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Date: December 21, 2022
Valerie Virago, y.o.
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Her wants don’t outweigh yours
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Yeah, I've sadly been getting those thoughts as well. But I don't want to believe that about her.
I wrote a short novel to her that her economy impacts me too, now that we share an apartment. And that I'm worried about her, because I want her to be able to afford food after paying for rent. She answered and apologised for being rude earlier, that she was stressed.
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Did you go to his house? Why was he there when you woke up?
Fair point.
Appreciate the comment bro.
Don't get me wrong, we love each other very much. We are happy, and we aren't abusive to each other, but when it comes to times like this, I find myself wondering if this is really love.
This dude is threatening to kill you and your family, yet you're saying he loves you “very much” and he isn't abusive? Holy shit.
You need to get yourself as far away from him, with someone you trust, as soon as you can. Consider a restraining order too.
His behavior is steadily escalating.
Please get out, OP. If not he will kill you one day
They're still both emotionally invested and he doesn't want to admit it. That's what's really going on here. If they weren't, they wouldn't be running a business together. I don't care what anyone says, they wouldn't be. Anyone who tries to feed their new partner the bullshit line of I just see my ex as a decent person is not really over them.
It may be the case that they don't see their ex as a bad person but they usually use that line as an excuse to maintain contact with them when they're in a new relationship. If you don't have children with someone, you have no reason to stay in contact with them after your relationship ends. If you're wanting to do that, you need to admit that you still harbor feelings for them and you should not move on to a new relationship.
It is not fair to a new partner to have to carry the baggage of an old relationship. People can say that their new partner is being jealous or controlling because they have a problem with their partner talking to someone that they used to be romantically involved with. It's a slippery slope towards an affair.
Like I said, there's no reason to maintain contact unless you have children and even then it should be strictly business. Anyone who is not ready to let go of their ex, especially emotionally needs to admit that they're not over them and not drag a new partner through all that.
I really hope you can find a safe way out. You’ll be in my thoughts, you don’t deserve such disgusting treatment.
To be honest as a woman if I lived in a place where abortion was illegal (don't know if that's the case for you) I would also be like this probably… I am Terrified of pregnancy. Her position is completely understandable. Getting pregnant changes your life forever.
If it's not what you have in mind and you will not be able to be ok with that arrangement, leave her now. Don't waste both of your times. Consider talking to a therapist about it, it might help clear your thoughts, because everyone is so sex-focused now that of course your friends are going to tell you to leave her but that might not be how You see the situation. Sit with yourself about it and decide what's right for You and You only.
I’m not insecure, I’m just thinking he’s lying? Because where are the other recent phone calls? I just don’t like being lied to. That’s all.
Thank you, I think I will look into a therapist ❤️
At this point, with millipede posts about this, seems like a troll targeting a rage-bait subject.
Honestly thought in this and the reason the other guy completely panicked when the child called him dada might be because he is and they are afraid OP will catch on. The fear maybe was because he thought OP put the dots together …
Okay but what's the reasoning? How should I tell her? We would have to move somewhere else later on, I would only afford a place for myself here.
“Maybe I've got the wrong end of the stick here but I think you both need to work on your communication within this relationship. Do you think you are communicating your needs clearly?”
We were on dc the whole time so if she needed me I was there. My headphones cable is long enough to have them on while I sleep. I told her that I'm tired and I'm going to take a quick nap.
Look around. Reread all your comments. That's where we're getting it from.
If it doesn't bother you then why bring it up? She's not doing it anymore right?
Yes! I think that's exactly what he's trying to say. It took HOURS trying to deduce that!
No I wasn't joking, he's a therapist but mostly works with children. I think the way he has to communicate with them (small words, lots of examples) shows up in our adult relationship communication and presents as “I don't like you” instead of “I'm frustrated” or “you're being stubborn”. I communicate much more concisely than he does and I'm I more conscious of my word choice (I'm a high school teacher).
I have the same question about him staying with me. Is he here because she doesn't NOT like me or his he staying despite that?
Thanks man, I'll try to change myself and be a better person.