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Date: January 12, 2023
GIRL.
You sound like a great person and a great partner, but you are damn lucky I am not in the same country as you because I want to shake you by the shoulders so badly right now! He *doesn't hit you*? That's ALL this redneck bozo is bringing to the table?
Leave the ogre in the swamp sis, you deserve so much more self-esteem than you have.
oh shut up?
And this guy is one of those, for sure,right? There's no talking to anyone anymore. You have to have 2 sides and hate the other side and hold up examples of things that you have no idea if they are appropriate to the situation. No nuance, no understanding, nothing, just fuck him and the horse he rode in on. Oh and all men are shit. All of them.
So she is gaslighting you in believing that you are overthinking everything, it’s your fault, and she needs space?
Break up with her and find someone who is 100% into the relationship and is going to put in all the effort.
She told you because she tells you everything. This may be uncomfortable for you but it is a good sign of a strong and healthy relationship. You could go to the spa with her next time and get a massage too to see what all the excitement was about.
No if he was I wouldn’t consider getting back with him
Jesus.
My best friends husband is my role model. When they visited me with their baby, my best friend never lifted a finger; her husband did all the nappy changes, feeding, and putting the baby to sleep.
Any guy reading this, if a woman is willing to carry your baby for 9 months and push it out of their vagina (or go through with a c-section), you better step up and make up for it. Having a baby is a team effort.
OP, I don’t know what advice I can give you but I hope your husband comes around and starts helping out.
You should talk about it when you both aren’t drunk, but it sounds like he’s getting the best of both worlds right now, especially since he’s making out with other people. He technically is told you that he doesn’t want a relationship but still wants to hang out with you in a more-than-friends way, and (in his mind) you are on board with this. Maybe he’s a decent guy that’s partying and forgetting some things that he’s saying/doing, but there is a very real possibility that he’s not.
Talk to him, and if his wants don’t line up with yours, move on. You’ll meet plenty of other people in college if he’s not the right guy right now.
“I don't want any excuses…”
Translation: “I don't want to hear any opinions that contradict my own. I've already reached a conclusion, and I am now only interested in validation.”
Too bad. Reddit's not an echo chamber. You asked for opinions, you're going to get them whether you like it or not.
Sometimes excuses are reasons. Your failure to accept it doesn't make it less valid. Men are visual creatures. They're aroused by what they can see. Almost everybody likes boobs, of all sizes, and we're gonna look at them. Looking at photos of other women doesn't make him less attracted to you. It's not a contest.
If big boobs were all he cared about he wouldn't be with you. So what if he happens across a pair on the internet once in awhile? This is your hang-up, not his. You need to develop some confidence in yourself. Stop worrying how big the boobs are on some random set of pixels and lighten up.
Porn addiction is a real thing that causes real problems. Staring a bit too long at a random hot photo does not qualify. It certainly doesn't interfere with your relationship beyond the reaction you're having to it, unless you intend to make the case he's treating you poorly due to viewing these photos.
It's not uncommon for people from sexual minority groups to find platonic friendships amongst other people in that same group. Not because they're sexually attracted to each other, but because they can bond (again, platonically) over some shared life experiences. Surely the two of you, both together and individually, have other lesbian friends. This may speak more to your own insecurities than to anything your wife, or her friend are doing. If you find that this is a pattern in you whenever your wife talks to another woman it might be worth checking in with a therapist about.
have you told him that you feel this way? that wanting more foreplay and longer intercourse isn’t just a preference but is very very important to you, and how it makes you feel used that he doesn’t do it?
First things first, your husband is an inconsiderate AH.
Now on to your health. If you truly want to improve your health for you, not for him, then you should start out making small changes to your daily routine. Maybe start by taking 10 to 15 minute walks on your work break.
You said you primarily are the one who takes care of the children, however your husband has a shorter work day then you. I suggest you start utilizing his shorter working hours to your advantage. Is it possible for you to delay going home after work to do something for you? Maybe take a yoga class, work with a personal trainer, or go for a really really long relaxing walk.
