possible.
Well, if you cant hang out on Sunday, I thinks it’s reasonable that your bf hangs out with his friend. Be more secure!
He’s an adult that has 3 young kids and a wife with a disability. He’s not stuck, he’s an adult that made choices and has responsibilities.
No one on one with another female seems tough as there’s situations that you can’t avoid. She has to trust you. I think she’s too jealous sounding with this one. Having no female friends seems reasonable as I doubt you would want her to have guy “friends” around either. Maybe you can have mutual guy/girl friends though. And I applaud the financial frugality. It’s much better than her spending everything.