Hi sorry it took me so long to update a lot has been going on and I honestly just couldn’t even figure out how to go about making an update post lol, but to make a long story short I was avoiding my boyfriend for a few days which really worried him since i’ve been going to his house every day since we started dating the sudden change in that pretty much let him know something was wrong. He came over to my house and begged me to talk to him and I broke down and told him about what his dads been doing, I was so terrified he wouldn’t believe but he actually did he didn’t say anything but hold me and profusely apologize. I know it seems kind of over dramatic to cry over a few comments his dad made but growing up i was sexually abused by my bio dad for years and my mother to this day blames me for it and doesn’t believe me so this whole thing with his dad and the thought of ruining my relationship with him in the same way I ruined it with my mother really horrified me. A lot of other stuff happened but to keep this short my boyfriend had a talk with his mother and his dad and i’m not really sure of all the details because I don’t want to pry but his father is no longer living with them at least for the time being. Him and his mom have been nothing but kind to me and it feels like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulder and I finally have my little safe space back :). Thank you so much to everyone who commented and messaged me it means so much to me <3
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He’s a smoker, just downplaying it to you.