I'm so sorry for your loss. With that said, please don't guilt your wife or add to the pressure she's under. I'd say this is best left until your wife's mom moves out, at which point you can celebrate your closeness again and tell her you've missed her, but telling her you're not happy, when she doesn't really have a choice, may just add to your wife's stress at this point. Think about what you're trying to achieve. Are you trying to get your wife to kick her mom out? Are you trying to make her ignore her mom and spend time with you instead?
Go swim. You are a grown ass woman and donβt need his permission.
I'm so sorry for your loss. With that said, please don't guilt your wife or add to the pressure she's under. I'd say this is best left until your wife's mom moves out, at which point you can celebrate your closeness again and tell her you've missed her, but telling her you're not happy, when she doesn't really have a choice, may just add to your wife's stress at this point. Think about what you're trying to achieve. Are you trying to get your wife to kick her mom out? Are you trying to make her ignore her mom and spend time with you instead?