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Date: October 18, 2022
He is abusing you OP. Do not on-line with him, do not let him sign the birth certificate and do not give your baby his last name. Make him get an attorney and you get one as well. Start documenting every shitty thing he says to you. Save all text messages and any other communications where he is abusive to you. Present it to the judge. He is in no way mature enough to be around your baby unsupervised. He's got anger problems and your baby is defenseless. I'm sorry that you have to co-parent with this wack job.
Your girlfriend is abused by her “strict” father. Of course she lies about stuff, she has no basic frame of reference for what things are going to upset other people so if she thinks something she does might make you mad then she lies about doing it.
I'm sure it's not very pleasant for you but she's acting out of fear. If you want to make this work then you're going to have to make allowances. You need to show her that she doesn't have to lie to you and that means two things: first she needs to know that she can tell you stuff safely, this will most likely mean you having to deal with stuff quickly so as to not get mad at her. Once she can be open with you, the second thing you've got to do is start sharing how you feel about things. Basically it's all about you being upset or angry in a constructive and safe way.
People who were abused by their parents are not good at relationships and make a lot of mistakes. This is why abusive people target them throughout their lives: they do not know what is right or wrong when it comes to relationships.
Either you've got to make allowances for that or you've got to break up. This particular thing isn't even remotely difficult to figure out: she's a young woman who went out without getting 'permission' (which obvs she doesn't need from her bf anyway) and then lied about it. If the lying hurts more than knowing why she did it then please break up with this poor girl but if you do please at least tell her that you understand why she did it and it's more a you problem than a her one.
Where is the other grandma? I would just be firm and tell your daughter what you wrote: you have been a full time career for your son and are tired. Tell her what you are prepared to do and perhaps the occasional emergency, but that she needs to establish a routine that includes nursery or similar.
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