I wouldnt say so, I mean you guys can also keep your own lifestyle or also find activiteas that you both like to do. In that case nobody needs to flip anything.
Sounds like you behaved very disrespectfully and maybe you should permanently limit your drinking for future relationships, unless you want an open dynamic.
Possibly, but she's still married to the guy over 30 years later, so even if it was a white-picket-fence checkmark marriage it worked for both of them.
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This is bullshit and you know it. The reason you’re mad is because the thought of him being submissive in such a visceral way is repulsive to you and has killed your attraction to him. You know that’s prejudiced, though, so you’re searching for an acceptable explanation that makes him the bad guy.
Do you ever spend the night at his place? Have you met his friends? Does he ever invite you to go with him to meet up with his friends?
Wanting to see your boyfriend more than once every 4 days or wanting him to sleep over more than once every two weeks and wanting him to stay for breakfast is normal. It's ok to want more than that.
Be yourself, be confident, don't beg for his time. Tell him straight up you want to spend more time together and see how he responds.
your cats aren’t even really fighting, swats and hisses here and there aren’t a big deal so he’s being dramatic as hell and also a dick. i wouldn’t wanna be with someone who would threaten something like that
If this is your level of communication then it starts with this. You need to be able to discuss problems and not avoid. If you take offence then nothing gets solved.
You never get anything in this life without asking for it.
You are completely in our own head. You are inventing issues where there are none, and letting those imaginary issues prevent you from living life to the fullest.
You said she doesn't care about money, believe her.
You tried that years ago and you’re still there? It’s not your boyfriend that needs help, it’s you beloved.
You need to ask yourself why you stay in a relationship where affection is not being served?
Answering that question is the only way you’re going to see your worth and the only way that you’re going to realize what you deserve.
Staying in this situation for years, illustrates that you think you deserve this right now for some reason. Ask yourself the naked questions.
I wouldnt say so, I mean you guys can also keep your own lifestyle or also find activiteas that you both like to do. In that case nobody needs to flip anything.
Def grounds to bail. Super duper huge red flag
That sentence was so mangled I didn't even catch that
Sounds like you behaved very disrespectfully and maybe you should permanently limit your drinking for future relationships, unless you want an open dynamic.
Possibly, but she's still married to the guy over 30 years later, so even if it was a white-picket-fence checkmark marriage it worked for both of them.
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This is bullshit and you know it. The reason you’re mad is because the thought of him being submissive in such a visceral way is repulsive to you and has killed your attraction to him. You know that’s prejudiced, though, so you’re searching for an acceptable explanation that makes him the bad guy.
Exactly
Do you ever spend the night at his place? Have you met his friends? Does he ever invite you to go with him to meet up with his friends?
Wanting to see your boyfriend more than once every 4 days or wanting him to sleep over more than once every two weeks and wanting him to stay for breakfast is normal. It's ok to want more than that.
Be yourself, be confident, don't beg for his time. Tell him straight up you want to spend more time together and see how he responds.
I was thinking this when he said she's pregnant again ?
How is someone asking you to get naked manipulating you?
All of a sudden she forgot she had a husband? God, people are so dense.
your cats aren’t even really fighting, swats and hisses here and there aren’t a big deal so he’s being dramatic as hell and also a dick. i wouldn’t wanna be with someone who would threaten something like that
Then how did he react? After hitting you in the face, what was his reaction?
Also my first time making one of these so if you need more info, dw I can clarify (◕દ◕)
I knew a girl like this. She was severely sexually abused and the trauma made her throw up.
Hounding you for information to help you?
If this is your level of communication then it starts with this. You need to be able to discuss problems and not avoid. If you take offence then nothing gets solved.
I think OP is a troll. But if not she is having a naked time with logic.
You never get anything in this life without asking for it.
You are completely in our own head. You are inventing issues where there are none, and letting those imaginary issues prevent you from living life to the fullest.
You said she doesn't care about money, believe her.
Invite her over.
Honestly, I can't say. I've only been in one true relationship and it wasn't very positive, so I don't want to fill your head with my experiences.
I can only hope it gets better for you though. Best of luck!