Iβm not saying he is incapable of change but this is behavior that can be easily slipped back into. Going back to him is almost like saying βYes what you did was terrible but Iβm willing to look beyond itβ
You need to protect you and your daughter from being victimized by him suddenly popping out of your life over something as silly as infidelity.
Tldr: if you think he is capable of change and going no contact with the ex then it may be worth exploring going back. He needs to prove that to you and your daughter though.
Never leave your children with her alone OP
Iβm not saying he is incapable of change but this is behavior that can be easily slipped back into. Going back to him is almost like saying βYes what you did was terrible but Iβm willing to look beyond itβ
You need to protect you and your daughter from being victimized by him suddenly popping out of your life over something as silly as infidelity.
Tldr: if you think he is capable of change and going no contact with the ex then it may be worth exploring going back. He needs to prove that to you and your daughter though.
Seriously, how do people get far enough along to marry someone like this? I feel like this would end the relationship within a year.