It sounds like you currently have a lot on your plate which makes it hot for you to find the time, energy, and motivation to be active. I think it’s time to divvy up this plate so that you are not feeling so depleted. If your husband has time in his day to work out for 3 to 4 hours, then he has time to help you out on this journey. If he is truly concerned about your health, then now is his time ti shine.
Please remember if you do this, it should be for you and no one else. It’s to make you happy and to make you feel your best.
Whoa, if anyone laid a finger on me or my dog after making it clear it was unacceptable, they would be out of my life before they knew what was going on!
Why on earth do you want to be with such a nasty piece of work? My husband was not brought up with pets and has particularly blunt opinions of cats (his mother hates cats) not caring for them as much as dogs, yet he would never hurt any animal unless in self defence. It's taken years for him to have the courage and understanding to even ask to pet a dog rather than refuse, avoid or give any impression to stay away. My mum's dog LOVES him despite him not being overly forward with giving him affection but is attentive to a dog that wants pets! We hope to have a dog in the future but will only do so when I am sure he will be able to cope with things such as smells, their personal space and behaviour management, even I'm not that confident yet but we want a house first and be able to plan our time around having a pet.
You can make excuses but as an animal lover I would not let anyone who has purposely hurt an animal in my house again. My mum had lost friendships from partners acting shit to her and other pets, one of her friends new boyfriends threw out family dog in a pond in the park when he didn't believe some dogs struggled to swim. Poor dog was drowning so my mum threw him in afterwards and refused to let him over her place after that.
He held you down, and choked you, in order to penetrate you without your consent. This is violent rape. Have you showered? If not, consider going to the hospital, and having a rape kit done. It will be invasive, but it will give you options. Do not delete any texts. Put in writing that he choked you in order to get his way, after you said no multiple times. See if he’ll admit it via text. I am just so so sorry. You deserved so much better honey. Please don’t go back to him, and don’t be intimate with him ever again. Hell think this is okay.
She cheated on you early on in your relationship, she continues to flirt with the person she cheated with, and you want to know if this is going to be a long term thing….
Ffs. Yes. She is a cheater, will always be a cheater, and she doesn’t care about you or your relationship with her.
So end it.
Honey, if you’re afraid of gaining weight with a BMI of 20.1, which is at the low end of normal, it is likely that you have an eating disorder. Do you restrict what you eat? Have you removed categories of food from your diet over the years? Do you over-exercise in response to eating? Do you spend a lot of time thinking about food, or your body?
If the answer is yes to some of these, consider the possibility that you have an ED that is being enabled by your BF.
Regardless, this is incredibly creepy behavior on his part and you should RUN away from this situation immediately.
I am the father of a woman around your age, and if I found out her BF was pulling this shit… he would be out of the picture so fast his head would spin.
don't play dumb. you're obviously making a different point AND insulting OP for no reason.
Low maintenance, because you said you don't want to wait hours for a response, people are busy you know. Also, you didn't say spoil every once in a while. Doing something for birthdays and holidays isn't spoiling, it's just taking care of your partner. You didn't say adored, you said BEYOND adored.
Now I'm projecting because YOU said you wanted a man that earns a decent amount and spoils you. That means that I've had women use me as an ATM??
Good day, ma'am.
Mad because I proved you all wrong?
I think you’re right, thank you for explaining. Needed some perspective
This is the age gap. He will continue to knock you down and crush your self-esteem so you don't leave him!!
He is showing you the red flags, time to go!
Thank you love. I will certainly read it❤️
You read text?
8 month. That it is FWB is only something stated above somewhere.
If they really HAD been FWB and HAD HAD sex before, why would he have ghosted her?
Like others have said – go to the police first. Report the abuse in all forms, including threatening your life if you don't return his gifts. If you have texts proving that then keep those. I won't lie – most likely nothing substantial will happen, unfortunately. But it will give you some receipts if he does try to claim you stole anything from him or if he actually follows through with any violence, god forbid.
Regardless, unless he lies to the police he'd get laughed out of the precinct if he tried to get them to force you to return all the gifts he's given you. A gift, legally, is a gift and cannot be forced to be returned (unlike an engagement ring, which is legally an agreement to marriage and if broken should legally be returned).