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Date: March 9, 2023
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Toxic masculinity has a lot of victims. It's natural to cry, to have emotions. I hate how emotions have been assigned genders, it's ridiculous.
I was raised in a house where men did NOT cry, even the girls were not allowed, my dad would “give us something to cry about” if you catch my drift.
I never saw men cry, till my now husband. When we were just dating his cat died and that was the first time I saw a man cry, not on TV. It was jarring for me, I felt helpless and didn't know what to do, because I had never been in a situation like that before.
We've been together 20 years and I've seen him cry a few more times, and each time gets easier for me. It's the feeling of being helpless and not knowing what to do that causes me to freeze.
I'm not saying this is how your girlfriend feels but you owe it to yourself to ask her. Sit down and have an honest conversation and let her know that you've noticed some changes after she saw you cry and you want to talk about it.
OP, it's okay to cry, you are human and that is a very human emotion. It takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable. I hate being vulnerable, I've been learning how to do it myself. It takes time, practice and a willingness to do it.
To everyone saying to move out do y’all know how much rent is? And what the minimum wage is? Moving out at that age without any sort of financial assistance is a fucking terrible decision for a person’s future.
OP, it may suck for a bit but it’s well worth it to just abide by your mom’s rules for now and be smart with your time at home. Get some good skills or a college degree and get yourself a well-paying job then move out and on-line how you want. On the side note, it is indeed usually not a good idea to be staying over at a person’s place too early in a relationship. Your mom is kinda right on that one.