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Why take a chance with someone who does not disclose a BPD diagnosis before marriage? That is already monster (your words not mine) like behavior. Mental illness does not excuse her from being a shitty person to her ex.
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Those people are also trash then just like your boyfriend.
This happened to me once with a group of friends after an emotionally abusive relationship with a narcissist ex and our mutual friend group.
He got to tell his side of the story and I was branded as “crazy” and “clingy”
I broke all contact with both parties and have never looked back. I’m not in a loving relationship with someone who never makes me feel clingy or needy no matter how many times I text him in a day. And it goes both ways!
Your language about yourself around this is screaming that you need to love yourself. Block this loser who clearly doesn’t deserve someone as caring as you and work on yourself! ?
It speaks to a complete disregard for hurting the other spouse who doesn’t know. That could be you.
This sounds like it could be an intentional pregnancy on her part. Leave though for sure. If you don't want to be a parent and resentment is all you feel for her, then staying only compounds it. Leaving is going to suck but staying will be worse.
Have a longer conversation with him about your goals for the future and how your relationship is going. Then, propose to him if you want to. Don't sit around wondering if he will propose.
Decide in advance if you would rather marry quickly in a small ceremony , marry after a longer engagement after you have bought the house together, wait to get engaged until he feels like it, wait to get engaged until you can afford a big wedding, or whatever.
Speak to him about what you would like, not hinting, not nagging, not pushing, but very clearly. Generally, if 7 years have passed, you have some idea if you are likely to want to marry or you have some issues that need to be resolved before you move forward. Have conversations to uncover that.
Not sure what kind of advice you need, you're doing the right thing by not allowing your mom to meet your child, and frankly, if I were in your shoes I probably wouldn't speak to my dying mother at all.
Your mother is a real piece of shit and so is the rest of your family for turning a blind eye to her abuse of you. She is currently suffering the consequences of her actions, both for what she did to you and what she's done to her own body. The fact that you're even willing to speak with her demonstrates how kind and not cruel you really are.
Allowing your mother to meet your child would only cause your real family pain and the only person it would bring joy to is the one person who doesn't deserve it.
Honestly she needs to find someone who is ready to be an adult and you need to decide how much longer you want to be an adult acting like a child. Insurance takes 15 minutes to set up for example. This is just weaponized incompetence and she would be stupid to move in with you and take over being your mother, which is exactly what you doing do to her
Only had to finish the first paragraph. If he doesn't let it go, break it off and forget him. Its only going to get worse if you apologize or indulge his lunatic beliefs.
Never been an atheist, an agnostic at worst. I believe there is no way we stand where we are today by an accident. It was by the grace of God I was made clean and sober after years of additions and self destruction and I know here my help comes from. ?
Am I perfect ny a chance, do I still fail fumble and fall yes absolutely but I have faith.
Assuming this isn’t a bullshit post …don’t write “an anonymous letter”. CALL HIM OUT ON IT. He’s jacking off on everything in the damn house like an un neutered puppy!! Walk in there and say, “STOP WHACKING OFF IN THE SHARED BATHROOM. THERE’S SO MUCH CUM EVERYWHERE WE COULD HANG FUCKING WALLPAPER.” And walk away.
Sometimes when we react to abuse with the same behaviour it’s called reactive abuse. There’s only so much you can take, and if it’s getting that bad then you two shouldn’t be together.