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How old are you both and how long have you been together?
Regardless, while you set yourself up for this, the way he responded was still shitty. He could have simply said that he prefers larger tits. Referencing his ex was again, shitty.
Still, I think you’re being a bit unfair. You started this. What were you looking for?
Ummm tell your boyfriend to worry about his own relationship with God and not to worry so much about yours. It's a very personal thing and someone cant just be like “hey, I found this religion that resonates with me….u should also now want to become it.” Like, no. That's now how that works.
You deserve better.
Sounds like she's really shy and didn't know how to approach you, but seems to like you. Go and talk to her and get to know her in person!
I’m sorry to hear you’ve gone through this! The only thing I can say is that men can be jerks, and I am a man. Generally, we don’t communicate well and we don’t deal with our feelings well either. There could be many different reasons he ghosted you, but what’s most important is that you can move on to better things now. If he was going to do something like this, it’s better that you’ve learned it now and not years into a relationship. You are too good for him and deserve someone who loves and cherishes you. Don’t settle for less and keep you head up! Best wishes!
She’s Meredith from parent trap, trying to secure her bag
No because attraction isn't a choice. If a woman likes you she will make it easy for you. You possibly might have had a chance with her but I think you said too much too soon.
What is with you people and armchair diagnosing BPD… she’s probably just a fucking psychopath nothing more.
While that is solid advice, everyone I persuade thinks of me as a friend. I’ve been trying to get over this guy but I have no idea on how to. Which is why I need advice on how too.
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No, it's not an old mindset! It's a respect mindset and you don't have any respect for him. You don't like it when people have different opinions on this. What do you plan on buying her next a new house because you don't like where she lives now? You sound like a really nice guy who is expressing gratitude to a friend (sister) and her family, but on the same token you made someone upset about it. Just out of curiosity what Christmas present did you get for your GF? I am really just wondering if she will ever have your heart like your friend does?!!
You're likely getting rejected because you're overweight.
Maybe I’m naive but they haven’t had sex in two years man. That’s not normal for a couple in their early 20’s especially since they were sleeping together prior to the two years. She’s sneaking around or there’s a big part he’s leaving out and something else is going on he’s not mentioning. Either way these people are polar opposites it sounds like.
You did the right thing buddy. I’m pretty sure she had someone else in mind while with you, that’s why she wanted a “open” relationship. Don’t take her back.
I have not deleted a single comment of mine. Point it out? Where?
Do I need to add delusional to disingenuous?
Yes.. But he's not planning on taking it to the later, committed stages with her.
Also, it's not like he's disrespecting her, or necessarily being unkind. Hell, I'd argue that sleeping with your best friend (who clearly has feelings for you) and then continuing to try and pursue a relationship without setting boundaries with the best friend is disrespectful to whoever you're trying to date, and unkind to the friend.
Yes, social pressure, all that. But I don't think what he did was wrong. There are better ways to do it, sure. But there's better ways to do everything.
“I guilted a man into providing for me, but he's not providing enough!”
So… You have a relationship with this celebrity, he is married and doesnt want you telling anyone about, and it isnt sexual? Im calling BS right now. Girl, its sexual to him. Why in the world would he talk to YOU of all people? Celebrities arent just hitting random people on the internet up to make friends. They hit you up to have sex with you. It may not be sexual yet, but I promise if you continue this it definitely will turn sexual.
Also is there anyway I can get the money my boyfriend is due to him?
Thank you, this is a good way to look at it
My company has a mental health support service, good idea
That’s exactly the vibe I was getting from this post! Perhaps his definition of being a teammate means “I work therefore you have to do all the childcare and chores” and now that he’s having to step up he’s feeling like it’s unfair to him. But I wonder if she felt the same ways for years and finally got the courage to ask him to do more around the house since she physically can’t while she’s pregnant.
You're not a child, he's not in charge of you. And that fact that he thinks he's some kind of selfless white knight / father figure savior with no remorse makes me afraid for you. When he thinks you're making the wrong choice, he feels entitled to take that choice away from you. He will pull something like this again, whether it's behind your back or out in the open.
