This is exactly why no-fault divorce was a mistake. In a just society, OP could divorce her husband with cause – his demands for infidelity – and not have to pay her piece of shit bum of a “husband” to chase pussy on Tinder (if she’s the “breadwinner” she’s probably going to pay for his Tinder Gold via alimony).
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This is exactly why no-fault divorce was a mistake. In a just society, OP could divorce her husband with cause – his demands for infidelity – and not have to pay her piece of shit bum of a “husband” to chase pussy on Tinder (if she’s the “breadwinner” she’s probably going to pay for his Tinder Gold via alimony).