Try thinking about other scenarios where you could be “putting yourself in danger.” For example, if you want to solo travel someday and he thinks the destination is too dangerous, will he make you miss your flight? This happened to my aunt, her boyfriend hid her passport and pretended he didn't know anything, going behind her back to “protect her.” His attitude is going to affect your life in more ways than you may realize.
It's not your job to fix this. You got what you wanted from him. He's the married one. She's the dumb ass for taking him back.
It's on them.
And it's clear that he doesn't want to get better. OP can't force him to get treatment. This is something that HE has to decide on his own and it is clear from his posts that he doesn't see himself as sick.
This man has lied to her for 20 years. She doesn't owe him shit. If he wants to get better he can do so on his own or continue to be the sick individual he is.
I had a friend who would do shit like that.
I asked him to stop, and he did.
Something is wrong with this story OR with this friend.
Who thought having a child at 21 y/o when you've known each other for a year and she has no job (?) was a good idea??
You're 23. You're supposed to want to party and go out dancing. I don't know why you think that's childish – does your boyfriend tell you it is? Is he telling you he's so mature and patient compared to you, or is this your own opinion?
You have nothing to feel bad about. You were 18 and your boyfriend was 23 when you started dating. Now you're 23- you realize there's a difference between being 18 and 23, right? And your boyfriend has chosen to stay with you even though he's almost 30 and understands there's a big difference between being in your early 20's and your late 20's. He's going after someone who's still learning and growing on purpose. So, don't feel guilty.
honestly sounds like he could be seeing someone else in private, have you looked into this? it’s a possibility to consider as the evidence provided is too damning.
I edited the OP to include it. It’s literally at the top of the post now. I left it out originally because I thought it was irrelevant until people started questioning the age difference, and that’s when I thought it might be important information to include.
Plus there are a lot of crap therapists out there that are licensed
t h e r a p y
You need to dump that person ASAP!
I think this is really unnecessary to make note of considering what I’m going through.
It’s an important law. It was largely created after a dude killed a 15 year old who broke into his garage as he was actively running away.
That is a weird thing to root for, being able to kill someone who is actively trying not to hurt you and to get away from you. I would reflect on how little you value human lives tbh.
She's having a trauma response. That's not something you can just “get over”.
Trauma therapists are what's needed here.
Yeah, this is a direct warning sign that you need couples counseling. If you can't afford it, there are evidence-based books available, but it can be naked to work through trauma in an intimate relationship. Good luck!
These comments are insane. His behavior was violent. Him denying it even happened is a huge red flag. Milestones that intertwine people together, ie engagements, marriage, and pregnancy, are precisely the times that abusive behavior ramp up. You are right to feel unsafe.
Should you maybe have listened when he said not to touch him? Probably, and it’s worth having a conversation about boundaries. But in the face of what he did it’s a hell of a time for people to point the finger at you.
From what I understood, they were not serious about their intentions so she had to dump them.
That's good to hear. So many Reddit tales turn out the other way…
To me supporting and motivating a decision also involves being realistic about it, and supplying information about the costs and benefits so someone has considered all possible outcomes before attempting that decision. I don't think it ever helps anyone to not plan ahead for the potential that their action might not work how they think it will.
You yourself said “if it did get worse, we move.” That's exactly what I'm saying – you have to plan ahead in case it does get worse.
Have a nice day as well! 🙂
just texted the girl and she let me know a lot of stuff. Basically, he wasn't cheating. Looked like he was trying to reconnect (they started talking just a month ago, so much time). She seems nice and is dating. But, she did tell me that he did talk to her other times. He totally hid that from me. She also told me they have kissed some times in the past (when he was talking to me, but we were not dating yet but I thought we had something). He never told me about ANY of this and learning about it…. I don't know what to think. if I had known that he was kissing some random girl while I was talking to him in a not platonic way at all, I would have left him. maybe a couple conseling is necessary.
He’s not some project for you to fix. It doesn’t even usually work because they unravel themselves faster than you can lovingly put them back together. If you want a healthy supportive marriage some day look for someone who’s already fairly healthy.
Wow. You seriously need to get a grip. You’re getting jealous of her speaking to other people when you have a wife and family at home?? WTF. She’s young enough to be your daughter and if you pursue this, I guarantee you’ll not only lose your wife, but your kids too. Cut contact outside of work and put the effort into your wife. Your wife that has given you children deserves that much. Jesus, ain’t no fool like an old fool ?
What is narcissism for 1000$, Alec
Oh yeah absolutely, it's just irritating to treat a vasectomy as something extremely minor when it generally isn't considered reversible and comes with it's own set of complications. As with all contraception it should really be discussed as a couple to figure out what makes both parties uncomfortable, and yeah I think vasectomy is a better option than birth control and tying tubes. No one should be pressured or shamed into having procedures like this.
The outrage over OP suggesting tube tying is ridiculous though. The relationship is clearly not healthy, and if she's the one with the problem about having kids then yes, she should absolutely go through with the procedure. Even if they divorce she's still going to get pregnant from unprotected sex, and it will likely be harder to control than from someone you know.
If you're just concerned for your girlfriend's safety, then the worry about being “taken for a fool” doesn't come into play at all, because you know it's not about you.
okayy I hear u, imo this girl seems the type to take advantage, my gf is naive and this girl has evidently taken advantage of her naivety whilst under the guise of 'girl friends'.
Me not wanting to be taken for a fool rrly plays into her touching my gf in ways I find inappropriate esp with what I heard that happened between them. I feel like I'm being taken for a fool bcs this girl would say lowkey vile shit to my gf abt a sexy top and stealing her from me and while doing so tracing her finger down the middle of her chest, and then not being able to greet me normally. I didnt expect hugs a simple hi how are u didn't even happen cos she didn't look me in my eyes which initially put me off and made me thing something happened. also I think it's important to add that after the 'edible arrangement' my gf said that she felt v weird after it and she didn't like it and didn't want that to happen. she had no reason to lie to me as this happened way b4 our relationship and my gf doesn't swing that way.
I think she seems very comfortable with her friend touching her up. but I am not esp knowing what I know and seeing what I've seen. it's honestly fkn weird.
I don't think she's unfaithful I think she doesn't think abt what's happening in the moment I think she's blinded by their friendship that she doesn't see the inappropriateness in the situation at hand.
He seemed to have some substance abuse issues, some mental health problems that he refused to address, and they fought very frequently. She said the relationship had been over for months before she finally decided to pull the plug on it.
Then you obviously aren't very good “friends”.
Find me someone with career prospects and aspirations who DOESN'T have student debt.
It’s like rain on your wedding day.
im gonna be doing this most likely, i wanna express something tho. I feel like this is way more nerve wracking then it should be. Its been 5 months since my last relationship and it was toxic and i got manipulated naked. I think just this small interaction has me so shook up bc im not used to putting myself out there and the amount of interest this girl seems to have is the most ive gotten in a while and i don’t usually get that. do you know what i could do to maybe get rid of some if this anxiety around it? i feel like im being dramatic
“How do I spell your name again?” Or open your Instagram/social media and ask her to add herself since you guys get along so well— anytime you want to chat or send funny restaurant memes/videos
I have videos and pictures that have been shifted from HDD to HDD, to cloud storage and back again. When I right click and go through the properties it still tells me the time and date the picture was taken, even the phone it was taken on
Yeah, her previous relationship was over a year and fell apart for the same reason
Although they were long distance at the time and she said it played a part in it
I really appreciate your honesty. You’re right, I think it’s naked for me to believe that he has malicious intentions when it’s seemed like he really loves me (talking about marriage, our future together, being with me forever etc). But I think this is a part of him he can’t get rid of, no matter how much he “loves” anyone.
I want to be able to articulate what I want without the conversation dissolving into an attack on my friends or my decision making skills.
You can't. He will never allow this. Ever. He's incapable.
You, he can control, he's been doing a good job of it so far. Everyone else, he can't. So, make everyone else the enemy. Your sister's the enemy. Your family's the enemy. Your friends are the enemy. Everyone on reddit saying how much red flags there are is the enemy. Professional therapists are the enemy.
It is completely sane and rational to be open-minded and consider other people's opinions as a way to inform your own opinion. He doesn't want you to be informed. He wants you to be controlled.
It's funny how his opinion is exempt from the whole “don't let other opinions sway you” thing, isn't it? He doesn't seem to care when it's his opinion that's putting pressure on you. Only when it's anybody else's.
I've done the broken girl thing. It sucks.
Flip a coin on whether you'll soon find out she slept with some rando while drunk.
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I totally get it and have been thinking more about it.
I still think that it's messed up for how he's gone about this week and trying to make it seem like I'm just being emotional without his taking accountability, especially the first thing being a gaslighting response, but I also think I could have handled this a whole lot better.
We'll see how the conversation goes later.
Have u considered not being a pussy
He’s jealous bc he knows what he does behind your back and expects the same from you.
He’s setting up conditions and roadblocks to either:
-delay proposing until he finds the person he actually wants to marry
-testing how much control you will allow him to have if he bestows marriage on you
After 8 years you KNOW if you want to marry someone and you adjust your expectations (ring wearing) to suit their preferences and needs.
This means he will only marry you if can ‘change’ or control aspects of you OR he’s grasping at straws to keep you around until he finds something better.
I’m sorry. It’s not meant to be.
OP likely won’t answer as he hasn’t elsewhere ITT
Dad already opined that he wants to wait for a more favorable real estate climate. No, he's staying there indefinitely.
Since ur not being specific, Im going to assume ur talking about after being with said person. With almost 80% of sexually active adults having it, its likely whoever new u meet of interest has it. Not sure what the obgyn has to do with anything.
Two baby mamas should have been an immediate “no”. Why would you insert yourself into someone else's drama… and you know there's drama there.
Info: what is the exhibit?
Thank you Orion
Well you said you have a bf so that's all the excuse that you need.
It’s not “on” young women to make men comfortable. It’s that this is OPs job and work environment and OP (quite reasonably) probably doesn’t want to do anything to make this situation any more uncomfortable than it already is. They want to preserve their ability to feel safe and ok working there and not make it more tense or awkward or uncomfortable
for them
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that's really not what i got from it. i got that OP is worried about making things awkward, period. if she wasn't, she would have pointed out that this man put her in an awkward position. she didn't say that, though. she said that SHE will make things awkward, and writes as though she thinks its completely normal for this much older man to hit on her at work.
it's not normal. that's the point. she has protections at work, and it is not HER job to make creepy-ass men uncomfortable. young women don't realize that because of the way they are socialized to make everyone comfortable.
get it now?
What hes doing is bullshit. Can you get your pets?
Definitely use this time of separation for you to untangle yourself from the feelings you have for him. He can't figure out if he loves you, but even if the result is that he comes back and says he does, will that mean more chores for him or will you just go back to the same situation as before?
Take this as an opportunity for yourself, you deserve someone who loves you and wants to help you in everyday life, not someone who throws you out of your home to get a break. If you can this would be the perfect option for you to prepare for a breakup on your end, you deserve better
Discuss that, though. Hear her meaning about this out once she is back.
Better be on the same page.
Basically all of your comments are defending your gold digger tendencies OP.
he does this emotional gesture, clearly meant as an act of love, and you immediately take offense and revert to “he should have given me money.”
OP, you don't deserve a partner if you only view them as an ATM.
I don’t blame you for feeling tired, anyone would be after carrying all the weight in their relationship. This man has put all his weight onto you, and that makes it harder. Do you have any friends or family you could stay with during separation?
To me it just comes off as a matter of liking the painting but not liking the memories/person attached to it anymore, especially now with a new partner, telling you directly wouldve probably made you feel as if he wasn’t over his ex, when that’s not the case
She’s not “scum”, she’s 22 with two kids and a lazy husband, she’s probably struggling and desperate. That doesn’t make it right, but she’s not “scum”, Jesus Christ.
Off course you are so interested in the landscape only… I understand you trying to trick your GF but I see through you. Its really obvious what you are trying to do here. But sure continue to try and get that validation you crave.
Lol okay I do deserve that…